Can Anyone Love A Hooker?

I love her more than she loved herself....

So she calls me up in the hospital after mytriple bypass and starts crying I have nobody there and why you not call her makes me feel crappy that even though I have no but it wouldn't call.... Crying crying crying. Then she tells me that's not the real reason she called she's got some person there who needs to sign on to Eccie write a review how does he do it?

^^ that is a shame that she only wanted to see you while you were in the hospital to find out how the guy can sign on and write a review. No good deed goes unpunished.

M.M.

^^ that is a shame that she only wanted to see you while you were in the hospital to find out how the guy can sign on and write a review. No good deed goes unpunished.

M.M. Originally Posted by Melissa Madyson

Yes, exactly thanks.... you understood.

I have dated while doing body rubs & now escorting. I was always honest right out of the gate because I didn't want to blindside em & have a more negative reaction later on down the road for lying or hiding it. But I have also successfully pulled off a polyamorous relationship for a few years in the past -so I guess I just have experience alternative relationships/lifestyles. I've also accepted though that when dating someone whether your doing this, body rubs, dancing, porn or webcam that many times the relationship is casual or if its more than casual than it might be open. While I'm doing this I feel that it wouldn't be fair for myself to expect a SO to be monogamous. But if that's the route taken then that opens up the discussion of what each party is comfortable accepting or whats ok & whats not ok. Strangely enough, I dated waaaay bigger assholes/abusers when I was just a dancer & younger -once I dove into bodyrubs & full service I noticed that while some that have ultimately decided to date me still were nicer. Maybe it weeds em out or I was just lucky at that time? Who knows.

The one thing I can def say is never talk about work or professional life no matter which adult service your in w/ your SO unless of course your dating a fellow sex worker then hey vent fests & shop talk is a blessing at that point lol

Good reads on this for sure. I had a thing for someone 15 years ago, did a lot for her, and helped her get her daughter from the Ex. She called me on a Friday, and asked to see me. ( I had to fly there). I said sure, I sent $3,500.00. she confirmed she got it. - Took my flight, was not at the airport, was not home at the apt, I paid for each month too. Never seen her again, or heard from her again. - With that said, heart was broken. I am still looking for the pieces.

I would do it again with the right person. - I am still looking for that regular lady.

All women are hookers

I have dated while doing body rubs & now escorting. I was always honest right out of the gate because I didn't want to blindside em & have a more negative reaction later on down the road for lying or hiding it. But I have also successfully pulled off a polyamorous relationship for a few years in the past -so I guess I just have experience alternative relationships/lifestyles. I've also accepted though that when dating someone whether your doing this, body rubs, dancing, porn or webcam that many times the relationship is casual or if its more than casual than it might be open. While I'm doing this I feel that it wouldn't be fair for myself to expect a SO to be monogamous. But if that's the route taken then that opens up the discussion of what each party is comfortable accepting or whats ok & whats not ok. Strangely enough, I dated waaaay bigger assholes/abusers when I was just a dancer & younger -once I dove into bodyrubs & full service I noticed that while some that have ultimately decided to date me still were nicer. Maybe it weeds em out or I was just lucky at that time? Who knows.

The one thing I can def say is never talk about work or professional life no matter which adult service your in w/ your SO unless of course your dating a fellow sex worker then hey vent fests & shop talk is a blessing at that point lol Originally Posted by Gabby_Belle

I agree. I was dating someone that I found out was a working girl. We met on a legit dating site. I think if she was honest about it I would have been ok with it. I guess I just don't want to be deceived. I value honesty if I'm going to be in a relationship.

I have found that if you are having sex with the same provider or hobbyist over and over it is hard not to develop feelings for that person. I have had to learn to guard my heart more and just enjoy the moment. I am friends with my providers (the very few I see) but I try and not fall for them and remember I am just a client to them. I am not lucky when it comes to this hobby. I got into this hobby to forget one person and they I was harassed by a crazy Texas provider who works in Louisiana sometimes because I wouldn't be her sugar daddy. She still text me to curse me sometimes. Then I am bad mouth by another provider because I didn't see her. Not sure why about that. Regardless, I only see certain people and stay below the radar now. Lastly, and what is relevant to this topic, I fell really hard for a provider whom I would have adopted her two boys if she asked. I stop seeing providers, I brought her on trips with me and I helped her financially get out of the business and start her on legit business. What I didn't know is the business was actually her boyfriends business (didn't know she had a boyfriend) and she changed her number and never heard from her again. I almost didn't want to write this post because I was schooled by Annie not to be a dumb ass like this again but yet here I am. Dumbass twice... Sorry Annie...I should have listen. Well, I am listening very well now.. So, can you love a provider (I hate saying hooker),, Yes. But those who do find love here be careful. I do still believe some people will make something like that work from here but it would be extremely rare I think. I leave you with what I have learn. You can always make money but the heart maybe broken forever and if it is not, it is surely scarred.

^^ You sound so.....
Revelations 3:17



Here it is so you don't have to go look it up.

Revelation 3:17 the New International Version (NIV)
You say:
I am rich; I have acquired wealth and do not need a thing.
But you do not realize that you are wretched, pitiful, poor, blind and naked.


Smh! Get over yourself

Of course, I have been in love with a client.
Love is such a human thing, it knows no bounds nor limits.
We Sex Workers can love, perhaps even more voraciously and torridly than any other type of women

xox

Katana Kay.. I had to reread your story over and over a few times ..Because it's so so similar to my story about love and this lifestyle.. like so similar that I thought maybe I wrote it and put it up a year ago LOL

Although I am from upstate New York New Orleans is my next working vacation this year..Texas was great.. but..

I just said to one of my girlfriend's that's also in this industry the other day that I felt like he never really stop treating me like a w****..
Honey you feel free to call me 315-807-2870..
During this painful recovery..
I'm really sorry hun..

^^ that is a shame that she only wanted to see you while you were in the hospital to find out how the guy can sign on and write a review. No good deed goes unpunished.

M.M. Originally Posted by Melissa Madyson

ok, that's messed up

Amen

The short and simple answer is yes. Now wether or not the love will be mutual or lasting is another issue, but those issues exist in every relationship outside of the hobby too. We are just people in the end. We love, we live and die just like everyone else.