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I love it...Thanks bigryan

And one last thing, glad you are enjoying Cali Kaylen.. Originally Posted by bigryan222

Kaylen,

Instead of a pic of you in a jacuzzi.....can you post one of you at the beach so we can see the sun.....and warm weather we're missing? Originally Posted by MsElena

Great idea! I was in the bay area last year about this time but it was cold there so my pictures all looked gloomy.

bigryan...just to let you know what the current policy is on thread closing...and I know this, only from my travels thru various other eccie forums.....

The Owners of this site have made it very clear...they strongly disapprove threads being closed, and, yes, that even includes not closing a thread just because an OP requests it.

My comment here, really has nothing to do with this specific thread...but more towards the board's policy. There are very specific situations where a Mod should close a thread...but it is not my place to state those reasons.

The fact that the Mods have chosen not to close this thread...has absolutely no reason for either Mods having some type of agenda, beyond following board policy.

So if any of us decide to start a thread....and it happens to not go the way we wished it would...do not cry out to the Mod to close it....ain't happening just because the OP wishes it to be closed.

What we are seeing is Mod work at its finest....not constantly throwing out points, not acting like some gun-hoe Mod cop. Instead the best Mods are known for their lack of action.

As someone already stated....the vast majority of threads will cease, not because of a Mod closing it. But when that thread becomes tiresome and boring...and then it will slowly disappear to page 2. So, it is the members who really chose when a thread dies, by merely no longer posting to a thread.... not a Mod closing a thread.

If people are no longer interested, or don't like what is being said in a thread....real simple answer. Stop going to that thread Originally Posted by vkmaster

....and this fellow board members is why he is the vkmaster!

And just to let you know (which you probably noticed since you have been around for a while) it has typically happened in the KC forums that if the OP requests a thread to be closed they do it. Do you disagree that this has been the way over the past few years? Originally Posted by bigryan222

Hey Man, not arguing that point...but if my memory serves me correctly, most of past "thread closing per OP" were done by non-current Mods. But I have not looked back.

So many of the Eccie guidelines are not black/white or right/wrong rules.. Alot is open to interpetation by the Mods...again this is solely my opinion. But I think it is fairly safe to say that ownership (and really most members) feel that the best Mods are the ones who are the least openly active ones.

Obviously the owner (ie St Chris).... sets the guidelines...His feelings are that typically threads should just fade away, rather than have a Mod step in and close a thread (except for certain situations). I have not had any direct contact with the owner...these are simply policies that I have seen discussed in other Eccie forums by people who do directly inter-act with owner.

And I'll say it once more...because I don't want to be stepping on any Mods toes.

My last two posts regarding thread closings, are just my opinions based on postings done in other areas of Eccie.

If I'm wrong....I have no doubt that the Mods will speak out.

I agree with everything you said. Im for MODs trying to get a thread back on topic vs. closing it for the most part. The main exception for me though is if the OP requests it to be closed because there is normally a reason for it. Originally Posted by bigryan222

But see had it been closed.... Kaylen might not have responded! Almost served as a missing provider community service threAD... NO? LOL

And now that its turned into another coed ad.... how about some pictures of MsElena holding her whip.

lol WOW
How is this an ad if im in cali? hmmm I dont see anyone coming to see me out here from KC.

But see had it been closed.... Kaylen might not have responded! Almost served as a missing provider community service threAD... NO? LOL

And now that its turned into another coed ad.... how about some pictures of MsElena holding her whip. Originally Posted by Still Looking

lol WOW
How is this an ad if im in cali? hmmm I dont see anyone coming to see me out here from KC. Originally Posted by SexyKaylen

Only if you pay my way or offer a reduced rate than I will come lmao jking jking Kaylen
Enjoy paradise

You'd think at least one of that crazy bitch's personalities would be likeable !!! LOL Originally Posted by SexyKaylen

Wow.....that was uncalled for.

I have been nice to you in emails and on the board over the last 6 months or so and I truly have never harbored any ill will towards you. I wasn't making fun of you with my first post, contrary to what you or others believe. I was trying to ad humor to it, some saw the humor and some didn't.

Hell, I was being serious and nice when I asked about the pic of you.

I'll take the high road on this one.

Oh wow! I missed that post Elena. I agree that it was uncalled for.

I've really tried to stay off this thread cuz I think it's WAY over-exposed but, like a good car wreck, you always want to peek at it... As critical as I have been about Kaylen's over-exposure and attention-grabbing, I actually took her post the other way, Elena. You had mentioned something about taking a picture of herself out by the beach rather than just in a hottub, and Kaylen's comment about "one of that crazy bitch's personalities" I took as a jab at herself about the different poses of herself. Maybe I was just giving her the benefit of the doubt. Like I said, this thread has been WAY over-exposed and here I am contributing to it again. Wish it would die a quick death. To me, this isn't just a threAD... it's a threADnauseum....

Oh wow! I missed that post Elena. I agree that it was uncalled for. Originally Posted by Gemma34

OMGEEEEEE!

