public apology

Hey y'all, whoever pmed each other over this matter needs to go cast your vote on the Biggest Gossiper Thread. LMAO!!

Can't we all just have fun?

This is fun & you still owe me a spanking!

Can't we all just have fun? Originally Posted by OLindsay

Can't we all just have fun? Originally Posted by OLindsay

Nice post. Having fun is what this board is about.

This is fun & you still owe me a spanking! Originally Posted by bp6570

Come on over and let me spank that ass...

Nice post. Having fun is what this board is about. Originally Posted by Johnny4455

Fun and wet wet nvm you get the picture ....

Apology??? This should be titled Epic Thread.

In all honesty, I have no clue what the hell you're talking about. If you have to resort to name calling to make a point, then you need to rethink on how to present your case.

This is your second time trying to bring this topic about me. But hey....if it makes you happy, go for it.

My PMs are open if you wish to tell me what you're referring to. Originally Posted by MsElena

How I present my ideas is not the issue. You forgetting something that you did is the issue. Honestly, I'm not shocked.

Why on earth would I fall into the "PM me" trap you just tried to set? Why hide embarrassing stuff from other members only so you can cherry pick what you like and show it to your favorite white knights or mods? Nope. I'm not falling for that.

Newbies, take note. This is how she operates.

Listen guy......I've never had a problem with the privacy of my PM's. Hundreds of guys and gals have PMed me and their PM's have stayed safe.

You're like the boy who cried wolf.

Where did you tell Grizzly to avoid engaging with me?? I said what I said to express my thoughts, not to gain a response. Originally Posted by Johnny4455

In PMS to him. You were posting how dissapointed in him you were. One post you edited. Dissapointed in you friend who got himself in a jam... So I was counseling him not to continue on with this mess.. You are his friend pulling him one way. I was trying to help him. You and your friendkaylen should let him be on this. He always stuck up for both of you[/QUOTE]

I didn't pm him. We spoke via text messages today. So I guess our private phone conversation was shared?? And, Johnny, everybody knows you dont care for me and Kaylen. So what!... But I have ALWAYS stuck up for Grizz. And I'm not beating him down now, my post said that I don't believe he owed her an apology. I am disappointed in him for not having enough confidence in himself to not be that easily persuaded by a provider to retract his post in ml and make a public apology.

For someone who doesn't like me and says I threatened you and scared you before, you sure like to try and provoke me. But it won't work my dear. Originally Posted by Gemma34

I pm d him. I didn't say you pmd him. You said here in public, and just now repeated how disappointed you are in your freind. He shared nothing you said to him in private. Maybe expressing your disappointment in him publicly is the "degrading" type of thing Jaycee was referring to. If your freind is confused and in trouble, even if it is his own fault, then why try to publicly embarrass him, or pressure him to continue talking to him in public about this?

This isn't about you honey... It is about grizzly. It was his post. I was advising him to let it go. You want to make this about you, it is not. I have done nothing to antagonize you. That's bullshit. I avoid you because of the lies you said about me.

Why don't you be a friend to grizzly instead of telling him you are disappointed in him and that he lacks confidence Originally Posted by Johnny4455

I have been nothing but a friend to him. But, HEY, I'm done speaking to you as I know personally how you like to hit that lil RTM button. Originally Posted by Gemma34

Okay Johnny I appreciate you looking out for me but yes Gemma had every right to be disappointed in me. I have known Gemma for 2 years now, I have been their for her when she did not have anyone to turn too. I am not sure what your beef is with Gemma, but I have no issue with her. She is the best their is, the best their ever will be, she is a true friend and genuinely cares about those she allows into her life.

She has been their for me when no one else has, she stood by me and kept encouraging me to focus and study hard when I wanted to quit. I in turn have been their to help her out when she needed it, I did not demand anything in return, that is what true friendship is about. I basically shit on her and mine friendship.

Basically i had a really shitty last couple of weeks, a lot of shit going down. I brought drama to this board and caused many a damaged bridges. But I at least had the cajones to admit I fucked up and apologized for my actions.

I may not be the sharpest knife in the drawer but life is a journey you are bound to royally fuck up on occasion and loose your ever loving mind.

I did what I did and now for good or worse I must deal with the consequences of my actions. some actions cannot be undone and I will have to live with that. So thank you to those I can count on and the rest well just let sleeping dogs lie.

This thread has reached its end and hopefully a mod will close it so others do not get hurt

I thought that your account was disabled, Grizzly. Change your mind?

Grizzly, I looked like the 'bad' friend in my responses on here but I now understand that you merely wanted to make things right with everyone involved. And that seems like the right thing to do and I applaud the heart it took to try and make things better for Kiara. And although I still have my opinions about it, I just want to assure you that I AM your friend and my advice was only meant to be helpful and avoid all the chaos it creates/created. But, those of us that know how big hearted you are, know that your intentions were good. And of course, those that know me, well...know how I am lol. And shit! It turned out to be a 5 page thread with nearly 3000 views! So I'm sure it has created a good read for everyone. We all make mistakes and although we always want to believe there is good in all people, sometimes it just AIN'T there!! Lol. Its a lesson learned! Mistakes are the best way to learn some things, so dont worry about it hun.

Grizzly, I looked like the 'bad' friend in my responses on here but I now understand that you merely wanted to make things right with everyone involved. And that seems like the right thing to do and I applaud the heart it took to try and make things better for Kiara. And although I still have my opinions about it, I just want to assure you that I AM your friend and my advice was only meant to be helpful and avoid all the chaos it creates/created. But, those of us that know how big hearted you are, know that your intentions were good. And of course, those that know me, well...know how I am lol. And shit! It turned out to be a 5 page thread with nearly 3000 views! So I'm sure it has created a good read for everyone. We all make mistakes and although we always want to believe there is good in all people, sometimes it just AIN'T there!! Lol. Its a lesson learned! Mistakes are the best way to learn some things, so dont worry about it hun. Originally Posted by Gemma34

Awww

Listen guy......I've never had a problem with the privacy of my PM's. Hundreds of guys and gals have PMed me and their PM's have stayed safe.

You're like the boy who cried wolf. Originally Posted by MsElena

I'm the wolf that cried, "Boy oh boy! This dumb b**** still can't remember what she did!"

Deny as much as you want. Go into full damage control mode. It doesn't matter. I've been on ECCIE for a long time. I'm telling the truth. I tell the truth regardless of other's emotions. Readers can sense that.

To claim that you've never had a problem with the privacy of your PM's is misleading. I suppose other people are the ones that have the problem if you share private messages with third parties, right? No problem for you, huh? Is that you rationalize it?

LM & Ms.E can you both take your fight outside of this thread please?