Tell me where to meet and I'll say it to your face. I don't know who you are - if I did I would have dialed you up and said - hey, you're about to get trounced on ECCIE and you deserve it!
Actually though - you're not the first - so I should apologize for being so heavy handed. So I do apologize for that. However ...
There is a culture of "gotcha" here that is not improving this hobby. Men - who are too afraid to tell a 20 year old female provider ... "Hey I'm not having a good time here ..." or "Hey - I didn't have a good time and if I write a review it would have to be "no".
Give the provider an opportunity to fix the problem before you slam her on ECCIE. I would bet you that Poca would have found a way to put a smile on your face - and if she got offended - well then that would have been one more negative for your review, no?
You cannot make a negative review on Amazon.com of a vendor until you've attempted to resolve the issue with them first. People who provide services aren't perfect - they sometimes make mistakes - sometimes your actions can put them off their game too. So why not address the issue like a man and tell the provider?
If you don't want to bother with telling her - then just don't write a review. This happens to me ... "she was so-so ... I don't think she'll be receptive to criticism ... I have other more important things to do."
But in those cases I just won't write a review at all. Believe me - were I ever to write a negative review - the provider would know about it before she read it on ECCIE.
I just don't understand why people weren't raised this way.
I mean we've all heard the phrase ... "Don't say anything about a man you wouldn't say to his face?" Well, if you're in front of her face - SAY SOMETHING.
Originally Posted by Arverni
At first I was going to say "pm me for my address" but then I read the rest of your comments.
I think you mistook my review. Its is not a "slam". Far from it. I actually LIKE her. However, I was letting the community know that things which were on the menu are now off. And, that I found her a little less attentive than I like. I didn't tell anyone to NOT see her. Its just a piece of information.
And this WAS addressed with her. But, as she said in her reply, its her body and I would not pressure her to do anything she's not comfortable with.
As for face to face - its not like I'm sending soup back at a restaurant. She's got the $$, I'm there for a good time, and complaining during is not going to make things more awkward. There have been times where someone had a bit of "B.O." and I suggested we shower - and no bad review.
I would hope she'd take my honest comments as an opportunity to improve. It seems from the public comments to my review and LOTS of messages I got - others have had similar issues but never said anything and never reviewed her.
I don't feel to adhere to your personal views on what I should do before I write a review of time I paid for. I didn't intend to be unfair to her not to be doing "a slam" on her.
You feel I should have talked to her first. I was uncomfortable enough and chose not to do that. Lets just agree to disagree and move on. I am.