it's amazing how people will nitpick the things that you say in order to argue I personally after 43 years of dealing with certain parts of Kansas don't care to go there ever again if I don't particularly have to if you really want me to give you the details of why I don't care for Kansas I will and I guarantee you after I do I would strongly advise nobody's a smart mouth my opinion but since I'm trying to put all of that behind me probably not going to go there.... I grew up in a small town in Kansas!! since I've been paying taxes since I was 14 years old I'm going to utilize the right to have an opinion about anything I want to especially about a state who will take a PFA order ...in case any of you smarty pants don't know what that is is a protection from abuse and literally turn it into a custody battle to where if the person who is abusing you or your children has more money than they will have the right to continue to abuse your children and unless you have the money to make that different they can abuse your children for the rest of their f****** life!!!! THEN 20 years later my cousin went through the same things that I did and guess what same f****** s*** so you can take a country drive with anybody you want in Kansas...EXCEPT ME!!! I just don't particularly want to if you want to take me for a country drive you might want to go somewhere like Missouri ;-)and anybody who wants to stand up for Kansas I don't particularly care I have the right to not like any place or anything or anyone I want I have forty three f****** years of terrible memories in Kansas so you can not go there with me I would pick somebody else to throw those balloons at ok now everybody have a wonderful weekend and know that it is sting season so please be very very careful I ordered sunshine tomorrow hopefully it will come through!!! OXOXXX. .
Originally Posted by Savannah Moon
WOW,
I think that this was directed at me. Sorry, so very sorry. I see your point. It is time to move on. I didn't know I was hitting such a sore area, and it was unfair to make funny without knowing you. But to be fair, I has a lot of bad experience in the Marine Corps, but I have learned not to hate the Corps. It was my situation, not the institution that was the problem. To be fair, it was not the STATE of Kansas that was the real problem, it was the one doing the abuse.
There are some areas of Kansas Law that is more progressive in children's and parent's rights than other states. So, this could have happened in most states.
But, your feelings are still your feelings and you deserved to be praised for your desire, and emotions, concerning your children. Family is important. Anger and emotions can be a powerful tool for everyone, if one is able to understand the anger/emotions and focus it in the proper direction.
Good luck. Again, I apologize for sticking up for Kansas. In a lot of ways it is a backward state. But then, it is rural and conservative.
JR