I agree with
texan.andy. For me. I was no sex just over 1-yr ago. Frustrasting. Then I loaded this board and got comfortable with how to get into it without being an idiot. Spent about $3-4K over then next 12-14 months and get lots of pussy. Enjoyed the hell out of it, even the "not so great experiences". (TOFTT) About 8 mos into it, my wife suddenly started approaching me...guess she realized that I wasn't asking for it from her, anymore..not as aften. It has been great sex ever since. Now I use the hobby as "that time of the month" and most likely maybe through the upcoming menopause....I still need sex more than her....so I supplement. I am hugely happier this way...It seem she notices. I am not angry or annoyed, any longer. It has really helped our relationship....it does cost $$...but I have that,,,,