Great thread!
I'll never argue against being inside a woman and enjoying a mutual orgasm, however...
I love a woman to cum on my face , for her to suck her juices off my fingers, lips ...
I am more than happy to do the same and CIM , COF - Even enjoy some cum play with the right partner...COT especially if up its what she's into!
That's the erotic part to me... In the moment together and succumbing to each other's desires and fantasies ...