WHY DON'T YOU MEN ACTUALLY READ POSTS??

Toyz's Avatar
  • Toyz
  • 06-07-2014, 09:13 AM
This is just silly. Y'all took post completely different direction, I've gotten contacted more by people because of the way y'all are acting. Originally Posted by sashasmith512

You keep saying "stay on topic'...but YOU are the one deviating! Then when one of us responds to a new item you act like we're the ones "taking it in a different direction"

You've slammed Eccie, you've brought up barebacking, you've said you never would have come here if you knew "how it was", you say how you like to meet guys in a club to interact-but you are pissed when they contact you by IM "because its bullshit",

You brought up discussions regarding men having "private" areas & how that is unfair. Also that we can review. that is the only way we know about a girl before we plunk down a few benjamins on what could be a waste of money (you yourself amongst your 40 reviews have three resounding NO's).

And as ZTonk alluded to, this is a guys site.."CLIENT COMMUNITY". that allows girls to express their opinions as you are doing in this thread.

My real thoughts are that you just don't get how this works. Communication is key. Guys reach out in different ways. I have a few girls here I have never seen BCD but we exchange IM messages just to "talk". Someday they might develop into a cash making proposition for the girl(s). EVERY PERSON WHO CONTACTS YOU IS A POTENTIAL REGULAR...AND MIGHT ACTUALLY TURN INTO A FRIEND YOU CAN DEPEND ON. Investing a bit of time to respond to a few with a nice response wouldn't take much of your time, and you are not that busy that you couldn't do it when you wake up. on a break, or on a timed slot where you respond to your potential clientele.

If you want less drama...quit stoking the fires. And I've enjoyed having you express your opinions, no hate here...just listening and chiming in where I think I can add value to the discussion.
bmecme's Avatar
I can only agree with toyz. You never know when that one message is going to turn in to a good friend and someone you can depend on. I have my own experiences with it in the hobby and I am sure a lot of other guys do too.
However, back to the point - why don't guys read messages? We do. Sometimes the initial contact protocol is confusing. Sometimes it isn't clearly stated. An example I have seen a lot - contact me via email, but send a pm to verify because I don't check my email. You can also text or call. Or the contact me through my site only. Then when you go to the site on your phone you cant contact her because it isnt optimized for mobile phones. Wtf amirite? There are some 'standard' contact protocols some of the veteran ladies use which makes life easier. That is also why I tend to gravitate to those ladies.
At the end of the day, there will always be bs to deal with. Ladies deal with jerk off guys and guys deal with temperamental women. That's the nature of the beast.
RALPHEY BOY's Avatar
Lol I've had at least 20 guys tell me information, and I never asked, didn't even know about private sections until they told me. I don't have male profile, can barely handle the one lmao Originally Posted by sashasmith512
you got played,.. these 20 guys are playing you for better BCD or they think being a WK will somehow make you like them more or whatever their angle is....
Whispers's Avatar
OK I read your post thoroughly and my comprehension is pretty good! What I'm reading is that stuff is posted in private areas where a girl can't read it? And then clients of your's behind closed doors tell you this information because they are expecting this information to be correct?
That is a ban able offense! Private info is exactly that Private and you should have NO knowledge of it.
Now my question is do you have a male profile that allows you to read it, or Which Guys are giving you this information BCD? Originally Posted by rockerrick
Can I ask a question?

http://www.eccie.net/showpost.php?p=...9&postcount=42

You seem to take a lot of freedom in determining what is private and what is not.... aren't you the pot calling the kettle black here?

oh... everyone else.... carry on and fry her as she definitely has crossed lines..... Just wanted to point out the hypocrisy in RR jumping her shit...
playingnthedark's Avatar
Ouch!
Pardon me if this was mentioned and I missed it, have you thought about using a booking calendar that showed what times you were free?
you got played,.. these 20 guys are playing you for better BCD or they think being a WK will somehow make you like them more or whatever their angle is.... Originally Posted by RALPHEY BOY
Wasn't like that, more like comments in passing, I get a lot of lurkers that probably don't know your rules. Nobody got any special treatment lol
you got played,.. these 20 guys are playing you for better BCD or they think being a WK will somehow make you like them more or whatever their angle is.... Originally Posted by RALPHEY BOY

Ah I remember the newbie days we all got played somehow or another
OUCH
Can I ask a question?

http://www.eccie.net/showpost.php?p=...9&postcount=42

You seem to take a lot of freedom in determining what is private and what is not.... aren't you the pot calling the kettle black here?

oh... everyone else.... carry on and fry her as she definitely has crossed lines..... Just wanted to point out the hypocrisy in RR jumping her shit... Originally Posted by Whispers
Nope you are wrong as you usually are. My comments come from the age and the activities all members can read them, as you don't need PA because it's not the ROS
Still Looking's Avatar
Yeah.... imagine the horror of having to check messages. A terrible job hazard indeed. Originally Posted by Jagermonster
Still Looking's Avatar
Wasn't like that, more like comments in passing, I get a lot of lurkers that probably don't know your rules. Nobody got any special treatment lol Originally Posted by sashasmith512
The MODS treat me special..... "Special Needs" kind of thing LMFAO
The MODS treat me special..... "Special Needs" kind of thing LMFAO Originally Posted by Still Looking
You also said "that's what BP is for. If you want last minute decision then go there"
Being new shouldn't, but your bashing newbie clients as if your some veteran provider.
" I love when I can easily book an appointment with a client who understands or has been hobbying for awhile."
Same goes for us clients, however most of you providers could care less about our time and have been known to NCNS, bump schedules and etc. yet we are supposed to be to be caring enough to make your job just a smidgen easier huh?
You've been known to do this yourself,...
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?...=sashasmith512 Originally Posted by AtxTexMex
this is off topic...but I thought that was a bit harch...and here I thought it was the other way around! I guess there are bad apples on each side...
Now you know how us guys feel when a lady doesn't read our appointment request completely. Sucks doesn't it?
z Originally Posted by ztonk
Does that really happen?