I didn't even start this blog!

Everybody has been nice except you Elena with your catty comments.
Yeah go ahead take the high road, be sure to take some tissue just in case your nose bleeds.

Still Looking <<<----- You got some brown stuff on your nose.

I am sure i will take lashings for this but, honestly, a persons reaction can paint a picture.
I don't think she said anything bad to you Kaylen.

I am sure i will take lashings for this but, honestly, a persons reaction can paint a picture. I don't think she said anything bad to you Kaylen. Originally Posted by Gemma34

Cool story Gemma.
Wanna hear mine? It's a fairytale.
Once upon a time nobody gave a shit.

THE END!!

OK Kaylen, let me break this down to you and maybe you'll understand it.

Thanks for the updates. We now return you to our regular scheduled program.

Originally Posted by MsElena

The above quote.....a JOKE.....satire.....that some got, some didn't. Hell, what I said was tame compared to what others said and they weren't joking.

Oh sweet lord Johnny. Didn't see you my wink in that post? I have no beef with Kaylen...hell, I was more than nice to her in a few emails.

I wasn't being catty. I was making fun of all the, "I'm leaving ECCIE, I'm taking a break, etc." posts.

Some of y'all really need a sense of humor added to your life. Originally Posted by MsElena

Johnny the troll making a mountain out of a mole hill.

OK Sins. I say let's make the board like facebook. We can do status updates like facebook.

You gotta admit, the "I'm leaving the board" posts that have been of late are funny because they end up not leaving....they keep posting.

Johnny, contrary to your beliefs.....I wasn't poking fun at Kaylen. Again, you have selective reading.

People are so touchy lately. Originally Posted by MsElena

Seriously, do you have to laugh at this one because its true. Guys making their "I'm leaving" posts and never leave. And you have to admit, you did make a post about taking a break from the board, but yet continued to post for a few days.

So yes, all the "I'm leaving, I'm taking a break from the board" has turned the CoEd section into a FB status update forum.

SL,

I wasn't just referring to providers doing that......there's been numerous men who have done it. And its just not in KC either. I understand that people do make friends on here and its nice to know if they do leave on their own terms.

I'm guessing......it probably is. But, that's OK......I'm always in heat seeing as I love sex. Originally Posted by MsElena

See my above response.

Geez......a joke brought all of this one. My bad.

NYCharlie......you did nothing wrong. Originally Posted by MsElena

No explaination needed on this. But, still true.....my joke started all this.

Kaylen,

Instead of a pic of you in a jacuzzi.....can you post one of you at the beach so we can see the sun.....and warm weather we're missing? Originally Posted by MsElena

OK, you post a pic of you in a jacuzzi......you're in Cali soaking up the sun and we're all here in the midwest freezing with snow. Asking for a pic of you enjoying the sun, beach, ocean and warmth is catty of me? How so?

You'd think at least one of that crazy bitch's personalities would be likeable !!! LOL Originally Posted by SexyKaylen

You took the first shoot..

Wow.....that was uncalled for.

I have been nice to you in emails and on the board over the last 6 months or so and I truly have never harbored any ill will towards you. I wasn't making fun of you with my first post, contrary to what you or others believe. I was trying to ad humor to it, some saw the humor and some didn't.

Hell, I was being serious and nice when I asked about the pic of you.

I'll take the high road on this one. Originally Posted by MsElena

Yeah, I did take the high road because I said NOTHING catty about you or to you.

OMGEEEEEE!

I didn't even start this blog!

Everybody has been nice except you Elena with your catty comments.
Yeah go ahead take the high road, be sure to take some tissue just in case your nose bleeds.

Still Looking <<<----- You got some brown stuff on your nose. Originally Posted by SexyKaylen

So, I broke my posts down for you. Where was I catty to you? Hell, I even said a couple times that I had no beef with you and was on good terms with you. Last time I checked we were on good terms exchanging PM's about a bad client.

I obviously can't make a joke in a thread that concerns you because you and your WK's think I'm making fun of you.......I can't say that I'm being nice to you for some reason......I can't ask a serious question about a pic without you thinking I'm being catty.

What the fuck can I do right? Its a no win situation with you kaylen. Being nice doesn't work, being serious doesn't work. I'd prefer not to insult you, call you names or be mean to you because its a new year, new outlook on life.....but, keep calling me names, insulting me when you have no reason....and this kitten will let her claws come out. But, I prefer to have them retracted.

Enjoy your time in Cali and try to make it to San Fran or San Diego......great sights to see and good food to enjoy.....LA is overrated, but the shopping is fab.

Cool story Gemma.
Wanna hear mine? It's a fairytale.
Once upon a time nobody gave a shit.

THE END!!
Originally Posted by SexyKaylen

See, you bring shit on yourself. And it seems you tell fairytales a lot. Lol. I'm sorry did you say you were in Cali? Perhaps that was a fairytale too as you flipped out about being asked to post a picture of you on the beach. Maybe next time you should take a longer break from Eccie, this short break didn't do you much good.