If I hadn't been completely screwed over by all but 2 providers in my life, I might consider going. However, after all this time and tons of experience, provider folk are not to be trusted for any reason.
Originally Posted by LovingKayla
As much as i love your idea Morgan, It is one that will only work in fantasy land. If it is hard enough to get a bunch of providers together in one spot to meet hobbyist & providers i doubt they many will show up without atleast the motivation of making new connections with clients. lol
Plus, i dont think there is too much an Indy can teach another Indy because we are all unique when it comes to intimacy and styles within BCD. As far as controlling prices or services or anything like that, thats impossible just as it is impossible for Hobbyist to boycott all ladies above a certain price point because they think she has GPS. There will always be some girls (& her pimp) who are going to do it anyway because they dont care about any sort of community, it just about what they can get Right Now. Same for hobbyist, there will always be some guy who is gnna see her anyway even though she is charging 500/hr for cbj.
You are lucky if you can find one or two good friends whom are providers. I know your intentions are well , but i would say just give this one up. Besides women have way more alterior motives than Men.
You could throw the shin dig then next thing ya know some girls is taking bits and pieces of information and using it against you. Like the thread in Houston said, Some people think this is a competition, and it is! We are all independently ran business (well i can only speak for myself lol) and essentially we are all in competiton for these mens attention, even if it is only for 1 hour or 2 or over night. I know i dont want to give away all my love secretes to the next girl so she can show me up! lol if she doesnt know what she is doing, Good! quicker she will be out the game and her clients coming to me
Now what i Do think should be given a shot, is a Secrete Ebony Provider FanClub. For all the men who love women of color.