Why does discrimination exist in the hobby????

good point

that's always been a oddity
did you know a job can fire you for anything? age, race, etc
but as long as they don't tell you the "illegal" reason, you can't do anything about it

most providers dont want to see me, then I send them a picture of my have a chocolate penis that ejaculates money and they get hungry Originally Posted by blade78

Well, employment law is a complex subject, and it depends on where you live and what kind of slight you think you have suffered.

Color me confused, but I thought this thread started out as a rant by an AA guy that felt he couldn't get a legit date.

Now, we're talking about employment rights and responsibilities.

Back in the day, KC had the River Quay, and anyone could get a date there as long as his/her money was good.

The more things change, the more they stay the same...

Best,
Noah

I skimmed over this thread so I might have missed it, but did anyone mention AIDS? Black males are statistically much more likely to have HIV according to the CDC. If you were a provider, would you increase your odds of contracting HIV with this high risk group or would you instead worry that strangers that you'll never meet think that you're racist. Simple, huh?

As for J12345, don't hate the players hate the game. But if you must hate the players, hate the guys that share your ethnic background that are fucking it up for you.

Gee, I never realized that trying to argue with a chat mod would improve my chances of seeing any provider...

Let me know how that works for you.

Best,
Noah Originally Posted by NoahScape

Im not arguing with a chat mod to improve my chances to see a provider?
Im debating kenmonk in hopes he can get me to realize/learn something I didnt know before about our topic.
Him being chat mod is irrelevant, I follow his rules,etc and have no qualms with anything to do with this board. If you want to know how this all works out, watch the thread

Well, employment law is a complex subject, and it depends on where you live and what kind of slight you think you have suffered.

Color me confused, but I thought this thread started out as a rant by an AA guy that felt he couldn't get a legit date.

Now, we're talking about employment rights and responsibilities.

Back in the day, KC had the River Quay, and anyone could get a date there as long as his/her money was good.

The more things change, the more they stay the same...

Best,
Noah Originally Posted by NoahScape

alright, you are confused, you can easily see how this thread evolved into something new by reading it.

I skimmed over this thread so I might have missed it, but did anyone mention AIDS? Black males are statistically much more likely to have HIV according to the CDC. If you were a provider, would you increase your odds of contracting HIV with this high risk group or would you instead worry that strangers that you'll never meet think that you're racist. Simple, huh?
. Originally Posted by Longermonger

did not know that, thanks for sharing? citation to back up claims?

I skimmed over this thread so I might have missed it, but did anyone mention AIDS? Black males are statistically much more likely to have HIV according to the CDC. If you were a provider, would you increase your odds of contracting HIV with this high risk group or would you instead worry that strangers that you'll never meet think that you're racist. Simple, huh?

As for J12345, don't hate the players hate the game. But if you must hate the players, hate the guys that share your ethnic background that are fucking it up for you. Originally Posted by Longermonger

Oh sweet jesus.

You do realize that ANY guy could have HIV/AIDS and us ladies would be none the wiser. Just like any provider out there could have it and none of you guys would know.

If you're going to quote something like that from the CDC, at least cite it so we could all read it and know you're not talking out of your ass again.

Oh sweet jesus.

You do realize that ANY guy could have HIV/AIDS and us ladies would be none the wiser. Just like any provider out there could have it and none of you guys would know.

If you're going to quote something like that from the CDC, at least cite it so we could all read it and know you're not talking out of your ass again. Originally Posted by MsElena

that's what I said
and I agree with you, like,ya' know
totally

No disrespect intended Ken, but....

To argue or agree with a chat mod isn't going to get anyone more pussy

I mean come on, a chat mode, lol

As far as some of the other "thoughts" express on this thread...oui vey.

If the ladies ever decide to discriminate based on stupidity, then their client base would probably drop by 1/3

My ads also list no assholes so a few people on this thread apply to that who aren't black lol

My ads also list no assholes so a few people on this thread apply to that who aren't black lol Originally Posted by b@ileythepistol

I dont see providers who have such an ego that they judge without knowledge.

The originator of this post has a legitimate question and there are many factors that enter into it and some are pretty backward to say the least. I don't blame him for wanting to understand, but it doesn't mean it will matter or make sense. While it's different here is what I have been told by female friends of all races, a fair sampling including black girls, too. Now, in context the girls who have told me this are dancers, but they are genuine friends who I go out with no expectations and they see a wide variety of people doing what they do.

They say they avoid black guys because they are often dirty, disrespectful, crude, demeaning and demand things they find disgusting and are not good at tipping even if they do perform for them; and becauseo of all of that they also drive business off. It may not be fair, but it is based upon their experience and I have observed it first hand as well. If they do that in public, then I can only imagine private time.

I know a great many black guys who are great, very bright and they are the opposite of all of that. Unfortunately, the bad apples are very common. Someone raised in the ghetto gangsta style who doesn't change, or cannot, is likely to be very different from someone raised in the suburbs.

Generalizations paint overly broad, but it all starts somewhere. I can only say that to get around it you may have to come in from the back by gaining credibility with someone or several girls who will run interference for you. The other factor is simply prejudice. No explanation is needed there as it's unlikely that will change. You have to be taught to hate and fear, you have to be carefully taught. (Had to throw that in since I used Bloody Mary the other day. Lol)

I skimmed over this thread so I might have missed it, but did anyone mention AIDS? Black males are statistically much more likely to have HIV according to the CDC. If you were a provider, would you increase your odds of contracting HIV with this high risk group or would you instead worry that strangers that you'll never meet think that you're racist. Simple, huh?

As for J12345, don't hate the players hate the game. But if you must hate the players, hate the guys that share your ethnic background that are fucking it up for you. Originally Posted by Longermonger

Statistically so are those who participate in the hobby. So add yourself to that list. When I go for testing, they ask me questions related to the hobby but do not ask me if I have been with an AA male....and not because it's illegal to ask because they ask if I have been with a man who has been with another man.

Stereotypes! If everyone that we encountered knew that any of us were in the hobby, think about what they would think of us.

People are really showing their ignorance in this thread.

Blade78- perhaps a better point than not arguing with the chat mod is that you don't enter a community as a new member and pick fights and argue in all of your posts. Even if your info was correct (and it's not) acting like a know it all who likes to attack people and make comments about violence towards women will not win you friends or dates. Everything you read on the Internet is NOT true.

Statistically so are all who participate in the hobby. So add yourself to that list. Originally Posted by Ari816

odd,
I found statistically speaking, those in the hobby are on the low end of the chart

state your source and so will I

http://www.netwellness.org/healthtop...rrentstats.cfm

Here's two, I'm sure there are others.

http://www.webmd.com/hiv-aids/guide/...king-your-life

The conclusion is you're both right as a good summary of these--and on average all Americans are Chinese.

So now you are telling me that multiple sex partners is not a risk factor? I'm not into arguing just to argue. So, no I won't take the time to pull up citations or explain what a credible source is in the medical community. None thus far are from medical journals. I will say again that it is in the "type" of people you associate with.

I can explain it to you but I can't understand it for you.