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Ah SL, welcome to understanding Broken Rotor. It can be painfully interesting.
But, will you admit that KC is the center of the known universe?
Gals from Texas, Tennessee, Denver, Nebraska and now Michigan all visit.
And thank you Burki, for the reference from KC's northern suburbs. Originally Posted by Unique_Carpenter

I'm a believer!

[QUOTE=FrEaKyKeEkI;1056438257]Now I am not about drama and I don't like putting people on blast but I am VERY upset about the recent review given on me...I do not get negative reviews very often and this new one has me mad...

First off it was a scheduled two hour appointment I did not upsell him on 2hrs for MSOG that was the original agreement. Secondly I don't get how a guy can sit for two hours laugh and joke and have great conversation seem to be having a great time. Even says before he leaves to let him know next time I am coming to town and even texted me after he left like everything was great to post a negative review on me.
I always ask up front what a person is into what they like what they don't like and if I am doing something you don't like or like different to let me know..Never once did I hear a complaint from this person. I have a lot of reviews so you can get an idea of who I am and how I am if you read them and that's not what you want then don't set something up with me. Don't set something up get everything you want and act happy for 2hours and afterward just to complain about it later.. Again why waste my time pretending to be happy and text me after the fact like your happy just to post negative things on me...
"Why" is always the most difficult question to answer honey. That being said, my answer is summed up in one word: S-O-C-I-O-P-A-T-H.

For those who enjoy learning and would like to know, here's a link and an excerpt from an interesting article, that might be helpful on identifying someone unsavory. Never hurts to know a bit than we already know.

How to Spot a Sociopath:

Researchers sometimes make a distinction between primary psychopaths—confirmed, bona fide psychopaths—and secondary psychopaths, also called sociopaths.

Sociopaths are cut from the same cloth as psychopaths, with 3 key differences:


First, while true psychopaths are confident, social, and dominant, sociopaths are reserved and inhibited, sometimes loners. And while psychopaths are exempt from negative emotion, sociopaths are often hostile and do experience anxiety and rejection.

Second, while psychopaths truly have no morals, sociopaths do have a sense of morality and a conscience, but their sense of right and wrong is skewed and doesn’t match society at large. Sociopaths are often crusaders or martyrs for a perceived cause; they see their depraved acts as necessary. So antagonistic, withdrawn Timothy McVeigh is a good example.

The third, oversimplified, difference is that psychopaths are born, while sociopaths are made, often through extreme childhood adversity and exposure to violence. But it’s not as simple as just nature or nurture—the truth lies somewhere in a scramble of genetics, neurology, and environment.

Unlike psychopathy, sociopathy can even be acquired: dementia or a head injury can do the trick. For example, think of Phineas Gage from your Psych 101 class. He was an easygoing construction foreman with lots of friends until, in 1848, a railroad explosion sent a 13-pound tamping rod into Gage’s eye and out the top of his head. Miraculously, he survived, but even as he physically healed, he became "fitful, irreverent, and grossly profane, showing little deference for his fellows." He was also "impatient and obstinate, yet capricious and vacillating, unable to settle on any of the plans he devised for future action." Basically, this was the 1840s version of calling him a stubborn, foulmouthed, flaky a--hole with mood swings—if not true acquired sociopathy, at least a close cousin.

To wrap up, I’ll leave you with the best example of psychopathy I’ve ever seen. He’s not a serial killer, evil CEO, or maniacal despot—he’s Eric Cartman from South Park. Cartman is a genuine psychopath. Indeed, making chili out of Scott Tenorman’s parents is the tip of his horrific iceberg.

MaxiMilyen,

so which of these two is Helicopter??????

He's all of the above JJ

I've never met him or done any research on him, only know what's on this thread, so I couldn't tell ya. Which do the folks who know him better, think he is, if either?

I've never met him or done any research on him, only know what's on this thread, so I couldn't tell ya. Which do the folks who know him better, think he is, if either? Originally Posted by MaxiMilyen

Word of the week: CHEAPSKATE

A miserly or stingy person; especially: one who tries to avoid paying: a grasping person who is usually stingy with money

Synonyms penny-pincher, piker, scrooge, skinflint, tightwad
Antonyms prodigal, profligate, spender, generous


Yoda these make me laugh. It's so fitting that you bring up that as a word of the week. I do like the humor. Especially when it comes from you.

You forgot price basher.

Gemma, we all should be very thankful we have the one and only Mr. Helicopter!Every board/town needs their own proven clown/ fool!LOL

Dude....please, leave me alone. You always try to get on my last nerve like it's a game. I don't really wanna play your game. Please find someone else to stalk and aggravate that enjoys being just, well.....like you, I guess. Just cause I showed ya that I could, doesn't mean it's who I am or what I enjoy. I'm gonna ask nicely for you to leave me alone, unless you can think of something constructive, helpful, or even nice to say. I'm outta your league and intend to stay there.....k? If ya wanna play with me, go find yourself a ladder,, and start climbing, but ya gotta play by my rules. Is that clear enough for ya?

He's all of the above JJ Originally Posted by Gemma34

Thank you Gemma for presenting an all inclusive list definition. It would have taken quite a bit of time to list all the individual variations of the above items.

Gemma, we all should be very thankful we have the one and only Mr. Helicopter!Every board/town needs their own proven clown/ fool!LOL Originally Posted by JJ Fun Guy

Thank you Gemma for presenting an all inclusive list definition. It would have taken quite a bit of time to list all the individual variations of the above items. Originally Posted by Unique_Carpenter

True dat!

Not to burst anyone's bubble, but ya can't really be both. You can be born a psychopath, but usually emotional and/or physical trauma are the triggers for becoming a sociopath.

Sure ya can!

I'm pretty confidant that's not so, unless it's a special thing just for this guy. LOL. Born a psychopath with induced Sociopathic tendencies? He'd be a really dangerous man if that were so. ijs

Essentially to be a hardcore psychopath, you need both. AND, fuck yea he seems dangerous!! I'm just sayin'