Kshunter said it best........don't fall in love with her and give her a ton of money.
I don't know who the lady is, but I'm guessing her skills as a provider aren't going to cause guys to stop seeing her.
Men who give that type of money, expense gifts, pay for her phone, etc. aren't having a provider/hobbyist relationship in his eyes. In his eyes, he's in love with her and will do ANYTHING to keep her in his life at any level. In her eyes, its a business relationship and she's going to milk the cow for all she can.
This hobby is a con game sort of speak. The ladies give you your fantasy and you give the ladies her fee for making that fantasy come true. There are some shady ladies who will take you for everything you're able to give and other ladies will be honest with you, treat this business with respect.
Is she shady for doing what she did? Don't know. Why is that? Because I don't know the whole story. We only read what SS wrote down and do we know for a fact that his story is true? Nope. Why you ask? Because we weren't there when everything happened.
But, coming to the board and telling his story was one way of trying to ruin her for what happened between them and yes, to gain sympathy from his fellow hobbyists.
Don't hate the player, hate the game.