Dating a provider

Yeah Bj fuck the loans never will I do that rides don't bother me even though I haven't been asked for one in while never have been ask about dinner but I might do that if she is someone who seems normal and not on PT . Moneytalks I hear you on FF really wanna see Frankie I gotta head up that way sometime soon

another finding something they want to do
Wakely Mountain

long before I ever got on a board, and she be long gone(mmm I wonder how she doing)
I wanted some fun with a provider for a long weekend. As I have walked up Wakely before and just learned she wanted to make that walk herself. It was a fun weekend.

At the time fire tower on top of Wakely was unused and few took the hike up.
The view was awesome, so was the sex near the top of a 90ft fire tower with someone that was afraid of heights.
edit add: dang she would not take that air cab seaplane ride. So when we went fishing it was easy to get to rather than somewhere hard to get at. But she did a good job cooking the fish.

few years later it just ended. I still miss her like others. Hay what can I say next next next till ya find the next Miss NEXT on the list. Ended a few months after getting out of jail for forged instrument. See another guy was in a rush. So she got hold of some of his checks. So never think anyone that never took me for a ride to hell, would not do it to another. That one I never got so trusty with to let into my main home. Vacation home at the time yes, but never where I lived.

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I keep reminding myself that the well is pretty deep and there are a lot more experiences to be had. Once the well runs dry I gonna have to bump the rule up to two visits . But there's a long way to go especially with the likes of Frankie Fine, Veronica Boyt, etc...

When I do bump up to two at the top of my list are:
SexyDeeDee, Krystal Kurves, and hmmm can't think of another at the moment. in the past I found that by visit three providers were already asking for rides, meals, loans, etc... I tend to be more on the soft side so I've done what I could to help but the one visit rule offsets my weakness.

By the way, there have been a few recent exceptions Originally Posted by moneytalksny

MTNY,

Here we seem using the term 'providers' in manner slightly tinged with emotion, and past [hurtful?] experiences, none of which is a bad thing. But do not providers, much like their patrons, come in an extremely bewildering variety of characters? Or, are there some few common features that are true for all providers, regardless of the past personal histories, economic and educational backgrounds, etc. that compel them into this profession? And does this clutch of characteristics make them generally unstable in specific ways and mostly unfit as partners, mates and long-term romantic and life companions? Would it be fair to say that those are the questions we are asking?

Can we say that if their patrons are drawn from a general population and share no specific features that can pin them down as "johns" vs. the "virtuous rest of the world", the same may or may not be true of providers as well?

Just for argument's sake, let us assume, that providers also come from this general population without any specific defining attributes. Then, like their patrons, will they also not fall along a simple Gaussian distribution, i.e. a "Bell Curve" albeit one having different shapes according to different initial assumptions, like "providers often are reacting to childhood sexual abuse" etc.

But even in the stereotypical bell-shaped curve, there are the outliers, the exceptions. The exaggerated middle is often an artefact and often misleading, and if tamped down, will increase the proportions of the "outlier" populations! Both the really "good" ones and the really "bad" ones will then tend to increase!

Hollywood has a fascination with the "Hooker with the Golden Heart" and since the 40s, I believe there have been more than a dozen classic movies made on this theme. Are these completely imagination, or is there some truth to these drawn from corresponding elements in the real world? I have no idea.

Is everyone only out there for the money?

Do only psychologically afflicted women enter the business or does the business make their existing psychological vulnerabilities worse to the point where they cannot create a loving relationship with patrons, nor patrons with them?

We have heard of cases on ECCIE where a provider has turned around and become a successful housewife and hotel manager, but not with a former client. Very important point.


Would be very interested in hearing more about these questions, since not a single lady here is under any compulsion, like child trafficking, so prevalent in other societies.

GP,

You've raised many interesting points each which can be a thread of it's own accord.

The term provider.. I don't read too deep into it at all. It's just a euphemism as I find prostitute and hooker an unfavorable way to describe one of the oldest professions in the world.

On the character of ones in this profession.. I don't think that by virtue of being in this profession they are incapable of having a true relationship. Many are good ladies trying to find some sense of stability which can be a hard thing to come by in this economy.

'Psychologically afflicted women'.. I'm not onboard with this initial premise. Keep in mind, the profession is legal all over the world. Not all who enter it have mental issues. Some just love to fuck and get paid. Some are mental. Some need to pay the bills. In short, they are no different than the clients. Some of us are complete fuck ups and some are decent human beings fulfilling natures most basic needs.

On the happily ever after front, I've only read stories of providers post profession. My guess is some clients can get past the fact that their gal has slept with several hundred or thousand guys but many most cannot. Long term it could be a recipe for disaster as life becomes more routine. But wtf do I know.

I personally have been caught in the emotional trap a few times. The fuck and leave rule seems to be a saving grace. Many providers are supposed to provide a GFE and make you feel special. Just read their reviews and you'll see that they are doing there job as everyone feels special. Sometimes it's real but there is no way of telling.

I recently read a review of a provider I absolutely loved but did not review. Admittedly I got a little jealous because there were a few things on the menu that I didn't explore then I laughed and thought fuck and leave.

Going back to my morning puddin'. Thank God for fixodent!
MTny

Very well said guys. In fact I remember thinking those very same things! I remember thinking I can't fucking wait to leave my ex and be alone in peace and quiet for a bit. And others were lining up to see her and wanted her out of the business! Come live with me, take care of my cats, my house, I love you, marry me, etc. I couldn't believe grown men could be so foolish but trust me, it happens, and it happens more than we think. Eccie must stand for Christian mingle. Originally Posted by sucrunchman

Great post. Very fuckin real. We've all been there. Went to Canada last week and fantasized about changing my citizenship. Wtf. I'm back in the right mental state now with the help of one post I saw a while back.. Can't remember who said it but it was brilliant..

In the end all we have are memories..
MTny

We've gone thru some changes it seems here. Whew