Bob......Freedom has nothing to do with it!
How can a person "prefer" not to see an ENTIRE race of people (millions of people they never met) and not be racist.
There are beautiful/handsome people of every color and nationality!
If a person is racist, they are. No need to deny it. It is learned (likely from parents or friends).
This thread is about which providers see AA's.
It is not about NBA policies.
I'm sure, that if you called a provider and she said, "I do not see men that are _____!" And would not see you, it would piss you off to a small degree.
There are plenty providers here in Dallas that do see AA's, and I applaud the ladies who have said so on this thread (and I plan to see each of them!).
An interesting observation however, is how few providers responded on the thread.
Either way, threads like this are opportunities for the uneducated and closed-minded people who think that NBA policies are related to preference or freedom, to learn that all blacks are thugs, and that most blacks are great people, just like most whites and most Asians etc, etc, etc!
BTW, have any of the NBA (non-pimped) providers and hobbyist heard the following 2 quotes?
"The blacker the berry, the sweeter the juice!"
"Once you go black, you never go back!"
Happy Hobbying!
Racism is alive, but it is slowly dying, making this world a better place!
Also, for those ladies that have been traumatized by a male (black, white, whatever color), and "thinks" that not seeing that "race" of people will fix their dilemma....go get Counseling! You will likely never be able to make a man happy in a long term relationship without it!
Originally Posted by KRiggins
No KR, it's not about "seeing an entire race of people" it's about a person/individual making a personal decision
not to have intimate relations with a:
group, race, religion, body-type, age or other type of people that she/he is not attracted to nor feels comfortable with. That is their personal life and business decision. We don't have to agree with it, we just need to realize we each should have that ability/freedom in our lives (right or wrong). Respect it for what it is. To try to force it (by shame, government regulation, other means) is counterproductive and creates resentment.
In my own life of preferences, there are a lot of white people I don't like,
and Asian,
and Black,
and Latin and....whoever I decide I don't like. Consequently, I like plenty of people from all of those races too. Some taste very good! (mmm... a story for another time!)
Yet I'm an equal opportunity discriminator! You see...I don't like raw onions either (or beets)
any of them. So, I go in and place a food order (no onions please). It's my choice. I may be missing out on something good, but I opt to just live raw onion free.
Net result: It's a matter of my own personal preference (period) of which I'm entitled to just like anyone else including you. I don't need to be forced to eat raw onions by any government or other regulatory body. The
content of my character has inclined me to be that way about raw onions and even garden gnomes. My skin color has nada to do with it. I just don't like them. Sorry onions, sorry garden gnomes, I was wired that way from birth I suppose.
Now, before you go calling me a racist, understand I see providers of all colors and they know who they are
(well.. I haven't seen a green one yet, but there's still time! "fingers crossed!")
When I see discussions like this on racism, I realize there are two opposing camps of thought. Those
that feel slighted and those
that feel slighted. Neither are right and yet both are right. That is the paradox of the situation. Self-determination and freedom of choice are rights we all enjoy (or are supposed to) regardless of political persuasion (btw,
all political parties suck).
Come to think of it.....
I hate the haters! <-- that's irony for any of you who are slow
Find people/providers who you like and like you back in return. Those that don't, miss out on a life opportunity (
or not). Again, that's their freedom of choice.
Have fun dude!