Your friends SO is a provider

I fail to see the difference between selling pussy and giving it away. Either way, the vows are broken. Both of them are considered cheating. Frankly, I think the wife who hits on the friend at a gathering is more culpable than a wife who accidentally let the friend slip through her screening net.
Different women have different reasons for doing this. Maybe she's trying to save the house from foreclosure, but hiding it from your buddy so that he can still feel like Johnny Breadwinner. There's no telling, but this stupid "bros before hos" attitude is a good way to get the woman killed, and your friend locked up in jail. Neither of those things are positive outcomes for people you consider to be friends. Originally Posted by theCFE

There is a difference between selling pussy and giving it away. Selling pussy is a business transaction. Giving it away is flat out cheating.

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Entertaining thread. Now, do we get the name of this provider so we can test drive and tell you if you are missing out, or not? If not, then this was a waste of good research time.

There is a difference between selling pussy and giving it away. Selling pussy is a business transaction. Giving it away is flat out cheating.

Welcome back. Originally Posted by pyramider

How does it being a business transaction make it not cheating though?

These threads are SO confusing... SO of a neighbor's ex has a friend that used to be married to a nephew's squeeze that is a provider...


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How does it being a business transaction make it not cheating though? Originally Posted by jbravo_123

Probably an argument about emotion level of attachment, or lack there-of. Somewhere in the neighbourhood of the line of thought of cheating without sex.

However breakin' the rules (AKA expectations) is still breakin' the rules in my mind. Call the spade a spade, get over it, and move on.

Probably an argument about emotion level of attachment, or lack there-of. Somewhere in the neighbourhood of the line of thought of cheating without sex.

However breakin' the rules (AKA expectations) is still breakin' the rules in my mind. Call the spade a spade, get over it, and move on. Originally Posted by JRCash

I understand that, but you can give it away for free without any emotional attachment as well as you can have emotional attachment even when you're getting paid for it...

I understand that, but you can give it away for free without any emotional attachment as well as you can have emotional attachment even when you're getting paid for it... Originally Posted by jbravo_123

Agreed. Not what he was picturing, though. By "just a business transaction" he means to imply emotional detachment. *shrug* On the other hand he has trouble picturing someone screwing with no financial transaction without emotional detachment. Doesn't work for him.

There are differences but those differences are only relevant when the SO's expectations say they are. But you understand that, that's why you and Lillie have whatever explicit 'rules' laid out. So things are clear and nobody accidentally crosses the other's lines, since you are skirting closer to them than allowed by the generic society boundaries.

Funny little lines we draw in our minds.

I thought wakeup stole LV, & is now under the rule of the Ten Alphas.
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Did he return her?

Agreed. Not what he was picturing, though. By "just a business transaction" he means to imply emotional detachment. *shrug* On the other hand he has trouble picturing someone screwing with no financial transaction without emotional detachment. Doesn't work for him.

There are differences but those differences are only relevant when the SO's expectations say they are. But you understand that, that's why you and Lillie have whatever explicit 'rules' laid out. So things are clear and nobody accidentally crosses the other's lines, since you are skirting closer to them than allowed by the generic society boundaries.

Funny little lines we draw in our minds. Originally Posted by JRCash

Oh yeah, it's really about what each person is ok with and making sure the boundries are clear and no one crosses them.

In the example we were given though (of a SO having sex for free vs getting paid for it, both without the consent of their SO), I just don't see much of a difference there. At least the one getting paid is making some $$$ out of it and maybe even a little safer due to screening vs just going out and picking up someone at a bar.