THE OTHER WOMAN CALLED.....

Fkn stalkers... where is that website Naomi? Me ans SL wanna do some stalking Originally Posted by Anita Lay

I'll be your Cabana boy AL and you can call me "RENALDO" no not "RETARDO"

I have this guy that I see from time to time. One day he sent me a nasty sexual text.. So I sent one back. So throughout the whole day the texts got nastier and nastier.. Tell me why his wife calls me saying " Big Daddy is coming to live with you sweetie." She called me for 3 days straight trying to find out who I was. The calls got so annoying, I had to go ahead and tell her that I was just an escort, nothing more. Funny thing was she was actually relieved when I told her that! Sometimes when the wives have too much info and continue to investigate.. somebody need to come out with the truth!! Fellas I can only lie for yall's careless asses for so long!! I think all men should have a "play phone" that you keep hidden somewhere!! Anyway I saw him a few more times after that. Last time I heard, he and his wife was still happily married! Just call me the matchmaker!! LOL Originally Posted by Jasminekitt

Married Johns deserve what's coming to them. Sorry guys, but get divorced or suck it up untill the kids graduate. I know, I know, 'It's complicated.' No, it's actually not. Kids understand divorce. I did. And a good lawyer can take care of you.

That said, I do know one couple in their fifties with whom the wife is totally cool with hubby banging girls for money. But, that's the only one I know.

Are there any else here who knows a wife who knows but is fine with it? Is it more common than I thought? Or is it an oddity?

@ Doc...Ive had some that "say" it ok with the wife due to her having medicals problems etc but I don't buy it

Married Johns deserve what's coming to them. Sorry guys, but get divorced or suck it up untill the kids graduate. I know, I know, 'It's complicated.' No, it's actually not. Kids understand divorce. I did. And a good lawyer can take care of you.

That said, I do know one couple in their fifties with whom the wife is totally cool with hubby banging girls for money. But, that's the only one I know.

Are there any else here who knows a wife who knows but is fine with it? Is it more common than I thought? Or is it an oddity? Originally Posted by Doc Holliday

I know several, but I'm not married to them any more! LOL

Married Johns deserve what's coming to them. Sorry guys, but get divorced or suck it up untill the kids graduate. I know, I know, 'It's complicated.' No, it's actually not. Kids understand divorce. I did. And a good lawyer can take care of you.

That said, I do know one couple in their fifties with whom the wife is totally cool with hubby banging girls for money. But, that's the only one I know.

Are there any else here who knows a wife who knows but is fine with it? Is it more common than I thought? Or is it an oddity? Originally Posted by Doc Holliday

I'm gonna have to disagree! I think its perfectly fine for a married man to see a provider from time to time! Its straight to the point and private. He's not out running the streets dating and being out all night with some other woman. Its a scheduled session and hes goes home with less stress, and his wife has the night off! husband has less stress... wife has the night off... and provider gets paid.. Everybody wins!!!

at the co co , co ca cabana... Margarita Renaldo...
Come here and rub the oil all over my body so I can work on my tan.
Let go swimming and see if you can swim with your three legs...

at the co co , co ca cabana... Margarita Renaldo...
Come here and rub the oil all over my body so I can work on my tan.
Let go swimming and see if you can swim with your three legs... Originally Posted by Anita Lay

I ned to git more oil Ms Nita. De mounds they are too big! (Please use hispanic accent when reading this!)

You know what I always say, "Thank the lord for swimmin with bull legged women!" Its a Texas thang! LOL

Married Johns deserve what's coming to them. Sorry guys, but get divorced or suck it up untill the kids graduate. I know, I know, 'It's complicated.' No, it's actually not. Kids understand divorce. I did. And a good lawyer can take care of you.

That said, I do know one couple in their fifties with whom the wife is totally cool with hubby banging girls for money. But, that's the only one I know.

Are there any else here who knows a wife who knows but is fine with it? Is it more common than I thought? Or is it an oddity? Originally Posted by Doc Holliday

Ignorant comment.

