Rewards/discounts for courtesy?

Hey Txcruiser, I see where you were going with this, trying to start a different thread in co-ed even if it wasn't well received-which I also understand. Way to give it the old college try, I appreciate that.


The thought that we should also provide any incentive to grown-ass men to simply be kinder on the board is eye-wateringly laughable to start. To suggest that incentive come at the expense of a providers bottom line made me drop my fucking monocle.
Originally Posted by Miss Valentina

Thank you for recognizing my intent, however misguided. I now wish I could delete the whole thread. A. Because it was a really stupid idea, that I didn't think through, and of course, in retrospect, any provider is going to see it as fishing for a discount. Some more illiterate and confrontational ones would even see it as me looking for a discount, in spite of me saying IN THE OP, THAT I NEVER SEE BOARD MEMBERS. I can't decide if that's just stupid or looking for a fight. I lean towards the latter. B. Having seen the personality of two providers who I didn't consider especially attractive before, now they look ugly to me, and their trollish nature is going to keep them commenting on anything I have to say. Watzhername is like the female version of Mata, but without the bad spelling. And C. It totally devolved into another flame war, which is exactly the opposite of what I was going for.

BTW you're totally right about the second part above. I'd like to think that the men here-wait, women too, not to point fingers at any providers in particular- would just behave better when called on it. My original thought was that since they act like spoiled kids, maybe the "Now, be quiet in church and you'll get a cookie after" approach might work. I just didn't think about the fact that I wasn't buying the cookie. To you and the providers who aren't crazy bitches, I apologize for not thinking it through.

It is unfortunate that a post I believe was started with good intentions has had the opposite effect. I blaim it on the overall hostile environment that has permitted this forum for a while.

But back to the original point--and something I am surprised the ladies did not mention more: there ARE a lot of ladies who reward good behavior--some reward it very well.

This can be financial in terms of grandfathering (I doubt too many ladies grandfather people who they think behave inappropriately). But for the most part the rewards are non-monitary. Preferred scheduling. Slower running clocks. Extra activities. In some cases home cooked meals, complementary dates, etc.

It is unfortunate that a post I believe was started with good intentions has had the opposite effect. I blaim it on the overall hostile environment that has permitted this forum for a while.

But back to the original point--and something I am surprised the ladies did not mention more: there ARE a lot of ladies who reward good behavior--some reward it very well.

This can be financial in terms of grandfathering (I doubt too many ladies grandfather people who they think behave inappropriately). But for the most part the rewards are non-monitary. Preferred scheduling. Slower running clocks. Extra activities. In some cases home cooked meals, complementary dates, etc. Originally Posted by Old-T

God THANK YOU for recognizing my intent, no matter how clumsy and ill-considered.

HOME-COOKED MEALS? Do you give lessons?

I think most of what you mention here are more frequent-flier, but also acting like a gentleman during appointments. My OP, which I realize now was a fucking stupid idea, was more about getting men to behave better on the board, or at least the men who are here to actually get laid, not the men who are on here because they can act like dicks, with zero repercussions.

I just wish there was SOMETHING that would make men, and women, on here act like civilized fucking adults. I think were it not for the jaded, fatalist folks with bad attitudes just shrugging their shoulders, going "eh, this is how it is", things could at least be better. Fuck it, I'm too old to be an idealist. I think I'm going to start having a close personal relationship with the "ignore" button. And maybe figure out how to not see when people quote the ones I have ignored.

Be careful she will ram that Unicorn Horn up your ass and you won't be shitting rainbows after that. I subject Suesalami. Ask for the brown figure special. IJS Originally Posted by MiyagiSnatchSlapper

My situation with Ms.V wasn't like that but it was still violent.

We had agreed on our second meeting that the session with the upgrade would be $180.00.

The problem was that all I had was three $20's and two $100.00.

She "said" she didn't have change but I new it was a lie. I told her that all I would pay is $160 and I would owe her $20.

My thinking was that she would be fine with it but boy I was wrong.

About five minutes after I laid down on the massage table face down she wrapped both hands around my neck and started to strangle me.

It was terrible and the nightmares still continue.

I wasn't the first and probably not the last. I would encourage any other victims to come forward and try to heal with us. We meet on the first and third Tuesday each month.

My point is to explain a special and not so special reward.

Had I been a regular customer the $20 would not have been an issue. It would be a reward.

That said, had I been a regular customer I wouldn't be alive. That def is not a reward.

Make sure that you keep things black and white so a reward is a non issue. Always have correct change to keep things civil and crystal clear.

I hope my example helps others and I appreciate all of the other examples.

Always remember.

Life is a sugar cookie.

Whores and the wusses that Personify them......

Y'all can never get it together can you?

You forgot"and the socially-retarded men that mock them from the comfort of their duct-tape-covered La-Z-Boy".

You're the saddest of the bunch, buddy. More than Mata, or Hellen, or wutzhername. 19K posts and 22 reviews. I take comfort in the fact that when this board eventually implodes, you're going to try to log in then sob brokenly, clutching a pillow, as you come to terms with the fact that the only place in the world, and your life, you ever had any standing is gone.

You forgot"and the socially-retarded men that mock them from the comfort of their duct-tape-covered La-Z-Boy".

You're the saddest of the bunch, buddy. More than Mata, or Hellen, or wutzhername. 19K posts and 22 reviews. I take comfort in the fact that when this board eventually implodes, you're going to try to log in then sob brokenly, clutching a pillow, as you come to terms with the fact that the only place in the world, and your life, you ever had any standing is gone. Originally Posted by Txcruiser

Damn, most LIKED post in this entire thread, by a lot! The truth brings out the funniest posts.

Part of being a nice guy is not expecting a discount for it.

Part of being a nice guy is not expecting a discount for it. Originally Posted by RetiredNinja

what he said ^ and tip those that earn it, chicks like tips, not discounts and they'll remember you for it.

Part of being a nice guy is not expecting a discount for it. Originally Posted by RetiredNinja

Yes, but what we have here on eccie austin is a few nice guys and a bunch of shit-mouth mean-spirited cocksuckers who think that acting that way is cool, and AS I'VE SAID MULTIPLE TIMES, my intent here was to maybe help do the job their mommas fucked up on and teach them, or at least condition them like a dog, that being a nice guy comes back to you in positive ways, and money is probably the only thing their nasty little minds are capable of comprehending.

what he said ^ and tip those that earn it, chicks like tips, not discounts and they'll remember you for it. Originally Posted by sydmo

Okay, this. Maybe I was thinking too much of myself when I wrote this, only in the sense that I usually only see women once or maybe twice. On another thread, y'all might find this hard to believe, but Brittney_Love and I actually agreed on something- fucking a complete stranger is spicier. It's not unheard of for me to see a provider twice, but usually it's just the one, so frequent-flier repeat-customer discounts don't appeal. But I don't want to talk about discounts anymore, since it's what made me look like a cheap fuck wangling a cheaper piece anyway.

When rents due the ones calling you cheap run specials. Don't worry about it.

When rents due the ones calling you cheap run specials. Don't worry about it. Originally Posted by Kickrocks

(sigh) I 'm never going to convince anyone I wasn't just fishing for a discount, am I?

(sigh) I 'm never going to convince anyone I wasn't just fishing for a discount, am I? Originally Posted by Txcruiser

Dude I know, just fucking with you.