Why do no providers respond to me?

This thread is informative. I can see that I need to be more specific in my Single request to one lady.

I don't cast wide nets, but I have attempted the Pre-screen option with P411 <- This has never worked, but I might need to be more specific on date/time. To that end, I expected to be in Dallas last night, but instead arrived early in the morning thanks to flight delays. Since that can be expected, I don't like to be specific until I get to my hotel and know I have time to Hobby. Same day appointments are very rare for me.

Sending a P411 or ECCIE PM followed by a phone calls seems to work the best.


It also makes me wonder if I'm on a DNS list for any ladies because I wasn't as direct. I hope not.

Then at the bottom of the email I put that I have how many reviews on ECCIE, and then I drop my P411 id and state how many oks I have. Originally Posted by smockdoiley

Simply log in and use the request option in your P411 account, as designed to do by Gina (P411's owner). She encourages you to follow this procedure to cut down on incidents of people with bad intentions posing as verified members.

If you're sending emails doing everything else but what was suggested, that's probably where the issues are.

I'm sorry Shea if I don't fill out a job application and include scans of my passport and credit card information to verify my US citizenship and seriousness. You just sound like a bitter bar fly I wouldn't be interested in anyways. Originally Posted by smockdoiley

Nice stab at the contact form. You sound like an inept, disgruntled reject who doesn't like strong-willed women. Take your crap and shovel it somewhere else.

I think another problem is that providers are still women, and women will always want a man to treat them like a princess and worship them. If I wanted a girlfriend, I'd get a girlfriend. I actually had a provider tell me that she'll do BJ if I do it to her first. I'm thinking are you joking? Who's paying who? So ladies like Shea who act like I need to impress them and distinguish myself will never get my time or money. If I wanted that kind of headache I'd just go to a bar and hustle for a freebie. I think my friend put it well when he told a girl, "I'm not paying you to come over, I'm paying you to leave afterwards." Originally Posted by smockdoiley

I sure as hell won't endure more of your disgusting spew. As of now, I've enabled the ignore/block feature.


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Shmuckdolly, someone else said it but I will repeat it. Look around on ECCIE. But send your request through p411. It is so simple. Stop being an obnoxious prick. It actually works. Even an asshole like me gets to see plenty of providers.