I didn't say that.I fixed it, thanks for pointing it out.
[/i] Originally Posted by pjorourke
I really think that Gloria Steinem threw a monkey wrench into things. I enjoy being a woman. I have no desire to be equal to a man. Yes, I like doors being opened for me. In yesteryear it was the responsibility of the man to take care and look after the woman in his life. In turn she supported him and his career, and of course stroked that ego of his. Originally Posted by AnsleyThere is a difference between a 'man' and a gentleman. A man can still be a gentleman, but most just act like 'men'. It's all how the person was raised. i learned from a young age that 'm'am' does not mean anything but respect and opening a door was the polite thing to do regardless if it's a woman or an older person.
I would rather be a woman than a man any day. Women get to wear pants or skirts. They can do anything a man can do, but they don't - they get the man to do it for them. Yard work, heavy lifting, killing spiders, opening doors, etc. are all things a woman can do, but we are lucky to have such gentlemen around to take care of those things for us.Overall, I agree with what you posted Colette however a woman cannot do anything a man can do just like a man cannot do anything a woman can do. That is the fallacy perpetuated by people like Gloria Steinem. Men and Women were never meant to be equal just as in the Asian thought of Ying and Yang. They will never be equal because they are on different sides - each is meant to compliment the other, not compete with the other. The two sides bring their own strengths and weaknesses to the table just as the two working together provide balance. That is what has been lost and is what we don't have presently -- balance.
Oh, and I get to enjoy showing my appreciation for all those little things he takes care of for me by taking care of him. Originally Posted by Nicolette Bordeauxva
"Men are not the enemy, but the fellow victims. The real enemy is women's denigration of themselves." – Betty Friedan
Some of us are becoming the men we wanted to marry. - Gloria SteinemAnd this last quote is my point exactly boys and girls because rearing a boy is very different than rearing a girl. Each sex requires different ways of being dealt with because of what their gender will have them doing in the course of their lives. However some like Miss Steinem have never gotten that through their minds which has lead a couple of generations to think in a very skewed fashion.
We've begun to raise daughters more like sons... but few have the courage to raise our sons more like our daughters. - Gloria Steinem