Its not me, its you........ Yes, some of yall are fugly.

All of the founding fathers who grace the front side of currency are ugly (and dead). One might easily conclude the cash-only nature of the business says something about putting up with "fugly". What do you think would happen if a CMT said "I'm sorry, I won't touch your fat ass."? Butler's blues.

My biggest fear is that I will be "that guy" described in the OP.

We are not talking about bad service.

I am saying if a guy can tell a provider is really trying, he should consider that when writing the review. Originally Posted by SweetDulce

I'm in my early 60s. I recently broke a tried and true rule of mine, and visited a popular local lady whose advertised age is slightly less than 30. I really liked her board persona....had been wanting to meet her for years, and the opportunity presented itself.

She was sweet, and skilled, and just as beautiful as her photos suggest. I would have to call her a true professional, because she soldiered on.....but I could detect that faint, unspoken "eeewwwwwweeeee!"

I did not review, but had I decided to, I would have reviewed positively. She "did her job." I would still recommend her to others, but I won't be back. Not because she's a bad provider....but because I do not wish to impose myself upon her.

There are some advantages to not thinking of yourself as god's gift to women.....which I most certainly am not. I'm not butthurt either....by that episode OR the subject of this thread. As Clint Eastwood would say...."A man's got to know his limitations."

I am grateful for the providers closer to my age that do rock my world.

Knowing what I know now...I would only give you the donation "up front" once you've determined how "fugly" I am...It's only fair.

That way, neither one of us has to stick around against our better judgment - I think you owe it to your clients to tell them "up front" whether they are not so "fugly" before you can expect payment for services not yet rendered. Originally Posted by Ed Highlight

Thank you!!

Finally some solid advice!!!



.....you made me giggle.

I get piss off about client not writing review.Reviews helpful to paid professionals business to get paying clients.Unprofessional shit talks on a board and calls him ugly.Have you send him an email about the review.You weren't saying this when took his money. Originally Posted by Fancylady

It's not me he wrote a no review on.

He never wrote a review on me .
I saw him like 2 yrs. ago

All of the founding fathers who grace the front side of currency are ugly (and dead). One might easily conclude the cash-only nature of the business says something about putting up with "fugly". What do you think would happen if a CMT said "I'm sorry, I won't touch your fat ass."? Butler's blues. Originally Posted by frogdog

You must be OLD and fugly.

Get with times.

Providers take cc and $ apps nowadays sunny boy.

Is fat ass supposed to be an insult?

I'm in my early 60s. I recently broke a tried and true rule of mine, and visited a popular local lady whose advertised age is slightly less than 30. I really liked her board persona....had been wanting to meet her for years, and the opportunity presented itself.

She was sweet, and skilled, and just as beautiful as her photos suggest. I would have to call her a true professional, because she soldiered on.....but I could detect that faint, unspoken "eeewwwwwweeeee!"

I did not review, but had I decided to, I would have reviewed positively. She "did her job." I would still recommend her to others, but I won't be back. Not because she's a bad provider....but because I do not wish to impose myself upon her.

There are some advantages to not thinking of yourself as god's gift to women.....which I most certainly am not. I'm not butthurt either....by that episode OR the subject of this thread. As Clint Eastwood would say...."A man's got to know his limitations."

I am grateful for the providers closer to my age that do rock my world. Originally Posted by hgritstoo

Exactly!!!!!!!!!!

The guy I'm talking sees ladies of all ages and has seen a young friend of mine many times.
She had no problem servicing him.

And actually is not so much about if you are old and ugly ,
as so much as to chemistry.
as a provider ,
I must admit it is a lot easier to fake with somebody that you are halfway attracted to than it is to fake with somebody that is just downright gross.

. I have two very older gentleman clients that I really wouldn't call cute and if I saw them at the store I definitely would not be attracted to them. But in the bedroom they are so sensual that it makes me forget about the age difference

. Part of the reason I made this thread is it annoying when people say that looks don't matter. Yes looks matter. To a different degree to everybody and everybody's current situation.
But yes really people,
don't lie ,
looks play a factor in iop and service,
even if it's just a little bit ,
it matters

. Part of the reason I made this thread is it annoying when people say that looks don't matter. Yes looks matter. To a different degree to everybody and everybody's current situation.
But yes really people,
don't lie ,
looks play a factor in iop and service,
even if it's just a little bit ,
it matters Originally Posted by SweetDulce

More misplaced universalism.

Looks matter sometimes to some people.

Looks matter sometimes to some people.

Originally Posted by Old-T

Two words: beer goggles.

Hobbyist: Hello I'm handsome and in shape. Provider: That will be 400.00.

Hobbyist: I'm old and fat and ugly. Provider: That will be 400.00 and oh by the way I can't do this and please leave. Here's 5 bucks back.

We all know there are some people we see on any given day and think to ourself,s [ that chic is hot!] are [Man not for a million dollars !]

Bottom line is if its your dime you want something for it .

Other bottom line if its your time you want some dime .

But if your fugly stay home and get some lotion and a tissue and get into another hobby ?

Hey i wouldnt fuck any of these guys including myself -But then again im a guy and i dont fuck guys so i just should shut up and shouldnt have even added my 2 cents to the fugly .

what if someone was butt fucking ugly ?

I thought that was when you get to the providers incall and she looks at you and says i like it doggy style that ok with you hun ?


Nuff said that means she doesnt want to see you hurry up and blow your load and on the road .


Tip Tuckers tip top truckin !

More misplaced universalism.

Looks matter sometimes to some people.

Originally Posted by Old-T

So you pick the Providers you see based on????

At the end of the day, it's the end of the day.

Most men start with looks when choosing a lady. But some men want so desperately to be liked that they pick women that pretend or are great actresses, the men are so desperate to be liked they know she is pretending but are willing to settle for that instead true companionship. But guys like me that just want a release look for beauty first.

So you pick the Providers you see based on???? Originally Posted by SweetDulce

1. Menu
2. Kinkiness
3. Skills
4. Personality

And I rate all 4 fairly even. A provider doesn't have to be a "10" in looks if she's a "20" in kink. So for me, looks aren't at the top of my list.