Big Dicks in the Hobby: Accepted or Rejected?
As an exercise to the casual observer, which of the following is most likely a true statement?
A) Providers, and women in general, really do not care about cock size.
B) Guys who "hobby" are statistically more likely to be well endowed than the general population.
C) Everyone here is a lying MoFo.
Originally Posted by hgritstoo
Oh, I forgot to answer your multiple choice questions:
A. Mostly true.
B. Completely false.
C. Probably.
I don't know about you, but if someone has a HUGE cock I'd like them to let me know. I'm not a spinner, and I'm not a BBW either. However, I'm still a bit tighter "down south" then I'd like to be. If someone is REALLY huge, I'd like to know so there are no surprises. Guys have been nice enough to let me know beforehand, and I've been able to handle them and enjoy myself, because theres something about it going in slightly deeper that drives me crazy.
In my personal life, there was a man that I dated briefly, but his member was so HUGE, it was just too BIG for it to be enjoyable. I just couldn't see myself living with that day in and day out, getting married to that.
-Also, I've met biracial men, and they were not HUGE, they were average. So that stereo type is just that, fluff. So to answer your question, I think it depends on how big were talking about....
I get compliments from the ladies I appreciate but not a huge guy. It's nice but I have always treated it as lip service.I have only been denied certain services but never the main course.i have also been denied certain positions.
Tatiana......just saw your showcase and, btw......daaaamn.
I like buying jeans. It's probably the only thing I will go to the mall to purchase. My size in Levis is 32/32. A few years back I heard that Levis was fudging the size of their jeans. So a 32/32 was really a 34/32 or even a 36/32. It seemed to me to be a marketing trick to get guys to buy their jeans. That messed with my head bad. I consider myself average size (5 to 6" I've never measured) so when I see a provider and "my little friend" makes an appearance and she breaks out the magnums it messes with my head. Is this a marketing thing or does she see something I don't. I was freaking out until I had several providers tell me that I'm the right size because while I don't have length I have girth. This made all the difference because I can now go about my business without focusing on my member and focusing on the task at hand. Which is to pound the sh*t out of a BBW/Cau/Latina/Black pussy. And not necessarily in that order. And not all in one day. That would be a record or something.
Us guys with average johnsons are super sensitive about our size to begin with. The comment about a bean in an empty coffee can was beyond necessary. I would always wonder if she felt that way the times I was with her. I have had some good times with Fancy but all good things come to an end.
Just saying...
Setty
Tatiana......just saw your showcase and, btw......daaaamn.
Originally Posted by Energy
Thanks Darlin, Sorry I'm not down south to enjoy you southern gentlemen. You all seem like a great time
I don't mind any size, and I've never met a penis I didn't like. But if you see that last 5 inches not going in, let's not try to force it. Respect my body, and I'll respect yours.
I think I've seen every variation of size. I've never turned anyone down. But I've popped a couple aspirin after a few sessions. LOL.
Threads on penis size are almost guaranteed to offend someone. I personally am very less than decently endowed. It doesn't stop me from seeing the ladies that I like because my encounters are about much more than that one part of my anatomy.
And please note carefully, NONE of these ladies said that they PREFERRED monster cocks or big dicks. They all said that they could accomodate them. And that's literally what they mean.
NONE of them belittled the less endowed. What some found funny was those guys who are not Monsters of cock but who think that they are. After all don't most people laugh at anyone who has some sort of delusion? Like Alfalfa who thought he was a great singer but sounded like fingernails on the chalk board? (You do all know the Little Rascals, don't you? Classic cinema!)
Remember most of these ladies have seen it all. It's not about cock size to them.
The ladies that I see repeatedly I see because they are wonderful ladies whose company I enjoy. That does include our physical encounters, but the ladies that I see are so much more than that.
@hgritstoo, I was not judging anyone, I hope that was not the impression I was giving. And I was not trying to hurt anyone with what I said. Both sexes are judged in different as well as similar ways. Not being male, I don't know what insecurities men feel. That being said, as a female, I am judged by the total package. Pretty face, shapely body, and in some cases well hung. I am comfortable in my own body, some like it, some don't, and thats ok. I truly do not care what my partner looks like(other than good hygiene of course!) or what he has between his legs. As long as he has a smile and enjoys my company and I enjoy his, its all good.
I do feel bad now, not taking into consideration how a man must feel and how my comments might make someone feel.
Us guys with average johnsons are super sensitive about our size to begin with. The comment about a bean in an empty coffee can was beyond necessary. I would always wonder if she felt that way the times I was with her. I have had some good times with Fancy but all good things come to an end.
Originally Posted by tucson
Wow, Tuscon, I had no idea you thought that you were "average." I never thought you were, in ANY way.
If you really think I was serious or conferring any type of judgement, you don't know me as well as I thought, nor I, you, evidently. That hurts and makes me quite sad, as I've always had the highest regard for you, and we've had some excellent, very memorable times together that I treasure. Have I ever given you cause to think me so shallow?
I meant nothing insulting to anyone. The point I was TRYING to make was that gentlemen tend to put too much emphasis on the size of their equipment, and some women play to that. I don't, never have. A cock is a cock is a cock. They are ALL fun. I admit that an overly-large one can be painful, even to an Amazonian girl like me. I have never given a whit otherwise, never had any thoughts at all about the size of the appendage of someone I was with. (Considering I'm a BBW, how hypocritical would that be? I know how comments on size can sting.) I have ALWAYS said there was pleasure to be had under every circumstance. The biggest sex organ of them all is located between the ears.
It was intended to be a light-hearted jab at the whole egocentricity at the center of this thread. My apologies for what was obviously an ill-conceived comment on my part.
I just wished ladies wouldn't get all worked up when I go see them thinking, Shorty, must be a myth.
This thread is getting as long as
A cock is a cock is a cock.
Originally Posted by Fancyinheels