……….does hobbyist A have the right to limit the selection of another hobbyist who sees a different type woman?

It is a mash up of opinions.... My big downfall is in one review I am said to be talking too much...Then in another they love the sound of my british accent....so go figure!!

And yes, Dagny, we've known each other a long time. We've had our differences but I've always thought you were a woman of good taste ... or is that a woman that tastes good? Sorry Charlie! BOTH!
Originally Posted by Yssup Rider

now that's funny....I don't care who you are! LOL.

thank you I like both!

No, that much suction hurts.

Please note I never complained... but if you ask I'll answer. Originally Posted by 78704

Now, how does that work in your favor??? That's NOT providing me w/ a performance appraisal for improvement, is it? Think about the contradiction.

*That goes for more than just 78704, btw, cuz I definitely encourage feedback during a session. We're all different in our likes/dislikes as evidenced by this thread.*

Additionally, how many of you fellas w/ S.O.'s have marvelled over the sheer number of clothes most women horde? Notice anything about the sizing? THEY VARY DRAMATICALLY. I have a size 2P(etite) raincoat & a size 10 wool coat that both fit me NOW. WTF??? No fashion industry standard has ever been agreed upon. It's a known fact. That's why I noted that at my preferred weight, I wore a RANGE of sizes from 6-10.

VARIETY works for some - not for everyone. Just go w/ what you like & leave others to do the same. Seems simple enough to me.

Check ya' later, bye!

I agree with Dagny that some of the guys seem to gleefully enjoy ticking off the faults and failures of the women here in a mean spirited way to the point that I sometimes think they only hobby so that they can be in a position to *finally* lash out at women in some way.

<self edit the rest because I don't want anyone's feelings to get hurt>

Now, how does that work in your favor??? That's NOT providing me w/ a performance appraisal for improvement, is it? Think about the contradiction. Originally Posted by Kit-4-Kat

If I offer feedback women complain. If I don't offer feedback women complain. I see no contradiction.

Looks like you've painted yourself into a corner, zipcode! Maybe you ought to add the last 4 digits to your handle!

If I offer feedback women complain. If I don't offer feedback women complain. I see no contradiction. Originally Posted by 78704

Oh for crying out loud. You have never known when to quit. If someone is hurting your junk in the midst of a session that you are paying for, tell them to stop. Or do you only have balls on the Internet? Kat isn't gonna complain if you tell her to put the Hoover on the lower setting.

This goes to all hobbyists: tell us what you like! Faster, slower, harder, softer, more eye contact, etc... We try our best but we're not mind readers.

Thank you Dagny for the post! Its been enlightening at lest. There are some that will never change and don't want to. For me I only want to see provides that I have chemistry with. Respect goes a long way with both parties! On the board especially!!!

Oh for crying out loud. You have never known when to quit.

Sure, lots of reasons to quit. Possibly reading and writing is just easier for me; if these threads were speech they'd be brief conversations.

If someone is hurting your junk in the midst of a session that you are paying for, tell them to stop. Or do you only have balls on the Internet? Kat isn't gonna complain if you tell her to put the Hoover on the lower setting.

I did politely ask her to stop. She did stop. I didn't *complain*.

This goes to all hobbyists: tell us what you like! Faster, slower, harder, softer, more eye contact, etc... We try our best but we're not mind readers. Originally Posted by Sensual Sophia

Start with a warm friendly greeting and don't forget the smileys.

Dagny D.E.W "OH PS... the only POWER I have is to try my best to give such good service so that there are only good things to say about it in a review. "

+1, Right-on, Girl! I agree completely with that.

Why I am all for an Honest review. I also know that 1 guys "10" is another guys "7" . And if their are in deed "Issues" with the providers there should be disclosure..But it is possible to critique someone without being openly Hostile and Maliciois..I would think most ladys would actually be grateful to know if there was something that they needed to correct to make the experience better..It all goes back to being a Gentlemen. ( I know thats going to be a stretch for some on this board) but If people would drop the "Holier than thow" attitude it can very well be accomplished. the results would probably mean more useful info being exchanged..

Why I am all for an Honest review. I also know that 1 guys "10" is another guys "7" . And if their are in deed "Issues" with the providers there should be disclosure..But it is possible to critique someone without being openly Hostile and Maliciois..I would think most ladys would actually be grateful to know if there was something that they needed to correct to make the experience better..It all goes back to being a Gentlemen. ( I know thats going to be a stretch for some on this board) but If people would drop the "Holier than thow" attitude it can very well be accomplished. the results would probably mean more useful info being exchanged.. Originally Posted by Texasquest

You're right, one man's 10 is another man's 7. You could also say one man's hostile and malicious is another man's honest disclosure. You seem to be on a crusade to fix the rampant hostility here ever since you started posting in Austin. Good luck with that.

You seem to be displaying quite a bit of "Holier than thou" attitude toward the men here who you think might be a stretch to apply the word "gentleman" with. Is that OK only if it's toward the men around here and not extended toward the women?

You seem to be displaying quite a bit of "Holier than thou" attitude toward the men here who you think might be a stretch to apply the word "gentleman" with. Is that OK only if it's toward the men around here and not extended toward the women? Originally Posted by Rand Al'Thor

you don't expect her to be bashing the other gals now do ya?

You're right, one man's 10 is another man's 7. You could also say one man's hostile and malicious is another man's honest disclosure. You seem to be on a crusade to fix the rampant hostility here ever since you started posting in Austin. Good luck with that.

You seem to be displaying quite a bit of "Holier than thou" attitude toward the men here who you think might be a stretch to apply the word "gentleman" with. Is that OK only if it's toward the men around here and not extended toward the women? Originally Posted by Rand Al'Thor

I wasnt singling anyone out...just making an observation...But obviously it rubbed yor nerve..Not sure why..but i will leave that up the readers to come to their own conclusions as to why..


What i do find INTERESTING is if i have a different View than some of the gents here ..I am either on a Crusade or have an AGENDA...but when i agree with them all is rosey and hunky dory....makes one wonder about peoples insecurities...

You're right, one man's 10 is another man's 7. You could also say one man's hostile and malicious is another man's honest disclosure. You seem to be on a crusade to fix the rampant hostility here ever since you started posting in Austin. Good luck with that.

You seem to be displaying quite a bit of "Holier than thou" attitude toward the men here who you think might be a stretch to apply the word "gentleman" with. Is that OK only if it's toward the men around here and not extended toward the women? Originally Posted by Rand Al'Thor

If you would take the time to read my post.I agreed to the need of having "Honest disclosure"....but you evidently didnt like me agreeing with you..since that doesnt fit your view of me having a CRUSADE....You my friend just reiterated (by actions) that some people around here refuse to act in a civil manner...instead of politely discussing the issues..you would rather accuse someone of Being on a Crusade...I am not alone here but a pot of people are tired of this mentality..I for one would rather have a friendly debate without the personal animosity and attacks..Who knows if your good you may even be able to sway me to change my minds..But when you come attacking me first...It is very unlikely that i will..Thats just Human Nature..