Does a strap-on make a man gay/bi?

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Think what you want. I don't give a fuck about your respect or if I have "street cred".
It all comes down to the male sacred spot/ g-spot..... It feels good when you are touched in that special way, so bend over and get over it! ;-) What was the real reason why Rome fell?
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To answer everyone and OP question it's simply comes down to this. If you were ever interested or curious about those activities then you might possibly have Latent homosexuality...strangely don't know why but a lot of R&B and Rap artist I used to look up to are this as well.
http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Latent_homosexuality
To answer everyone and OP question it's simply comes down to this. If you were ever interested or curious about those activities then you might possibly have Latent homosexuality...strangely don't know why but a lot of R&B and Rap artist I used to look up to are this as well.
http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Latent_homosexuality Originally Posted by slickrick281
Latent homosexuality is an erotic inclination toward members of the same sex
Last time I checked, strapon sex from a woman, didnt meet that criteria, UNLESS your desire for such, is due to attraction of a man doing it instead...
This thread is just one awesome after another.
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I made a mistake its Latent bisexual..not much of a big difference, same concept psychologically if you kept on reading. The OP basically ask is it gay to like or be curious of a woman fucking you in the ass with a strap on? Answer is yes because of the hidden inclination or potential for*interest of smashed by a dude too. which is either suppressed or not recognized, and which has not yet been explored(like his case). So even if you make the argument that "well it's still with a woman I'm doing it with" your still borderline from being like Eddie Murphy, LL Cool J, Rapper Chingy ect. who were caught seeing trannys.
I made a mistake its Latent bisexual..not much of a big difference, same concept psychologically if you kept on reading. The OP basically ask is it gay to like or be curious of a woman fucking you in the ass with a strap on? Answer is yes because of the hidden inclination or potential for*interest of smashed by a dude too. which is either suppressed or not recognized, and which has not yet been explored(like his case). So even if you make the argument that "well it's still with a woman I'm doing it with" your still borderline from being like Eddie Murphy, LL Cool J, Rapper Chingy ect. who were caught seeing trannys. Originally Posted by slickrick281
A) I would not say seeing a tranny and a woman with a strapon is the same thing

B) According to the frued quotes in the link, there is no way to dispute if its gay or not, because even if the guy has ZERO desire for it to be a man, it could all just be repressed, so you can never actually know.

Its proving a negative, which you cant do. Proving you ARENT gay is like proving you didnt commit a murder, you cant prove a negative, you can only prove that you ARE gay or DID commit the murder....all other variations are open for argument and interpretation, my the individual and everyone else.

I still maintain, if you are in some way attracted to a MAN, manliness, etc, that makes you bi/gay. If you are attracted to a woman, and she puts something in your ass, you arent gay unless you do it because you wish it was a man. Im not sure how getting a BJ with a finger in the ass is less gay than a strapon from a woman, but some argue it is - I argue, if its the WOMAN doing it that turns you on, then you arent gay. The act itself cant make you gay, its the background desire, and / or who is doing it. A blowjob doesnt make you gay. A BJ from a man does. A BJ from a woman, while wishing it was a man, does. IMO Same thing with a strapon.

You can argue the tranny side both ways, and many do, and there are plenty of threads about it. On that one, I go back to the attraction piece, and the fact that porn owners dont even try to market TS porn to gay men, because the fact that a TS appears as a woman, regardless of equip, is a turn off to them, they want straight up men. Theres far more grey area IMO on the TS debate making you gay or bi, but the fact that the attraction is to someone that appears as a woman says a lot, imo - if you were straight up gay, youd be attracted to dick no matter what its attached to.

No one is ever going to agree on it, and thats fine, and frankly it doesnt matter enough to me what someone else thinks about MY sexuality. I know what my identity is, and I am fine with it, without labels, and with whatever labels you want to put on it.
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Interesting arguments. I agree with the simple rule that if it's a guy doing it to you or you are imagining its a guy, then you're bi or gay. Men and women can do or simulate most of the same sexual acts, so it's not the act itself, but who's doing it and it they have a pussy.

I love to eat pussy and that doesn't make me a lesbian, although if I was then I could hit from the ladies tees and lower my handicap.
Can we all agree on this now?

If it involves a man, or you're imagining a man pounding your ass with the strap-on, then gay.

Otherwise, not gay.
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Nah.....either way, butt darts is gay.....heh, it even rhymed.....
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Gay...
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