I'm gonna have to disagree! I think its perfectly fine for a married man to see a provider from time to time! Its straight to the point and private. He's not out running the streets dating and being out all night with some other woman. Its a scheduled session and hes goes home with less stress, and his wife has the night off! husband has less stress... wife has the night off... and provider gets paid.. Everybody wins!!! Originally Posted by Jasminekitt

BS. If the wife knows and accepts it - fine. Otherwise it is betraying a trust. I will not judge decisions others make, because there might be valid reasons for them doing it, but at least be honest about what they are doing.

I'm gonna have to disagree! I think its perfectly fine for a married man to see a provider from time to time! Its straight to the point and private. He's not out running the streets dating and being out all night with some other woman. Its a scheduled session and hes goes home with less stress, and his wife has the night off! husband has less stress... wife has the night off... and provider gets paid.. Everybody wins!!! Originally Posted by Jasminekitt

I agree with that, totally! I'm not even saying lying about it is bad. I'm just saying a man who gets caught deserves everything the wife throws at him, knives and pans included!


Edit: what Laz said. Marriage is a bond, decisions are either shared or delegated. If you break that, you break the bond.

Look, I'm not trying to get on a high horse here, I'm 31 and never married because I can't cut it! I did raise a little girl for six years and leaving her and her mom was tuff. But you know what, I did it because staying together was making everyone more miserable than not. It's hard to find someone you can spend the rest of your life with who feels the same. I'm not arguing that, I'm just saying take care of your business at home and don't bring it to the hobby so to speak.

It's certainly better than an affair that's for sure. The majority are married and need to stay that way for whatever reasons.

Married Johns deserve what's coming to them. Sorry guys, but get divorced or suck it up untill the kids graduate. I know, I know, 'It's complicated.' No, it's actually not. Kids understand divorce. I did. And a good lawyer can take care of you.

That said, I do know one couple in their fifties with whom the wife is totally cool with hubby banging girls for money. But, that's the only one I know.

Are there any else here who knows a wife who knows but is fine with it? Is it more common than I thought? Or is it an oddity? Originally Posted by Doc Holliday

My wife and I have have a don't ask don't tell relationship. I have no doubt if she found out she would be hurt (hence the don't tell part), but I wouldn't expect her to lash out at me much.

Ignorant comment. Originally Posted by barneyrubble

More ignorant comment, lol.

BS. If the wife knows and accepts it - fine. Otherwise it is betraying a trust. I will not judge decisions others make, because there might be valid reasons for them doing it, but at least be honest about what they are doing. Originally Posted by Laz

I'm not even going there... I feel a disturbance in the force, haha.

Why is it that single guys are so upset that married guys are here?

It seems another example of "I'm special, I'm allowed to bend/break the rules, but YOU are not!" Or is it an attempt to limit the competition?

Maybe if everything were legal that would fly, but isn't it just self-justification that "I'm not screwing up as bad as HE is!"????

Yeah, I wish it were legal. I don't like lying. And if you break the law, you have to lie. Staff edit, forbidden topic, CC. Or go out on moral grounds and do jail time for doing something I believe should be legal. Has my boss asked me? No. But if they did, I would owe up to it as they deserve to know as they're paying me. But, I'm never under the influence on the clock and doesn't effect my work performance otherwise, so I owe them that. Has any girl I've been in a relationship with asked? Yes. And all but one was cool with it. And that one I quit for, for the time we were together.

This should be no different, except two asses are on the line, and I'd lie my ass off to anyone to protect the provider.

Why is it that single guys are so upset that married guys are here?

It seems another example of "I'm special, I'm allowed to bend/break the rules, but YOU are not!" Or is it an attempt to limit the competition?

Maybe if everything were legal that would fly, but isn't it just self-justification that "I'm not screwing up as bad as HE is!"???? Originally Posted by Old-T

I am not upset that married guys are here nor will I judge them. I was in a lousy marriage for 24 years and could easily see myself making the decision to see a provider and feel no guilt over it so I understand why some people make the choices they do. I am just saying to be honest about it and coming up with justifications that apply universally is silly.