Your skin is your sin around here honey...
And btw you have to have thick skin around here too.. Originally Posted by Champagne Brown
Yeah, if you're a dancer, being an escort is going to be an adjustment. You can't just say anything you want and expect your cute looks to make it okay. Our clients expect to be catered to with a good attitude, and if you won't give it to them, someone else will.
Some advice, if you care:
Take better pictures. Preferably not in a strip club locker room (strippers get a bad rap for a bad attitude around here), or with a toilet in the background. No one wants to pay $300 for something showcasing a toilet. Class it up a little bit, hun. The pics in the little mini dresses are pretty cute, just change the setting.
Take any hostile text out of your ads, showcases, etc. Most guys get enough attitude at home. They don't want it from you, too. You're turning like half your business away before they ever contact you with hostile, accusatory, or impatient language. You get a little more leeway here once you establish a solid base of regulars and really don't have to attract too much more business. But you aren't there yet. Be sweet, or be silent. But of course, don't be a pushover and stand up for yourself when necessary.. which is probably much less often than you think.
Don't listen to anyone about your prices or services. The ONLY person who knows whether your prices or services are where they need to be is you, based on the volume of business you want compared to what you are getting. If you're getting plenty of biz, tell the CBJ haters and the cheapskates to kick rocks. If you're not, start looking at where you might be going wrong. I'd start with the things I listed above before I went touching your rates or services. Anyway, start marketing more, post ads here, get on P411, get on any other sites you can find that seem legit. Visibility is key. Keep your name and goodies on people's minds and in their faces.
Don't run review specials. Just my opinion. You can get reviews for free, just nicely ask any gent you see who you think might have had a good time with you if he would mind. Someone will do it. Then someone else will do it. Reviews will come. No need to pay for them with a discount. For every guy who says "I don't write reviews for free, how dare you?" there's another guy standing behind him who will be happy to do it.
Best of luck. Originally Posted by CarolineDavenport