Now when that "wife" stalked me on the board I was glad as hell I didn't have my picture posted
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Ive only been asked for a face picture maybe 3xs in my year of doing this so its never been a issue or problem for me, I don't post mine as its not worth someone stumbling across my pic as I have lots of family/friends/past coworkers here that I don't care to know my business.Indeed, very true. With all those facial recognition software issues out there, it's a bit scary how stalkers can profile and find you. To me, it's not a risk I'm willing to take. On another note, I've heard from many ladies that hotel management has come to their room with a copy of their Eros Ad stating "please leave we don't want your kind here." I don't want to walk into a hotel and be "Miss Vixxen" from the Internet. Also, when dining with gentlemen friends, I also wouldn't want them to be embarrassed that the men at the table next to them know who he's with. Just my 2 cents.
Now when that "wife" stalked me on the board I was glad as hell I didn't have my picture posted(this was due to a guy I never met but had emailed and pm'd) Originally Posted by Sweet N Little
My stomach churns if I think about someone I've never met before have my picture. He might cancel or NCNS and still have my picture. I would die if my friends, my job or my family finds out! Originally Posted by samantha thomIf it is THAT big a deal then you are in the wrong business. It is always a risk that everyone takes including the guys.
Question: Do all you ladies who don't post face pics allow guys to cancel on the spot as soon as they see your face? Originally Posted by SeverusSnapeIt's never happened. I have a beautiful face, which is backed up by my reviews. Exotic ice blue eyes, full lips, no scars or blemishes. I'm certainly not a "butter face" and I think my face is better than my body.
I hate to be asked for more pictures. I have plenty in my showcase and I always tell guys that if they are anything less than satisfied with my appearance once we meet then they are more than welcome to cancel on me. Nothing lost, nothing gained. It irks me because I know some guys are just creepy pic collectors who have no intention of ever meeting.Nicely said! English being my second language has hindered me to explain it as well as you just did. Thank yoi!
It doesn't make me stupid to turn down request from guys who bug me for a picture, it makes me a provider who has goals and aspirations that are greater than this industry. Discretion is something I practice and I expect the gentlemen who select to spend their hard earned cash and valuable time with me to respect my privacy as I will theirs . I'm a good looking girl. Every time I meet someone they say I look better in real life. I'm honest and I enjoy being able to feel comfortable with hobbyist. if we can't reach a mutual understanding on my privacy requirements then 9 times out of 10 we just wont work. Originally Posted by exoticentyce
If it is THAT big a deal then you are in the wrong business. It is always a risk that everyone takes including the guys.considering all the "no recommendations" from your reviews I guess I can see why you want pictures ...maybe some further research would help as well
As far as the pic, I have a process that works for me.
1) If there is a pic posted and has no face it is probably fake. I assume there is something to hide. I know all you "pretty" girls think your shit doesn't stink, but it does MOST of the time so buyer must be AWARE of the risks.
2) If there is no face pic and I still want to see her, then the reviews better be awesome.
3) If there is no face and no reviews, then I have a perfect right to ASK for a face picture. Whether you provide that pic is up to you and whether I decide to see you without it is up to me.
4) The only recourse is two-fold at this point. You show up and if I do not like you, I send you on your way reminding you that you could have saved a bunch of grieve and time by sending me a pic, or you decide to not see her to begin with which is what I do. Or I guess you could bring some #2 grocery sacks just in case. You are not paying for our good looks, but we are paying for yours.
If it is a massage, then I will risk $100 on a "as is" basis of what you see is what you get. On the other hand, $200-$300 is another issue.
To me, if a provider does not understand the basic concept of we have a right to see what we are buying, along with the concept that you will loose business by denying some people that right - then again they should not be in the business.....shall we say "stupid"? I am assuming that those that have spoken up against the pics do not care about the money and THAT is OK too.
But to suggest that we are wrong in asking for a pic is to me suggesting that you are stupid and do not understand the dynamics of pay for play. It would also be equally stupid of ME to assume you HAVE to provide a face pic just because I asked.
Your decision. Without the face pic in the ad or before the appointment, I would probably not see you without GLOWING and STELLAR reviews to back up the No-Face risks usually associated with the the hobby. Leaving THEM standing at the door because they did not look like the pics etc would only be fair in cases like this. That includes pics from the neck down. Do you think we are so stupid we cannot tell those are not the tits and ass in the pics?
I think some providers have realized this issue as more and more advertise "its me or its free". Originally Posted by Introuble