NBA....I just don't get it.

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When this hobby is legalized and regulated, it will be interesting to see the multitude of lawsuits filed in civil courts concerning this subject.
Which is why it should never be legalized and regulated; it should be decriminalized. I wish more people would research this issue. Legalization and decriminalization are two very, very different things.

The government has no business telling people what they can do with their own bodies. We all have the right to tell someone we don't want to f**k them.

I thought this was a given, but apparently there are people here who think that observing that someone is a racist is the same as forcing them to sleep with someone they don't want to sleep with.
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Which is why it should never be legalized and regulated; it should be decriminalized. Originally Posted by Annie Calhoun
Correct. There is a big difference between "legalization" and "decriminalization" - people throw the term "legalization" around but that's usually not the thing you really want.

Tobacco - is LEGALIZED - it's controlled, regulated, and taxed at the point of sale by big government.

Decriminalization means essentially the government has no dog in the hunt concerning the activity and will neither bless it or prevent it.

Decriminalization is the optimum because it gets government out of the equation. Government only screws things up.
Annie by your personal and twisted definition of racism, everyone's a racist but you. Not long ago when seeking a new actor to play superman, interviews consisted of white males only, bunch of racists! and when the nsa and ss saught a look alike for Obama they only interviewed light skinned AA males, racists! Ask ANY AA provider who is NBA why shes NBA and you will get the same answer.. safety. so shes racist for her belief , misguided or not?

Welcome to the real world, being excluded from things based on race in itself is NOT racism, calling everyone a racist and playing the "whiteknight to the blackman" role makes you far worse than a racist, it makes you a BIGOT: (a person who is obstinately or intolerantly devoted to his or her own opinions and prejudices) at least with a racist they have a reason for their beliefs as stupid as I or you may think it is. You base your bigotry on your own personal gains and views while not having a dog in the fight.
Decriminalization is the optimum because it gets government out of the equation. Government only screws things up.
Agreed (mostly). Thank you.

*I don't agree with the blanket statement that government always screws things up (I know that's not what you said, but I just wanted to clarify). But I definitely am 100% in agreement that lawmakers have no right to dictate what two consenting adults do--or don't do--in the bedroom. Well....unless they're the Dominant in some kind of polyamorous kinky trio, in which case...dictate away, I guess, if that's what gets everyone's rocks off.
I'm sorry, I read like maybe two lines of this and fell asleep.

Annie by your personal and twisted definition of racism, everyone's a racist but you. Not long ago when seeking a new actor to play superman, interviews consisted of white males only, bunch of racists! and when the nsa and ss saught a look alike for Obama they only interviewed light skinned AA males, racists! Ask ANY AA provider who is NBA why shes NBA and you will get the same answer.. safety. so shes racist for her belief , misguided or not?

Welcome to the real world, being excluded from things based on race in itself is NOT racism, calling everyone a racist and playing the "whiteknight to the blackman" role makes you far worse than a racist, it makes you a BIGOT: (a person who is obstinately or intolerantly devoted to his or her own opinions and prejudices) at least with a racist they have a reason for their beliefs as stupid as I or you may think it is. You base your bigotry on your own personal gains and views while not having a dog in the fight. Originally Posted by thegfegirls
I'm sorry, I read like maybe two lines of this and fell asleep. Originally Posted by Annie Calhoun
Nobody will believe that of someone as self serving and centered as yourself, so making that statement shows everyone your ability to simply post false statements when you believe it will make you seem superior. You couldn't help but read each and every word of it. Just as you will no doubt cast down another barely witty response to anything that could possibly bring to light your lack of the prized education you claim. I can only dream of the day when your daughter comes to me for a job, and I set her up in a nice spot near plank road and tell her how her mother says she cant say no to black men it's just not acceptable, lol.
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*I don't agree with the blanket statement that government always screws things up (I know that's not what you said, but I just wanted to clarify). Originally Posted by Annie Calhoun
Clarification - that's EXACTLY what I said. I am no fan of government that's for sure.
Remember that noise you would hear when Charlie Brown's teacher would speak? That's what I hear when I read your comments.

Nobody will believe that of someone as self serving and centered as yourself, so making that statement shows everyone your ability to simply post false statements when you believe it will make you seem superior. You couldn't help but read each and every word of it. Just as you will no doubt cast down another barely witty response to anything that could possibly bring to light your lack of the prized education you claim. I can only dream of the day when your daughter comes to me for a job, and I set her up in a nice spot near plank road and tell her how her mother says she cant say no to black men it's just not acceptable, lol. Originally Posted by thegfegirls
BINGO!
Would you care to share your ethnicity Brownfish, other than not American? Originally Posted by Zada Knight
Not American?!

Accents make me horny.
I am not an NBA provider, but I did get blasted for saying I won't do outcalls to apartment complexes that have a high number of Section 8 tenants.
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In order to lighten things up here ...

From the perspective of a guy who's not too smart (me)

First of all - I applaud all the girls who are willing to see all sorts of guys, be they black, white, big and dumb (like me), or rich and wonderful dreamboats.

I think all the providers I've seen are colorblind when it comes to their clients. I know Zada is!

I think it's kind of strong soup though to waive a finger at girls who have the NBA and call them racists. "Racist" is a loaded term - it's really no longer conducive to intellectual discussions (not that I would personally know anything about that though). Anyway - I just have a hard time labeling those girls "racist" when, in fact - many of those girls ... more than just a few ... are black themselves.

Also ... in this "hobby" ... society is not on your side. They don't have your back. Cops? They could give a shit about a provider should something bad befall her. The women are really left to their own devices to take care of themselves. Who am I to question their methods or "judge" their decisions?

I'm a Libertarian - and libertarians are for free, voluntary associations. So I have to come down on the side of choice here. It's not my decision to make - it's the provider's.

Lastly - this is just a lame topic and I stated this on the first page of this miserable thread. Hey you know what a better topic would be??

-- CBJ VS BBBJ's!!

See, I really don't think BBBJ's are that unsafe, based on the data I've seen. Now, I could "judge" those girls who only do CBJ's as being "ignorant" of the facts as I see them. However - don't I also have to acknowledge the fact that I don't KNOW everything about why a girl chooses CBJ's or that maybe I don't know everything about BJ's in general? Also - do I really want to remove her CHOICE to decide between CBJ and BBBJ? No, I do not want to remove that choice.

Soooo ... now isn't it a bit silly for me to bring up the issue with BJ's? Yes, yes it is because - no matter how anyone feels about the issue - NO ONE wants to remove a girl's choice in the matter.

Same thing for NBA. What use are these threads discussing it?

I'm OKAY - YOU'RE OKAY. As Nikki Sixx says ... "It's okay to be different" - he should know.
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Which is why it should never be legalized and regulated; it should be decriminalized. I wish more people would research this issue. Legalization and decriminalization are two very, very different things.

The government has no business telling people what they can do with their own bodies. We all have the right to tell someone we don't want to f**k them.

I thought this was a given, but apparently there are people here who think that observing that someone is a racist is the same as forcing them to sleep with someone they don't want to sleep with. Originally Posted by Annie Calhoun
Save your breath, Annie Calhoun.

I know full well the difference between "legalization" and "decriminalization."

The hobby will be legalized and regulated eventually and that is good. Uncle Sam will get his fair share and the dark corners and criminal element not part of the main stream hobby who victimize people will still be criminals.

If you think the federal government will ever just throw up its hands and "decriminalize" prostitution ... well, let's just say you are very naive.