Big Dicks in the Hobby: Accepted or Rejected?

This thread is getting as long as Originally Posted by beezdat

It must be tough to live underneath the house in the basement.... (opps, no basements in LA)

Bottom line with this thread, is.... If you are secure enough to talk about it.... you have zero issues with it.

If you cannot talk about it, with out getting upset, you may need to look deeper into yourself, or..... Just stop looking at porn.

I am hung like a Hampster, and pretty proud of that.

When you post on public forum, and get defensive, that says, allot about yourself. (if it were me, I would pick a new hobby, or quit posting)

See Y'all on another day...

Threads on penis size are almost guaranteed to offend someone. . Originally Posted by 1Curiousguy

I disagree. They don't have to. The OP posed a legitimate question......not unlike an offensive tackle asking how others handled really big defensive linemen....or a surgeon asking about techniques for unusually large or small patients. I was actually learning a few things, reading along. The gratuitous derisive comments at the expense of guys who are NOT large were not on topic, and not needed. When combined with the positive descriptions of the large dicks (which, by themselves would have been ok), it went over the top. Several guys took offense before I pointed it out......but there would have been no offense if the derisive comments had been left off.

@hgritstoo, I was not judging anyone, I hope that was not the impression I was giving. And I was not trying to hurt anyone with what I said. . Originally Posted by Nicolet

I believe you. And I was not offended, although others obviously were. I was just paying attention and commented on what I saw.

Everyone is self-concious about some part of their body. Yet, I find the female form beautiful in all of it's infinite permutations. Early in my hobbying experience, I was seeing a BBW and complimented her on her nice fat ass, which I found very attractive. She took offense, apologised, and said she was trying to lose weight. Damn...she looked good to me! A few weeks later, I was seeing a tiny little spinner. Thinking I'd learned something, I commented on her tight little body and how she had no ass. She was hurt....when I was trying to compliment her. Now I just grab the asses and keep my frickin' mouth shut.

Guys are body-image sensitive too...and usually about their johnson. The only thing we get for comparison is when we see all the orgasmic ladies in the porn videos goin' at it with big guys.....that most of us can't hold a candle to.

And, I suspect that, given a choice, most ladies truthfully would prefer a larger than average dick.....just not the monsters. And that's OK. Most ladies prefer good looking guys, as well. And that's OK, too.

Being average in both size and appearance, I can choose to be bitter about this, or I can just get on with life. I have been compensated in other, better ways. And, as a client, I can take pride in being clean, polite, punctual.....and being able to tip generously.

My point is, please be aware of what you are saying. Obviously, some feelings were hurt.

To the OP: I apologise for my post hijacking this thread. I will laboriously try to drag it back on topic.

As a provider who has just drifted into my town, and the first guy you see is this guy:

If a lady could take another date the next morning after doing an overnight with me she deserves a medal.......or I should have had the foresite to just book her for a weekend. lol

I think for the most part ladies prepare for this...especially touring ladies. Like for example if a lady has a tour between Friday and Tuesday.......I want to* prebook perferably on her first night in town (afternoon if touring by my request and deposit) or at the very least by the second night Saturday. On those days Im figuring she will have more energy during her appointment, less traffic on her body prior to me, and be more mottivated. If her tour is Wednesday to Sunday I wouldnt book. Gotta see her within the first two days.
. Originally Posted by gimme_that

What do you do to ensure that your other, "normal" sized clients that have pre-booked you, and have been looking forward to your visit for some time, get the same outstanding service that the big guy got? It's bad enough that nature gave him an unfair share of inches. Does he have to spoil it for the rest of us as well? </humor>

When I see a guy with a big dick I usually will tell him to take it easy. They are normally respectful. Sometimes I might have to refuse canine if his cock is as wide as a beer can.

I am not worried about losing my vagina tightness. That is what the treadmill is for. I have two dogs that drag me everywhere. I get plenty of exercise for the kitty.

