Protocol

Back to protocol.

If I was visiting at a hotel and couldn't leave, after my appointment i'd pull out the plastic and get a room.

If I'm meeting at her place i'd leave, simple as that. The provider has a life as well as I do. Overextending your welcome is something I always avoid.

If she was stranded at my place I'd let her stay and expect nothing more. She could take the bed while I take the couch. Protocol is pretty simple actually.

OK, here goes

What is proper protocol for the following hypothetical?

You have an appointment with a lady. You show up with the proper donation and any extra for a tip. The two of you have a fantastic time together. It is time to part ways, but you look outside and one mother of a snow storm has descended upon the area. You are stranded. There is no way for you to leave safely. Knowing that there is no way for anyone else to make it to the ladies incall safely either, do you impose and stay, or risk life and limb and venture outside to make it to god only knows where? Should the lady offer? Would any "extra" compensation be expected? Should any extra activities take place knowing ahead of time no extra money was brought? Could an IOU be involved? I know, it all depends on the relationship and what the lady decides, but in most circumstances, what would most ladies do if it were your average, run of the mill decent guy good client who is clean, always shows up on time and pays.

The reason I ask is because I have a lady who could not see me today because she was booked. She calls me back asking where I am. I tell her she must have the wrong number. She realizes who I am and then wishes she had booked me instead as I would have shown up unlike her other client. Too late for that, but she does book me for tomorrow. I explain to her that there is an impending storm coming. I mention how great it would be if we got stranded together for 24+ hours. The first words out of her mouth were that she could afford her new car. *(%#WTF#%## Needless to say, I was a little shocked. How much does she think her time is worth and also, how much stamina does she think I have? LOL. Originally Posted by GP

There is no way for you to leave safely. Knowing that there is no way for anyone else to make it to the ladies incall safely either, do you impose and stay, or risk life and limb and venture outside to make it to god only knows where?

You ask if you can stay until the weather clears or you find a nearby place to stay.


Should the lady offer? Yes, if she can.

Would any "extra" compensation be expected? No

Should any extra activities take place knowing ahead of time no extra money was brought? No

Could an IOU be involved? No

I know, it all depends on the relationship and what the lady decides, but in most circumstances, what would most ladies do if it were your average, run of the mill decent guy good client who is clean, always shows up on time and pays.

Offer shelter and if she is in the mood, you can be her slave until the weather clears.


It's offensive of you to even joke about how great spending 24+ hours together would be and then complain that the lady expects to be compensated in a big way. It's offensive to even ask what she thinks her time is worth. You know what her time is worth and you can't change the terms because of the weather. Spending 24 hours catering to anyone is exhausting and worth every penny earned. What you might not understand is that escorts cater to you and do it with a smile on their face and that doesn't mean they are always having a good time.

I know you meant no harm but you need to get it straight.

If I were a provider and a snowstorm happened to occur for my safety the following are the choices...

I would offer them a chance to call a cab to a local hotel or let them go rent a room if it were a hotel...

I would offer him an extra couple of blankets...and a can of gas out of the garage to keep the heat on and if you have an emergency you can use the bathroom when needed...

Bottom line business and safety come 1st and I would never expect to stay with a provider beyond the time frame of the arrangements nor expect her to make special arrangements regardless...I should have canceled point blank rather than impose upon or help create an awkward situation.

Would I find them inhumane...No cause it's their safety and personal space on the line and it's something that should never be crossed.

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http://www.urbandictionary.com/defin...nties+in+a+wad Originally Posted by LynnPL

stop it...yer killin' me.......

Well...here is my thoughts on this...I have had encountered this particular situation twice...this year..and 2 years ago....two years ago..the gent planned in advance ..heard the storm was a commin and he booked my multiple hours plan....he booked from 12 noon till 6pm..and that gave him enough time to come visit with me...enjoy himself and when it was time for him to leave..he had plenty of time to get home before the storm started...
He did call me on his way home to let me know how he was doing..which I insisted he do..made it home ..no problem....

This storm...I had a gent that called the day prior to let me know..other plans should be made for he does have a good drive both ways...We rescheduled.......

Now..being the creatively brilliant creature of beauty that I am..and filled with the uncanny ability to predict such the situation of this sort.. when I picked out my InCall location..My plan C is as follows...

