Just Wondering...🙋🏻

Truthfully I wouldn't necessarily want a reference giving specifics on me past normal screening or a yes or no. She can ask the client that stuff herself. Some ladies need help guiding the penis inside......others not so much.........

Very true Lexy. I am always prompt and the true VP S usually show the same respect. If I don't get a time ly response I usually give the potential client the choice of an alternative means of verification

id bet

the guys here want to know more about the guys

then the chicks

chicks want

1. Your not a cop

2. sometimes first , interchangeable = MONEY

3. clean balls

guys will pay to lay around and talk about other guys balls I'm guessing

stick with BP






in my assessment

There are many different reasons why some providers don't give references most of them are listed above. Some providers are very territorial and just simply refuse to give references. Some providers state that they are reference friendly but once you ask them they will not reply. I am always happy to provide references, after all we rely on each other to stay safe. The only time I don't provide a reference to another provider is when she has a history of not providing a reference to me. I will not help someone that isn't willing to return the favor.

There have been a few times when a provider has contacted me and if i'm not familiar with her and I can't find any information about her, out of respect for my clients safety, I will ask her to have the gentleman contact me to verify that he is wanting a reference for that provider. Once he verified that he would like a reference from me to see that provider then I am happy to give the reference.

You will eventually figure out who is reference friendly and who is not reference friendly and you will know who not to waste your time contacting.

Well stated Lariyah_Cash and why I never bothered or had need for that ref BS......

Why is it that some providers are so helpful when it comes to giving a reference and others don't seem to want raise a finger to even respond to a text or an email? I realize I'm a newer provider, but I thought the whole reference thing was to benefit all of us; to keep us safe. I'm happy to give a reference to anyone and they can contact me by text, email or pm and expect a prompt reply bc I know time is money. I really am just wondering if there is something that I'm missing, am I wasting my time trying to get references from some providers? Some of the providers have been absolutely amazing, don't get me wrong, and I love them for it. Any advice you can give me is appreciated...XXOO Originally Posted by lillygrey

Email me (not PM) if you'd like and I can share some screening tips.
References should not be the be all end all of screening.
If ladies don't want to respond or take forever to do so it's no skin off of my back at all lol because I have a lot of other alternative screening methods.
References can be awesome sauce and helpful but in the end though don't leave your safety in the hands of someone else.

XO

Or poach the client after receiving a request Originally Posted by Chica Chaser

Oh yes lots of those out there