Falling in love with a provider???

This was the best advice I have seen so far, but I still wants to be with her so bad.

You can have those feelings for her... it’s doesn’t mean you have to act on them. I’ve had “feelings” for a “provider” before. That feeling of connection with her that you are almost certain she does not share. I just try to enjoy the feeling for as long as it lasts, because it likely won’t last forever. Originally Posted by Wanderingcargo

This was the best advice I have seen so far, but I still wants to be with her so bad. Originally Posted by chino88

We cant save you from yourself, but this is not good

Chino:

You wont be the first guy to fall for a hooker/stripper/etc. And if you act on those feelings, you won't be the first guy to live to regret it. Live an learn because I doubt anything anyone says will stop you.

Im a marry man and I love my wife till death, but she is just so different.

Chino:

You wont be the first guy to fall for a hooker/stripper/etc. And if you act on those feelings, you won't be the first guy to live to regret it. Live an learn because I doubt anything anyone says will stop you. Originally Posted by havingfunnow

I wonder if guys actually develop true "feelings" for a provider? I think majority say what they can in order to see what "perks" they can get. Free, bare, bragging rights? I mean they all say how much they love their wives, but here they are? Just playing devils advocate. It is a curious conundrum?

I wonder if guys actually develop true "feelings" for a provider? Originally Posted by Kendall4U

I develop feelings very easily, which is why I don't mess around with civvies. I don't want or need a relationship that lasts any longer than a few hours.

I wonder if guys actually develop true "feelings" for a provider? I think majority say what they can in order to see what "perks" they can get. Free, bare, bragging rights? I mean they all say how much they love their wives, but here they are? Just playing devils advocate. It is a curious conundrum? Originally Posted by Kendall4U

These guys need help if they're falling for a hooker, those perks as you call them, are only perks if you personally consider them that, these guys that are in love with their SO are probably telling the truth, they also love multiples BB pussy that is being given away and it's not a perk, just the normal these days

Take a shot of liquor and move the hell on.... Originally Posted by Kendall4U

A stupid question, however, a brilliant response.

I think most you are right, this feeling its only one way ( me to her ) I don't think its gonna work, but it wast awesome while it lasted and don't regret it cause I had tons of fun with her and if I could I would do it again.

For now Im just gonna retire from the hobby for a period of to get my shit together, thanks for all the advice and play safe everyone!!

Don't.

Do Not Do It!

It hardly ever works out...

I wonder if guys actually develop true "feelings" for a provider? I think majority say what they can in order to see what "perks" they can get. Free, bare, bragging rights? I mean they all say how much they love their wives, but here they are? Just playing devils advocate. It is a curious conundrum? Originally Posted by Kendall4U

No... you just wish it happened to you.

I wonder if guys actually develop true "feelings" for a provider? I think majority say what they can in order to see what "perks" they can get. Free, bare, bragging rights? I mean they all say how much they love their wives, but here they are? Just playing devils advocate. It is a curious conundrum? Originally Posted by Kendall4U

So I loved my wife until I didn't. The marriage failed on its own accord and not because of anything hobby related. However, my feelings were this.

1. I loved her for everything she was and wasn't. There was a certain feeling I had around her and she made me happy in that regard. Hell she still does. The woman is an amazing person.

2. The sex kind of sucked sometimes and she wasn't really into fulfilling any of my fantasies. Therefore hobby... Now I have had my favorites (I have primarily been on p411 that is why no reviews). I have had my not so favorites too. However, anything and everything I did with a provider was to fulfill a fantasy and there is just nothing any provider could do to my dick to make me love them. Further 99% of what a provider says in session is total bullshit. A fuck toy is just not going to stimulate my mind.

3. Now lets assume I am a total stupid ass (which I am not) and I left my wife and daughter to pursue that beautiful younger provider that just needs love (Which I would never) It is simple math. How many guys is that ex provider fucking while I bust my ass at work to put money into the place? What steps would I take to protect myself, my assets and my future? How much trust can I truly invest in someone who I paid for time with? The answer is - this all becomes a total shit show.

I cannot speak for everyone here - but leaving your family for a provider monetarily is about as profitable as investing dog shit. and Feelings wise it is a world of hurt. It is best the hobby world remain separate.


Chino - I can absolutely assure you that once you go down this road there will come a day that you will literally be sitting alone in the dark and will contemplate putting a gun in your mouth. Work out your shit with your wife, or go be single for a while, but it sounds like you are searching for something and you will not find it in this world. None of these chicks care about you to include the one you have the feels for that is fucking for money right now, while you write about your feelings for her.

Im a marry man and I love my wife till death, but she is just so different. Originally Posted by chino88

Oh, shit...please tell us you don’t have children. Don’t fuck that up if you do.

Actually we have done more then just provider and customer business, I was ready to live this situation in the past, but she started texting me again, since I'm a fucking dumb ass i will probably fall again.

So I loved my wife until I didn't. The marriage failed on its own accord and not because of anything hobby related. However, my feelings were this.

1. I loved her for everything she was and wasn't. There was a certain feeling I had around her and she made me happy in that regard. Hell she still does. The woman is an amazing person.

2. The sex kind of sucked sometimes and she wasn't really into fulfilling any of my fantasies. Therefore hobby... Now I have had my favorites (I have primarily been on p411 that is why no reviews). I have had my not so favorites too. However, anything and everything I did with a provider was to fulfill a fantasy and there is just nothing any provider could do to my dick to make me love them. Further 99% of what a provider says in session is total bullshit. A fuck toy is just not going to stimulate my mind.

3. Now lets assume I am a total stupid ass (which I am not) and I left my wife and daughter to pursue that beautiful younger provider that just needs love (Which I would never) It is simple math. How many guys is that ex provider fucking while I bust my ass at work to put money into the place? What steps would I take to protect myself, my assets and my future? How much trust can I truly invest in someone who I paid for time with? The answer is - this all becomes a total shit show.

I cannot speak for everyone here - but leaving your family for a provider monetarily is about as profitable as investing dog shit. and Feelings wise it is a world of hurt. It is best the hobby world remain separate.


Chino - I can absolutely assure you that once you go down this road there will come a day that you will literally be sitting alone in the dark and will contemplate putting a gun in your mouth. Work out your shit with your wife, or go be single for a while, but it sounds like you are searching for something and you will not find it in this world. None of these chicks care about you to include the one you have the feels for that is fucking for money right now, while you write about your feelings for her. Originally Posted by Jdiablio

Been married for 12 years and no kids.

Oh, shit...please tell us you don’t have children. Don’t fuck that up if you do. Originally Posted by TinMan