- cage196
- 02-08-2014, 02:50 PM
I still don't understand how I was bullying anyone. I made an appointment, was there on time, the provider disappears on me. I call her later and say '. I'd like to know why you decided to turn your phone off and dissapeard. Couldn't you at least of answered and said you changed you mind?" And I'm asshole?
- Super Sonic
- 02-08-2014, 04:38 PM
If there is one thing I know about women is that most of them hate confrontations. They rather not answer the phone than answer, say she won't do it and hear some guy lose his temper on her. Originally Posted by lukeskywalker7667Amen, brother. It's much easier for them to go missing, especially when they're in the wrong. They tend not to understand the disappearing act pisses men off much worse than a last minute cancellation. It's a highly annoying component of the Hobby, but as mentioned previously, it's a double edged sword that cuts both ways. Providers deal with it as well.
I've just learned over the years to always have a Plan B, and if all plans go to shit, put my money back in my pocket and live to hobby another day.
- qaz
- 03-16-2014, 08:45 AM
Thought long and hard about adding to this. Plan B sometimes is keep everything tucked in the pocket.
ATF had to cancel, it happens. So I notice *sensual*cindy is in town, had noticed her when making plans for a Dallas trip, so I send her an IM. The day is slipping away and my schedule window closes. But she responds asking about the next day. Tell her when my window will be open (pretty late the next evening) and she says it will not be a problem as long as it is scheduled, I confirm I am looking forward to it.
So I send a few IM's late in the day....nothing. She had not given me her number yet. Then the IM's start bouncing because her mailbox is full.
She finally responds about 4 minutes before our scheduled time to say she has already travelled back to Dallas. I respond questioning her as we did have an appointment and her statement is "I didn't hear from you so I left town". When I respond that I never had her number......crickets.
I am sure the time together is awesome, very strong Angelina Jolie look to her which is appealing. However the TCB skills seem to be lacking.
ATF had to cancel, it happens. So I notice *sensual*cindy is in town, had noticed her when making plans for a Dallas trip, so I send her an IM. The day is slipping away and my schedule window closes. But she responds asking about the next day. Tell her when my window will be open (pretty late the next evening) and she says it will not be a problem as long as it is scheduled, I confirm I am looking forward to it.
So I send a few IM's late in the day....nothing. She had not given me her number yet. Then the IM's start bouncing because her mailbox is full.
She finally responds about 4 minutes before our scheduled time to say she has already travelled back to Dallas. I respond questioning her as we did have an appointment and her statement is "I didn't hear from you so I left town". When I respond that I never had her number......crickets.
I am sure the time together is awesome, very strong Angelina Jolie look to her which is appealing. However the TCB skills seem to be lacking.
- Bad_Mojo
- 03-16-2014, 10:05 AM
- str8.2.bbbj
- 03-16-2014, 10:59 AM