I could not allow the gent to stay at my location...my loss entirely...however...exactly 2 stoplights up...there is a brand new... beautifully build... and a very handsome Hotel at that....Warmth..Safe...
Clean and a coffee cafe across from the Hotel...
He would be very comfortable...

And BONUS for him... in the event he still wanted play time.. he would be able to call another provider and make it a wing ding of a day in the providers's hall of fame review..if he sooo intended to review his play time activities...
And that is how I handled my situations and if it were to come up again..that one as well...nita..

You know what.... I actually remembered last year while working for EENY, I had to travel to Buffalo for an incall. My drive wasn't that bad however there was a storm coming as well and the gent actually drove up from down in the southern tier. Buffalo was like a half way for both of us to meet. He booked two hours, paid for two hours but we both parted ways before the hour was up. He actually insisted since we both would have a drive, his worst because he would be driving into the storm. When I got back to Rochester, Tony let him know I made it safe. And we ended up meeting a few other times.

As for having a hotel near your incall, I too have a few within a short distance that would be safe enough for any gent to get to. It sure would be nice to be stuck in the house with a few gents... I just don't think a "planned snow in" isn't the way to go. However, if there was 5 feet of snow dumped on us in an hour, I guess I would have to suck it up and deal with the situation.

It's offensive of you to even joke about how great spending 24+ hours together would be and then complain that the lady expects to be compensated in a big way. It's offensive to even ask what she thinks her time is worth. You know what her time is worth and you can't change the terms because of the weather. Spending 24 hours catering to anyone is exhausting and worth every penny earned. What you might not understand is that escorts cater to you and do it with a smile on their face and that doesn't mean they are always having a good time.

I know you meant no harm but you need to get it straight. Originally Posted by summerwaves

OFFENSIVE after she expected me to buy a freaking car? And where did I ever say I complained to her. You have to be kidding me. We were actually quite friendly with each other and I have seen her since.

Even THE BEST providers from this area only command 1500 for that. Not a freaking cars worth. It's offensive to even ask what her time is worth? Give me a break. That question is asked all the time. If the rate is too high, I go shopping someplace else. What? I suppose you would buy a dozen eggs at a grocery store even if the price tag said 100 bucks? Would you not question the price at the register? Get real!

The whole storm/24 hour thing was never going to be an issue. It was a freaking JOKE!!!!!!! She knew it as well, but she still actually spent the time and did the math to figure out how much a car was going to cost her so she could figure out what to charge me. We both actually laughed a little bit about this in our future conversation. The weather aspect of this was to begin a thread with some conversation based on humanity and how some providers would handle this hypothetical. I can see humanity is lacking by some people here.

was wondering why it took you long to reply, but figured you needed to go shopping for a new computer after smashing your old one to pieces after that "get it straight remark"...

Patience is a virtue (edit:godsend). LOL I do actually have a life, believe it or not. I can't be on here 24/7 as much as I would like to.

Where have you been JB?

Patience is a godsend. LOL I do actually have a life, believe it or not. I can't be on here 24/7 as much as I would like to.

Where have you been JB? Originally Posted by GP

glad you have a life, but, wish you could show more consideration for those of us that don't and check in from time to time..to get on topic, if your provider automotive calculations exceeded a buck twenty a month, you were getting "screwed"...Call BILLY, hell get her "out of the bicycle rack and into valle parking"..she'll be hhhhHHHHHHHHHUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUGG GGGGGGGGGEEEEEEE AAAAAAAA!!! I havn't been anywhere, just signed up feb 1st, maybe you have me confused with someone else??? thanks for asking though.. JB..

I like what several people wrote-I would (and have) offered the lady to stay the night (she was too messed up to drive-she stayed-no problem) and I have stayed over at a providers house on several occaisions (I could not drive).

In a weather situation I'd suggest one other alternative-offer her a loan if she needed it to get her own room somewhere. Not everyone has plastic or excess cash they can immediately call upon.

"What you do for the least of my children you also do for me" turns out to be pretty good advice.

Is it me or does anyone else hear that strange "buzzing" noise? Naah - it must be me...........

Is it me or does anyone else hear that strange "buzzing" noise? Naah - it must be me........... Originally Posted by Perryay

Come on, he's behaving so well!