Say you book an appointment with a provider.
You show up, and the provider invites you in,
but politely decides to cancel with something like
"I'm sorry, something came up" " I don't feel well" but the real reason of the cancelation is due to personal preferences (and you as a smart adult can pretty much sense this)
Would you prefer her to
A. Look through the window/peephole and not open the door?
B. Tell you, "I'm not interested due to personal preferences".
C. Or just keep it clean "im' sorry something came up" like I did to one gentleman?
If she cancels, are you gonna text her later asking "I'm not your type right"? knowing that was the issue?
Just want some opinions...
Originally Posted by Miss Molly
Im going to go with B! As far as your follow up message i wouldn't do it. If a lady decides not to see me for whatever reason then im not going to dwell on it.
Yes it has happened to me in the past, I've shown up and they became uncomfortable with my age. A heavy amount of questions and comments regarding my age and experience made it obvious to me that they had an issue with it.
I believe in keeping it real, if your not interested just tell me we arent connecting and we shall part ways peacefuly. I absolutely hate it when people in general are fake, I find it to be very insulting. Every provider I meet I ask one thing of them, and that's to be themselves and to this date I thank most of them for going through with my request. These women are stellar in my book and shall remain that way.