Yes, I do believe that some guys think because I have big hips that I can take a hardcore popping.

If you are in you are in, don't worry about it. Otherwise she probably does not like you.

It must be tough to live underneath the house in the basement.... (opps, no basements in LA)

Bottom line with this thread, is.... If you are secure enough to talk about it.... you have zero issues with it.

If you cannot talk about it, with out getting upset, you may need to look deeper into yourself, or..... Just stop looking at porn.

I am hung like a Hampster, and pretty proud of that.

When you post on public forum, and get defensive, that says, allot about yourself. (if it were me, I would pick a new hobby, or quit posting)

See Y'all on another day... Originally Posted by lookn4boobies

I don't think I was getting defensive at all. Quite the contrary. I was poking fun, pardon the pun, at the topic in general. I think it's a perfectly acceptable discussion, which I feel secure enough to talk about.

And yes, I agree with you, defensiveness does say a lot about yourself. If you would care to re read my post, in context, maybe you would be less defensive about MY particular post.

Also, I could careless if you were hung like a hamster or a horse. It's none of my business or concern either way, really it's not.

Mr. boobies, I hope the rest of your night is just as satisfying as I'm sure your day was. And by all means, please enjoy any and all future post of mine.

If you will excuse me, I need to get back to my basement, that porn won't watch itself you know...

I'm hung like a horse........fly, so I've never experienced any of these issues.

I think I've seen every variation of size. I've never turned anyone down. But I've popped a couple aspirin after a few sessions. LOL. Originally Posted by ChloeCox

The pics in you're showcase are gorgeous

I don't think I was getting defensive at all. Quite the contrary. I was poking fun, pardon the pun, at the topic in general. I think it's a perfectly acceptable discussion, which I feel secure enough to talk about.

And yes, I agree with you, defensiveness does say a lot about yourself. If you would care to re read my post, in context, maybe you would be less defensive about MY particular post.

Also, I could careless if you were hung like a hamster or a horse. It's none of my business or concern either way, really it's not.

Mr. boobies, I hope the rest of your night is just as satisfying as I'm sure your day was. And by all means, please enjoy any and all future post of mine.

If you will excuse me, I need to get back to my basement, that porn won't watch itself you know... Originally Posted by beezdat

No worries.......

Have fun!

( I might have read through that a little fast)

Threads on penis size are almost guaranteed to offend someone. Originally Posted by 1Curiousguy

Threads on waist size are almost guaranteed to offend someone but you don't see a mass exodus of BBWs from the hobby now do you?

Threads on waist size are almost guaranteed to offend someone but you don't see a mass exodus of BBWs from the hobby now do you? Originally Posted by ArisRose

No, I'm still in business. Lol

I don't think it's really about dick size. I'm just concerned about getting an orgasm and some paper.

I will say, guys who are aware of small penis size make up for it in DATY or dancing around in my girl's room.

I think I've seen every variation of size. I've never turned anyone down. But I've popped a couple aspirin after a few sessions. LOL. Originally Posted by ChloeCox

The pics in you're showcase are gorgeous Originally Posted by buzzworm86

I concur..

O yeah, My Dick is Not Average and Undeniable

I always thought the following:

Its not the size of the Wand
But the magician that performs

I've always treated most comments about size from a provider as lip service or part of the experience. I know I am big but I don't consider myself freakishly big. I wear Magnum XLs because I need them. I had a provider in Northern Colorado tell me once that next time I needed service "save your money because my pussy can't handle you again but I will give you all the HJs and licking you want". I left feeling like a king and called her back a few weeks later and to my surprise she was serious! So I guess I have been denied service ONCE due to size other than that I've never had any complaints.

I think I've seen every variation of size. I've never turned anyone down. But I've popped a couple aspirin after a few sessions. LOL. Originally Posted by ChloeCox

You need to visit Houston

Let me rephrase that......

We need you to visit Houston