what are your thoughts about dating a provider?

This thread gets better and better. It's been some time since I've had the pleasure of reading a continuous string of such constructive and thought provoking commentary with little to no incivility and ridicule along the way. My thanks to this group of participants. Originally Posted by baobei

I totally agree. I posted my little contribution, which was nothing, since I don't play in this Universe, but a lot of great and civil commentary.

My Pops used to room with some working girl back when he just got of the Navy in his 20s. . I know he made her work and pimped her out for rent. Does that count for dating a working girl, even tho she was not from an AMP?

Haven't done it, but it seems to me if you were just looking to have some fun, and didn't get too involved, it could work. Looking for anything more than that, and you're going to have the stories people are posting here. Possibly some rare exceptions here and there, but those are unicorns, and people ruin their lives looking for unicorns, or thinking they found one, when it's really a donkey.

Look at it this way...where do you think these girls fall on this:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bbpGkrViOcE

There's your answer...the no go zone.

Look at it this way...where do you think these girls fall on this:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bbpGkrViOcE

This video is hilarious! The guy is dressed like an accountant, but gives advice like a seasoned Romeo! Check out the quick take on how women divvy up men towards the vid's end...

All I can say is expect a lot of heart aches if you REALLY fall for one of these providers. One costs me over $100,000 over a 4 year relationship and so many sleepless nights I can't begin to count. Would I do in again? You can bet your ass I would!! She never asked for any money...but I made a lot and shared with her. My only regret is neither could get over our jealousy.

I went thru the same issues. She did as she pleased and was extremely jealous if I even looked at another. In the meantime all her friends were pursuing me behind her back. The reason was simple...money.
If the narcissist feels threatened she will fight back then when another source of supply is available your on your own.
It is a personality disorder you cannot fix

Sounds like a wife.

A few dates here and there is fine for me

Haven't done it, but it seems to me if you were just looking to have some fun, and didn't get too involved, it could work. Looking for anything more than that, and you're going to have the stories people are posting here. Possibly some rare exceptions here and there, but those are unicorns, and people ruin their lives looking for unicorns, or thinking they found one, when it's really a donkey.

Look at it this way...where do you think these girls fall on this:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bbpGkrViOcE

There's your answer...the no go zone. Originally Posted by BigDog63

Am I the only one who notice he is carrying a pistol?

Am I the only one who notice he is carrying a pistol? Originally Posted by dfwguy50

Looks like an accountant, talks like an accountant, and carries a gun!

Weirdo character if you ask me LOL... jus' like the rest of us on this board

dfw
That was outstanding and accurate!

I lived with one for a while. Actually a body rub girl. We never fought over that until she started bringing them home. But mainly she needed to be on her meds and seldom was. As with all people, she had her good and bad points and had good and bad days. She was much younger than me and I knew going in I was just one more stopping place. Actually, there were many dancers I dated but anything more than dating was never discussed. There were a couple of dancers I could and maybe should have married.

Well, I’ll tell you about my experience. I met a provider in 2012. I fell in love with her, even tho she was a working girl AND had a bf. After I showered her with affection and money she left him. We lived together....albeit difficult, and I made the mistake of getting her pregnant. The relationship was COMPLETELY toxic. Calls all day n night from clients, her refusal to quit. Bottom line I divorced her after 11 months of marriage. If not for our child I would have never married such a narcissistic person. We tried....I tried many times to get back together because of the baby, however, it was too much to bear.
Even as we were in the hospital ready to give birth, clients were calling. Bottom line, she took me for over 100 k, never truly loved me, my advice
STAY AWAY.
All you will get is a broken heart. These women are damaged beyond repair Originally Posted by yellowfever567

Pretty much did everythiNg wrong there. For the kids sake hope she just vanishes.

It’s a mine field. All they’re really want is your money. Don’t learn the this hard way.
And NONE of them are different. They spend their entire lives manipulating men a feelings for their money. Don’t be naive enough to think they, you or “this” is any different.

Great Discussion !!!