Would You Date A Hobbyist/Provider?

I would not date a hobbyist or provider in my personal life the same way I wouldn't ever date a roommate. You don't shit where you eat.

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I would date someone in the hobby. I would share too, but only if I got to play with her too and it would be under my supervision. No funny business, just naughty fun. I'm a jealous bitch when it comes to relationships.

You seem to enjoy making assumptions (not necessarily coherent one's, it takes many reads to come close to understanding your point) that upset the ops in your posts. Maybe it's not your intent, maybe it is. In either case you should probably read your post before sending it for all to see. Originally Posted by homer13

Exactly what does any of that have to do with the topic of this thread?

Exactly what does any of that have to do with the topic of this thread? Originally Posted by Mokoa

My point exactly. I actually did stay on topic with my original post unlike her incoherent 8 posts that got 4 others to get of topic to respond to her, like she seems to do in most threads.

The topic of this thread is Dating a Provider/Hobbyist not Foxy Red's coherence. Simple as that.

I would date someone in the hobby. I would share too, but only if I got to play with her too and it would be under my supervision. No funny business, just naughty fun. I'm a jealous bitch when it comes to relationships. Originally Posted by Pepper_Springfield

Wow. I think you are the perfect girlfriend. Someone is/will be a very lucky person.

The topic of this thread is Dating a Provider/Hobbyist not Foxy Red's coherence. Simple as that. Originally Posted by Mokoa

Point taken boss man, and to reiterate my point, no, not exclusively or seriously but casually and for fun probably.

Dating someone who had been a provider wouldn't be a problem for me, dating someone who continues to provide would depend, I could see it happening with the right girl.

I couldn't do it. I think it would cause way too much stress and heartache for both parties. Kudos to those who can, and do, make it work though. Just because a lady is a provider, is no reason to believe she doesn't want to have a relationship like any other person would!

I think it be difficult the more you get to know a provider or hobbyist, the more feelings get involved which then makes it difficult for both parties. Good communication and honesty would probably make it work. I am too a jealous person but you never know it could work. No harm in trying to see where it goes.

I agree with Mirandalee and Pepper. I too am too jealous to date a hobbyist. I would not like them continuing to see others. I would want to stop providing as well but again I would want to ensure I can provide for my family. So I would continue providing but would not allow them to see anyone else. So as you can see it's pretty one sided. Although if they got paid to have fun then I would allow it. But if it's just for pure pleasure I would feel like I couldn't please them well enough and they had to go elsewhere.

Although if they got paid to have fun then I would allow it. Originally Posted by Malaya

Really? I wonder...it's easy to say that. But if you were to read a review of some hot girl really enjoying your provider BF, describing how she thought he was really "into it" and enjoying it - without you...I think you might find it a bit harder to be so egalitarian.

It is a noble thought though.

Really? I wonder...it's easy to say that. But if you were to read a review of some hot girl really enjoying your provider BF, describing how she thought he was really "into it" and enjoying it - without you...I think you might find it a bit harder to be so egalitarian.

It is a noble thought though. Originally Posted by FootLong

Exactly, huge issue. In him reading her reviews and her reading his (the ones he writes as a hobbyist). Both of them enjoying and being enjoyed, real sticky situation.

I would. So long as we knew what dating meant.
Its enjoying the time, laughs, and pleasures and nothing else.