I'm just curious, do non-BBWs not want to eat on an overnight? My skinniest friends are the ones the eat a ton, and I can't imagine them screwing all night with no sustenance.
Originally Posted by LilMynx69
Ladies get to eat, I'm not starving anyone lol. Sheed I wanna eat out sometimes too. I have no issue with that as I usually provide food, drinks and everything we need in the comfort of the hotel room via my outcall. I just don't like self imposed and required dinner dates some ladies require for overnights. BBWs for the most part highly suggest and demand this. It seems moreso a principal concern for BBWs rather than other body types. Thats why I book late.....like 8pm or later. Most people don't eat after 9pm anyways to watch their figure, besides a snack or two and breakfast in the morning; so instead of the access calories I instead go straight to their hips lol.
I basically still want 12 hours of a snugglefucking overnight even if we are having a dinner date. So if I do do a dinner date id book more time.......or she would offer me more time free of charge and I would dinner date first. Like if my appointment was at 8pm to 8am, Id do 4pm or 6pm instead until checkout time the next day. That way she has time to digest her food, talk, and be at her best when the service starts. If she is dead set on an overnight I have a lot of criteria for it though. Some ladies have it......some don't. I just don't like the fluff and fakeness of dinner dates. Its not really her.....its her "representative." Ladies for the most part figuratively "won't let their hair down."
1. She's not gonna drink (as much as she would like publically to maintain her full devices ) and eat truthfully what she really wants.......just something light like a "fru fru" salad.....or a damn appetizer. She knows to some extent later on she's expected to perform so she's not really gonna chow down and actually eat like I would prefer she would. And that's a shame.
Some ladies actually have gotten doggybags and to go plates and have the nerve and audacity to leave 70 percent of a whole meal at my outcall after. One lady asked me could she get a steak plate for her kidd for later. WTF.....lol. So disrespectful and unappreciative. But she was great behind closed doors though.
2. The dinner conversation is more lopsided and transforms into a questionaire towards me moreso than an even exchange of mutual personability and conversation. Not all ladies are like this....but the majority are. Seeing the provider in a more natural setting makes me naturally curious, and I can analyze and read people well. I don't like manufactured and fake talk and chat.
3. Some of you ladies are like little celebrities showing your faces in ads in such. I generally tend to do more dinner dates with ladies who do not show their faces.....to avoid recognition in public.
For me my public dinner date preference or oppourtunity for it doesnt start until I hear her voice, see what she looks like, and see if she is presentable and representative of a lady I would date and take out, and if her mannerisms are complementary when she arrives.
Unless she was very personable and accommodating during screening process I wont exactly plan to have one unless I communicate with her somewhat extensively via one phonecall beforehand to find similar interest. I mostly do overnights, and I consider a public dinner date as gratuity......or if she is damn good behind closed doors I may be newly enamored and awe inspired enough to ask her to dinner to discover more.........I can also determine if she isnt my perferred dinner date type and if I would rather choose to keep her best talents and attributes in the bedroom. Some ladies have it......some don't. I just don't like the fluff and fakeness of dinner dates. I think most times its just a time consumer for my particular type of appointment. Usually dinner dates take up about 2 to 4 hours of my booked time with preparation and digestion and relaxation before coitus. I find no monetary value in it....unless of course she is very entertaining.....or I'm hungry and prefer to go out.
The point of the whole matter is this.....business first. For the first 2 to 3 hours of an overnight I want sex, and if she wants to go out for food after, I might choose that option. Not much is open past midnight in many cities and Id rather have sex first before going out to eat. I don't need her all gasey and lethargic before we start having sex. That craving for a samich doesn't come until well after coitus for me. Most women are overly concerned with their appearance.....after those first 3 hours her hair and makeup is messed up and tossed anyways lol.
Some ladies have it......some don't. I just don't like the fluff and fakeness of dinner dates. I don't like paying for that time, but if their is monetary value and incentive to do it I would everytime. I think most times its just a time consumer for my particular type of appointment. Some ladies don't prefer dinner dates in public and won't do them. Although I'm paying for the meal, I don't want it to count as part my paid time. And sometime depending on her overnight rate whether its is low or high........if I have a choice between a lady who requires a public dinner date or one who would prefer or be chameleon to staying indoors via outcall, Ill pick the later everytime.
If its as far as comforts of home like fruit and veggies, pizza, chinese etc.....I can have that availiable via my room. Some ladies Id prefer to see BCD wouldn't be my cup of tea to have a dinner date in public with. I may seek a chick that is real ratchet renaissance one day and a lady that classy the next. Maybe she has a cute banging body and a oj simpson jersey throwback face. I should get the luxury and benefit to make that choice if I want to eat out or not. I consider a dinner date as gratuity and not all ladys have the personality and personability to provide a good dinner date mate. Her strong suit maybe the behind closed doors fun........ladies usually play to their strong suits. Other times it may be because the look of the lady is vastly different to the types of women I would date as a civilian. Its about appearances and preference on a public dinner date for me........in a hotel room its about syncing mutual preferences.
And usually when I book its late at night, like around 9pm. Not much is open past midnight in many cities and Id rather have sex first before going out to eat. I don't need her all gasey and lethargic before we start having sex. That craving for a samich doesn't come until after for me. Most women are overly concerned with their appearance.....after those first 3 hours her hair is messed up and tossed anyways lol
Now as far as the tendency of body types and there actions generally for dinner dates.
1. Spinners won't eat much....(a few peas, maybe a drink or two......boo)
2.Now as far as the petite ladies....half and half. They sometimes will eat after midnight via snacks and fruit and such...maybe drinks....but nobodys chowing down.
3. Thick and curvy chicks actually eat. But the results are mostly mixed. About half and half.
4. BBWS chow down and they will actually eat. Which I find sexy as hell. But it vastly affects their performance soon thereafter. Definitely should have sex first. I have seen far too many ladies get that "itis" and be cranky and lethargic later when they get my friendly tap on the shoulder for MSOG.
