how do u think we feel it happens to me everyday I dont do it on purpose I swear I dont shit happens u know outside of this hobby us girls have lifes plain and simple but i agree with u in some areas Originally Posted by sxyjade101Correct me if I'm wrong, but I think that most providers consider providing to be a job not a hobby. It's the clients who are paying that consider this a hobby. Most people who have jobs don't just not show up for work with the excuse ``shit happens'' and that they have a life outside of work (unless they want to be fired).