I Can't Go For That (No Can Do) - Dinner Edition

Again. I'm not talking about simply hanging out. I'm talking about a specific dinner date. Foreplay with Food. An event in itself.

I am with wu on that. I don't mind taking a lady out and buying dinner but I don't feel I need to pay her to eat with me. It's at least better than the guys that pay for the overnight and the chick is sleep for 4-6 hours of that. I don't request it either but have gone out to eat with a few providers I'm cool with.

I don't care that you all charge for it...over the years I've seen hookers charge for a bunch of stupid shit...

But if you're a hobbyist, and you have such a need for human social interaction that you're willing to pay for her to eat food, and talk to you while she's doing it, or for her to sleep, on an overnight...you need therapy (or a divorce lawyer)...not a hooker...

Fair enough. Though I definitely don't think it's as needy of an out of town visitor who wants someone to show him around and introduce him to people, etc. I do think there's some value in that, but even I do agree it's a different price scale.

And I don't think ~$50/hr really seems that desperate for someone from out of town.

However...

That said, if you live in Houston and you can't find one friend to dine with you...then Houston, we have a problem.

Truth be told, I think $500 for a dinner date that includes 3 hour dinner and 2 hour "dessert" seems fair. How's that different than just paying $250 an hour BCD? I mean sometimes it might turn out to be 4/1. Or 2.5/2.5 or 2/3... Sometimes you're getting a bargain...sometimes you're overpaying a bit...but I don't fault either side when it comes down to essentially $100/hr if it results in a happy ending.


"Stupid shit hookers charge for" would be a great topic...

Fair enough. Though I definitely don't think it's as needy of an out of town visitor who wants someone to show him around and introduce him to people, etc. I do think there's some value in that, but even I do agree it's a different price scale.

And I don't think ~$50/hr really seems that desperate for someone from out of town.

However...

That said, if you live in Houston and you can't find one friend to dine with you...then Houston, we have a problem.

Truth be told, I think $500 for a dinner date that includes 3 hour dinner and 2 hour "dessert" seems fair. How's that different than just paying $250 an hour BCD? I mean sometimes it might turn out to be 4/1. Or 2.5/2.5 or 2/3 or even an overnighter ... Sometimes you're getting a bargain...sometimes you're overpaying a bit...but I don't fault either side when it comes down to essentially $100/hr if it results in a happy ending.


"Stupid shit hookers charge for" would be a great topic... Originally Posted by LilMynx69

I fixed that for you.

One thing that hasn't been mention is a meet and greet before the session usually over a drink or two usually not an extra fee.

I would pay (ok have paid) for a date that included dinner and or drinks and then BCD or vice versa.

Some people spend way too much time standing in front of a full length mirror, it's always a sad thing when someone starts believing their own hype.

Yeah...I own what I said, I was a supporter, but she's said A LOT of really mean/pointed, narcisistic things lately:

http://www.britannica.com/EBchecked/...3458/Narcissus

"Pretty is as pretty does"

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There is nothing wrong with thinking ahead, not everyone will be in this industry forever. If you're not attractive in the first place and no one cares to remember seeing you, (shrug) then some people are already used to that. Most normal people have a "type" that they date in the RW and wouldn't mind being seen out with. Of course not every woman is picky, obviously. What is considered "omg" on here is not usually the "RW omg". Different strokes for different folks "for sure" on here but hey, that's part of the hobby right? lol Some UTR's use the hobby as their means of dating, that's their choice. Words go farther on here than actually standing in front of a full length mirror "naked" and honestly liking what one "honestly" sees (there wouldn't be so much photo shop going on). No worries though, to each their own :cheezy: Originally Posted by Alyssa XOXO

I guess there was no other response for you.

My favorite hook ups are followed up by dinner. I most often book with a lady several weeks in advance. In the initial contact I ask for her to set a time for us so that we can go to dinner after. Only one time has a woman replied that she wants to be paid her going rate for the time we are at dinner. I also enjoy taking a lady to Victoria's Secret when we can work it in.
I have an answer for any one that sees me with a woman younger than me. She is my therapist and has been instrumental in lowering my blood pressure. Hell if one of my kids saw us they would only smile and say hi.
Weekend dates, over night dates and longer trips with a provider have been fun. I have never regretted the longer sessions.

Some people spend way too much time standing in front of a full length mirror, it's always a sad thing when someone starts believing their own hype.

Yeah...I own what I said, I was a supporter, but she's said A LOT of really mean/pointed, narcisistic things lately:

http://www.britannica.com/EBchecked/...3458/Narcissus

~ Originally Posted by Lexieinhouston

No "hype" here hon, I'm very secure in the RW Enjoying what I do for a living and bettering myself (18 months training and still going) in the process is something that of course I'm proud of. How anyone feels about themselves at the end of the day is on them. You should never try and change something if you're not dedicated in the first place. And backing out of something that will obviously better you because of my honest opinion is just silly. Stay where you are then if you're happy there, it's your life

If the past 18 mos have gotten you to the mindset you are currently in, uhh...no thanks. I'm actually surprised you tore yourself away from the mirror to respond.


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No "hype" here hon, I'm very secure in the RW Enjoying what I do for a living and bettering myself (18 months training and still going) in the process is something that of course I'm proud of. How anyone feels about themselves at the end of the day is on them. You should never try and change something if you're not dedicated in the first place. And backing out of something that will obviously better you because of my honest opinion is just silly. Stay where you are then if you're happy there, it's your life Originally Posted by Alyssa XOXO

There is nothing wrong with thinking ahead, not everyone will be in this industry forever. If you're not attractive in the first place and no one cares to remember seeing you, (shrug) then some people are already used to that. Most normal people have a "type" that they date in the RW and wouldn't mind being seen out with. Of course not every woman is picky, obviously. What is considered "omg" on here is not usually the "RW omg". Different strokes for different folks "for sure" on here but hey, that's part of the hobby right? lol Some UTR's use the hobby as their means of dating, that's their choice. Words go farther on here than actually standing in front of a full length mirror "naked" and honestly liking what one "honestly" sees (there wouldn't be so much photo shop going on). No worries though, to each their own Originally Posted by Alyssa XOXO

How many of the team members would you be willing to be seen with in public? Damn near the most shallow, narcissistic, turn off post I've ever seen from a whore.

How many of the team members would you be willing to be seen with in public? Damn near the most shallow, narcissistic, turn off post I've ever seen from a whore. Originally Posted by Sjc21108

I'm sure you'd like to know I agree with "turn off posts", nothing attractive about reading people whine about not getting free public dates. Or complain because some people actually choose to be discreet, both Providers and Clientele. No worries, you're entitled to your Opinion as well, I'm very much aware of what I wrote

I'm sure you'd like to know I agree with "turn off posts", nothing attractive about reading people whine about not getting free public dates. Or complain because some people actually choose to be discreet, both Providers and Clientele. No worries, you're entitled to your Opinion as well, I'm very much aware of what I wrote Originally Posted by Alyssa XOXO

In another thread I said I didn't think you were stupid. I take that back.

I offer multi hour discounts so if he wants to go out then BCD, that's fine with me. I rather be the dirty little whore he bends over and goes home happy thinking about my hot little pussy. Off the clock has to be a friend, someone I enjoy in the hobby! Other than that when my legs aren't up I'm enjoying lasting memories and thinking about when I'll be a empy nester. But with a hobby friend, yes! For a meet and greet, not for me