Feeling ripped of by my Regular - need advice

$1500 doesn't cover what?

So this is 18k a year, guaranteed.

If two guys offered you this you'd just say "naw I'm good" and keep it moving leaving 36k on the table to work no more than 20 days a month per month?

Both agree not to abuse privileges nor use you for more than 10 times a month.

A third guy makes it 54k but you can only work up to 30 days a month. All three can be conservative and see you just 5 times each. You can book your other independent dates around your retainer (SD's) clients.

That's not good enough for you? You'd tell the guy to walk the other way offering you 1,500 a month.

Ok. Gotcha.
IMO, retainers should start at 5k/month minumum. Even then, dates still need to be scheduled in advance. Last time, I was on retainer, I did nice things for him all the time in appreciation, and not all of them were sexual in nature.
  • Sonya
  • 08-29-2014, 01:27 PM
Wreckshop. Not to be obnoxious or arrogant, but I made .1700 today at its 1:00. Why would take 1500 for ten appointments?
$1500 doesn't cover what?

So this is 18k a year, guaranteed.

If two guys offered you this you'd just say "naw I'm good" and keep it moving leaving 36k on the table to work no more than 20 days a month per month?

Both agree not to abuse privileges nor use you for more than 10 times a month.

A third guy makes it 54k but you can only work up to 30 days a month. All three can be conservative and see you just 5 times each. You can book your other independent dates around your retainer (SD's) clients.

That's not good enough for you? You'd tell the guy to walk the other way offering you 1,500 a month.

Ok. Gotcha. Originally Posted by wreckshop
I'm literally cracking up as I read this...you brave man. Lol
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  • Tetas
  • 08-29-2014, 01:54 PM
Wreckshop. Not to be obnoxious or arrogant, but I made .1700 today at its 1:00. Why would take 1500 for ten appointments? Originally Posted by Sonya
Wreckshop. Not to be obnoxious or arrogant, but I made .1700 today at its 1:00. Why would take 1500 for ten appointments? Originally Posted by Sonya
10 appointments is the WORST case scenario. It's a 1-3 year contract.

That's the thing. It could be for 1 appointment, 2 appointments, or even zero during a month's time.

It's jus an automatic steady flow of guaranteed income for like a year or two. It could be months where he's on vacation or has his teenage kids over during summer months.

The guys are all considerate and understanding. 1500 isn't anything to them.

The rate is so low because there's a high likelihood some months may go by without being needed.

if it's 5k, then as a guy you're going to feel obligated to indulge EVERY month b/c it's such a serious investment.
  • Sonya
  • 08-29-2014, 02:19 PM
If someone puts you under contract its because they want the romance of not handing you an envelope and want an even more realistic version on gfe. They are gonna want you weekly at least, and want you at their leisure. That means we might have to turn away very lucrative business on any given day. So, again 1500 is just plain silly. No offense, I understand the wish. But you underestimate us. And you underestimate the volume of Houston hobbiest. Just because a handful of women run threADs when they want more business doesn't mean the struggle is real.
$1500 doesn't cover what?

So this is 18k a year, guaranteed.

If two guys offered you this you'd just say "naw I'm good" and keep it moving leaving 36k on the table to work no more than 20 days a month per month?

Both agree not to abuse privileges nor use you for more than 10 times a month.

A third guy makes it 54k but you can only work up to 30 days a month. All three can be conservative and see you just 5 times each. You can book your other independent dates around your retainer (SD's) clients.

That's not good enough for you? You'd tell the guy to walk the other way offering you 1,500 a month.

Ok. Gotcha. Originally Posted by wreckshop
Yeah, I'd tell them to walk away. Your scenario puts me working just as much or more (in the case of adding the 3rd guy) for literally a fraction of the money. I gross over $100k a year working and average of 22 hours a month (BCD time). Assuming they limit themselves to 1 hour visits, you want me to take a 64% mark-down on your "guaranteed contract?" So now I have to do a lot more work in order to make the same amount of money? Doesn't seem like a good deal for me. *shrug*
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Heh heh heh
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I'm literally cracking up as I read this...you brave man. Lol Originally Posted by Zanzibar789
Brave???
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Yeah, I'd tell them to walk away. I gross over $100k a year working and average of 22 hours a month (BCD time). Assuming they limit themselves to 1 hour visits, you want me to take a 64% mark-down on your "guaranteed contract?" Originally Posted by CarolineDavenport
Guess what.
She pays income tax too.
:Swoon:

I'm literally cracking up as I read this...you brave man. Lol Originally Posted by Zanzibar789
Brave??? Originally Posted by poppy71
Brave: as translated from the language fucktardius oepidus, adjective; descriptor for going full retard.
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^^ heh

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This is brave damnit

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Guess what.
She pays income tax too.
:Swoon:




Brave: as translated from the language fucktardius oepidus, adjective; descriptor for going full retard. Originally Posted by Dorian Gray

Hey it's only been a week that I took off. You fellas missed me that much? I typed the word brave? didn't know it was worthy of such attention.

Odd I tell ya. SMH