Dating a provider

I've considered and discussed the dating scene with two providers over the last few years but the 'fuck and leave' rule has kept the big head on point. I also recently adopted (and violated a few fucking times) the one visit per provider rule to reduce the chance of getting too deep. Even with the one visit rule, I admit things occasionally still manage to get a little complicated especially when I find exactly what I've been looking for.

If one is trying to control the other, one or both are going to crash and burn.

If one or the other gets to clingy, one or both are going to crash and burn.

If you want some free time with a gal. you have to come up with something you both want to do. Or at lease something you would not mind doing but she wants too do.

never rush her or let her rush you. sure way to crash and burn.

this board is falling into the same rat hole a once great hooker bar did. Its not as I have not broken a few rules of the board. when I have tried to be on the edge for sure I slipped a few times to the wrong side of that edge. But too many are just out out breaking.
example: I heard many on here have on the first few times seeing a gal offer her to let her read eccie from his account. Some even the first time. In a way to try and buy her. Sooner or latter one or both going to crash and burn.

Back to try and find something both want to do:

I hope this guy will not mind me using this example.
Anyways
I guy meets a new stripper at a stripper club. And they talk.
He get out take for 150. She was good and wants to repeat. And does.
Soon finding it was easy to hook guys, she ups it to 250.
To get time to try and talk her down again. He offers rides to work.
Soon she starts getting overly dependent on that and over abuses.
So they agree on a cash price on when she needs rides.(fucker reads to much of that OSD BS LOL)
but the cheap bastard still wants 150
she taint buying into that.

again reading way to much OSD BS
Hay can I watch you and your boyfriend have sex. She thinking I always wanted a duo. 50 to watch 80 to join in. The 3 set the ground rules.

It goes down MFM duo with no bi stuff per one of the ground rules set before hand. Its all for her.

After the do was done, both guys talk. Head to the TV to watch a baseball game.
She loved the Duo . So makes them snacks served with beer.

All seem happy now.

Now lets say as your looking free time other than sex. You can ask, don't be butt hurt if says NO even if you know its something she wants to do. btw never beg take the no. So lets say she says yes. mmmm its to see a new movie. And you both go. Its not a fucking date. Its just two that know each other going to see a movie. No more no less.

Did I say never rush into or try and control each other.

So as I'm not a crunch fan, Thanks for this thread anyways.

So rereading this thread, and knowing some of the ROS of past crash and burn. Most should not try this shit and keep it business only. For ya are doing it all fucking wrong. well most of ya.

btw.
lets say you as a guy find the right gal, or gal finds guy. Where ether will not try and control, fall in puppy LOVE, get to clingy, take advantage of riding the other down a highway of hell. Yet it was just two doing something, and have being doing so many times for a time now. But something the other wants to do in life may end it. Do not hate it, embrace it.
mmmmm example
She finds and get the opportunity to do something she wants to do. But it may be the end of her hooking days and your relation with. Tell her to go for it and mean it. Even if it leads to the end. For if you do not, it will only lead to the end. And who wants a both butt hurt end.

Ok most will have no fucking idea what I am saying, so fuck and leave.

Ok most will have no fucking idea what I am saying, so fuck and leave. Originally Posted by offshoredrilling

Maybe I've been here too long, but that is your must literate post yet. Which may be a sign that I should leave. But ____ just put me on ignore, supposedly, so how can I go? Good stuff.

Christ I understand what youre saying.

fuck and leave amen

Most cant do that and thus lies the problems that arise.

This isn't match.com or a bible reading where you meet a girl maybe even a virgin.

If youre trying to find a gf or wife from a girl in this business, theres no help for you, youre on the road to a bad ending. Enjoy it for what it is, a business transaction for one hr where she is doing things to you SHE WOULD NOT DO IF YOU WERE NOT PAYING HER.

Osd, god damn you done good

Money idk how you do the one visit per provider rule lol. If I girl is a good fuck I'm gonna see her at least 3 or 4 more times . But the trick is to remember no matter how you slice it they are hookers and we are Jon's and not to get attached.

Money idk how you do the one visit per provider rule lol. If I girl is a good fuck I'm gonna see her at least 3 or 4 more times . But the trick is to remember no matter how you slice it they are hookers and we are Jon's and not to get attached. Originally Posted by Seanross26

sean that's the key ,but some guys just cant do that apparently.

Yeah I see that but lol I must say it sometimes it's the girls fault too they lead them on like there is something there.

Yeah I see that but lol I must say it sometimes it's the girls fault too they lead them on like there is something there. Originally Posted by Seanross26

they just playing the game they know how to play it, the money stays close when they play the game

Yeah I see that but lol I must say it sometimes it's the girls fault too they lead them on like there is something there. Originally Posted by Seanross26

my post #78 I try to say it could/is be a two way street. good or bad

I may have failed, but did try.

being in this with a few myself, and others before them. mmmmmm guessing 12. I only had my ass handed to me once on the highway to hell. The others just ended no matter what goods we had on each other. All took 3 to 5 years of its business but repeated before any trust started in each other. I lost count of who all I seen and repeated to keep it at 2 or 3 at a time. Just one can lead to crash and burn.

when it crash's rather than just ends, it could be the fault of guy, gal or both.

edit add: again most should just not.

Maybe I've been here too long, but that is your must literate post yet. Which may be a sign that I should leave. But ____ just put me on ignore, supposedly, so how can I go? Good stuff. Originally Posted by JohnnyCap

Fuck... I understood it and I didn't even have to re read it.
Perry's gonna be out of a job if this keeps up....

Fuck... I understood it and I didn't even have to re read it.
Perry's gonna be out of a job if this keeps up.... Originally Posted by Paulwantsya

wtf, it must have been the free range chicken pic for set up
if you all understood that OSD BS LOL


sorry Perry

Money idk how you do the one visit per provider rule lol. If I girl is a good fuck I'm gonna see her at least 3 or 4 more times . But the trick is to remember no matter how you slice it they are hookers and we are Jon's and not to get attached. Originally Posted by Seanross26

I keep reminding myself that the well is pretty deep and there are a lot more experiences to be had. Once the well runs dry I gonna have to bump the rule up to two visits . But there's a long way to go especially with the likes of Frankie Fine, Veronica Boyt, etc...

When I do bump up to two at the top of my list are:
SexyDeeDee, Krystal Kurves, and hmmm can't think of another at the moment. in the past I found that by visit three providers were already asking for rides, meals, loans, etc... I tend to be more on the soft side so I've done what I could to help but the one visit rule offsets my weakness.

By the way, there have been a few recent exceptions

I keep reminding myself that the well is pretty deep and there are a lot more experiences to be had. Once the well runs dry I gonna have to bump the rule up to two visits . But there's a long way to go especially with the likes of Frankie Fine, Veronica Boyt, etc...

When I do bump up to two at the top of my list are:
SexyDeeDee, Krystal Kurves, and hmmm can't think of another at the moment. in the past I found that by visit three providers were already asking for rides, meals, loans, etc... I tend to be more on the soft side so I've done what I could to help but the one visit rule offsets my weakness.

By the way, there have been a few recent exceptions Originally Posted by moneytalksny

Yep they always love getting a ride, fuck the loans, never ever, rides once or twice yes but that's it.

Dinner don't bother me feed em before its good.

after no good I done no dinner, lol