WTF, I already PM'd you, but I also wanted to make your Award for Awesome Postings of the day (and I only saw them today so I'm counting them all in this thread) public.
This is a very interesting discussion and I respect that everyone gets to have their own stance, even if I think the logic of WTF's statements are being purposefully ignored or bypassed. Science is science. We all make choices about risky behavior. Aesthetically, yes, to me it's gross that the OP still did a CBJ, but I'm not in her shoes. Maybe she had something she HAD to use that money for and she sacrificed her own ick reaction in order to get something for her kid or something. But in any case, it was her choice, and BBBJs with many men who are not showing symptoms IS going to be more risky than a CBJ with a man who is.
Now does that mean BBBJ is suddenly going to be out of vogue? *snort* I doubt it.
I am kind of surprised by some of the cattiness here. And I certainly can be catty so I get the vicious thrill (in other threads) of making fun of an OP's stupidity when I don't agree with them. I guess I'm just surprised by who, in this thread, got catty, when normally I find them so effing insightful my jaw has dropped in appreciation. I guess you can't be wise all the time and everyone has to let their inner catty girl to run around from time to time.
I just hope we get back to wise and insightful (and it doesn't have to be in this thread) soon, and get the catty static gone.
So! Props to WTF!