I Can't Go For That (No Can Do) - Dinner Edition

In another thread I said I didn't think you were stupid. I take that back. Originally Posted by Sjc21108

Meh, don't wanna win them all anyways

Off the clock has to be someone I enjoy in the hobby! But with a hobby friend, yes! For a meet and greet, not for me Originally Posted by bustyamy

^^^^ Great avatar by the way, it's fun and flirty

Quit the only beautiful people will succeed stuff. I think I can speak for some other guys. Intelligence and a quick wit is just as much a thing we look for. Oh there are some guys that search out the cute fluff. I look for some one that I can hold a conversation with that speaks with out the ghetto thrown in my face. In my short time in the hobby I have been lucky to meet some wonderful women that I can not only enjoy in bed but also enjoy being with. Driving in a car with one provider from Austin to Houston and her arguing with my GPS unit. Setting out behind a hotel after dinner making out like high school kids. Introducing a provider to a friend of mine that had no idea who she was other than a friend. The look on her face when he drove up in a cop car was priceless. Taking pictures in a sexy lingerie store with out the front desk seeing us. Dressed up in a period costume with some one that you find you click with. Beauty is great but it should come from with in.

Quit the only beautiful people will succeed stuff. I think I can speak for some other guys. Intelligence and a quick wit is just as much a thing we look for. Oh there are some guys that search out the cute fluff. I look for some one that I can hold a conversation with that speaks with out the ghetto thrown in my face. In my short time in the hobby I have been lucky to meet some wonderful women that I can not only enjoy in bed but also enjoy being with. Driving in a car with one provider from Austin to Houston and her arguing with my GPS unit. Setting out behind a hotel after dinner making out like high school kids. Introducing a provider to a friend of mine that had no idea who she was other than a friend. The look on her face when he drove up in a cop car was priceless. Taking pictures in a sexy lingerie store with out the front desk seeing us. Dressed up in a period costume with some one that you find you click with. Beauty is great but it should come from with in. Originally Posted by tucson

I agree, your post are read just as much as our post are read. Everyone is entitled to their Opinions. I stand by mine and it's not going to change. This is a Hobby, too many emotions run high. Everyone's experience is different.

Everyone's experience is different. Originally Posted by Alyssa XOXO

....and everyone is different.

Not for me. Discretion is a must. Kammye behind closed doors. ☺

I fixed that for you.

One thing that hasn't been mention is a meet and greet before the session usually over a drink or two usually not an extra fee.

I would pay (ok have paid) for a date that included dinner and or drinks and then BCD or vice versa. Originally Posted by oilfieldscum

I'm a fan of the meet and greet drink beforehand. At no cost for the gentlemen besides the cost of the drinks, of course.

I'm a fan of the meet and greet drink beforehand. At no cost for the gentlemen besides the cost of the drinks, of course. Originally Posted by LilMynx69

Would you say that youre seeking more of an arangement than to be a escort? You mentioned you had a benifactor before. Seems to me that some women here would be more inclined to create a relationship/friendship outside of the bedroom for those reasons.No right or wrong, just marketing for what you may be looking for. I usually decline these types of dates because i dont want to foster the false hope of a relationship. Im not really going to be your girlfriend, so i dont want blurred lines.

Thanks for your input, Sonya. That's exactly the type of honest answer I was looking for when I asked the question. I'm just really curious about the reasons some people like these dates and some don't.

Great answer.

As far as what I'm looking for...I'm not sure. It's complicated these days. I wish my benefactor was still with us...I miss him tons. He's irreplaceable.

Im still new at this in comparison to some. Luckily Ive had Ava Baker as my mentor to guide me. But Ive had a client I very much enjoyed and went on Dinner dates with. I was surprised to find he was thinking of a traditional relationship with me that i hadn't offered. I do find clients I enjoy sexually as well as intellectually. But I think Its importante not to play with someone's heart. But again thats my choice, for myself.

Some people spend way too much time standing in front of a full length mirror, it's always a sad thing when someone starts believing their own hype.

Yeah...I own what I said, I was a supporter, but she's said A LOT of really mean/pointed, narcisistic things lately:

http://www.britannica.com/EBchecked/...3458/Narcissus

"Pretty is as pretty does"

~ Originally Posted by Lexieinhouston

I was going to add some may have an over inflated ego of themselves and be "above" being seen in public with a trick.

No "hype" here hon, I'm very secure in the RW Enjoying what I do for a living and bettering myself (18 months training and still going) in the process is something that of course I'm proud of. How anyone feels about themselves at the end of the day is on them. You should never try and change something if you're not dedicated in the first place. And backing out of something that will obviously better you because of my honest opinion is just silly. Stay where you are then if you're happy there, it's your life Originally Posted by Alyssa XOXO

I feel pretty safe in saying that you are the most hyped provider on eccie....ever.

I'm a fan of the meet and greet drink beforehand. At no cost for the gentlemen besides the cost of the drinks, of course. Originally Posted by LilMynx69

Me too....if nothing else it allows you to get comfortable with each other first.

Meh, don't wanna win them all anyways



^^^^ Great avatar by the way, it's fun and flirty Originally Posted by Alyssa XOXO

Great legs woman!!! Thanx a lot sexy diva you

Not for me. Discretion is a must. Kammye behind closed doors. ☺ Originally Posted by Kammye

This is true, if you stay in your area, and up walks a nosey neighbor, your aunt etc ugh... I rather make you a meal and stay in,.or order out and stay in!

Hey can you guys stay on topic and take personal gripes elsewhere. This topic is interesting.

But if you're a hobbyist, and you have such a need for human social interaction that you're willing to pay for her to eat food, and talk to you while she's doing it, or for her to sleep, on an overnight...you need therapy (or a divorce lawyer)...not a hooker... Originally Posted by Wakeup

Lol. WU with the no regard for human life goods. I'll be dam if I pay someone to eat with me. I'd be like Jim Carey in Liar Liar and start kicking my own ass.

I was going to add some may have an over inflated ego of themselves and be "above" being seen in public with a trick. Originally Posted by oilfieldscum

I usually feel uncomfortable being seen in public with a pretty woman because of how ugly I am. ;-)