Male Members who do not review

I haven't read through all 6 pages of this so if I cover something already mentioned let me go ahead and put out the "my bad" disclaimer. I don't gripe about people not writing reviews thats their time and energy not mine. I typically review on my first visit unless I'm strictly told not to by the provider. I always review new ladies because they need the business and most guys want the intel. If its a shitty session and you try to give me that "i don't want a review BS....too bad. But I haven't written a lot of No's anyhow. I'm all about the hobby...passing info to the guys, and helping ladies with their business.

I'm curious Nina, do you screen your clients? If so, how? If you aren't reference friendly hopefully you don't expect another lady to help you out. I think you could be shooting yourself in the foot with your no review, no reference policy. Guess we'll see.

I'm curious Nina, do you screen your clients? If so, how? If you aren't reference friendly hopefully you don't expect another lady to help you out. I think you could be shooting yourself in the foot with your no review, no reference policy. Guess we'll see. Originally Posted by Kendall4U

I don't ask for references honey. Not for one bit. I have my own style of screening. I would never see a guy based only off a reference a provider would give me. I do more digging. It's my responsibility to properly screen and protect myself not another provider.

BTW I've had this policy listed on my Sig line for a while now & haven't had any problems with my business thus far. It actually has been picking up more than usual. Thank you though!

It's probably been addressed somewhere thru all of this but I'll give my opinion that you've all been waiting for.

MY OPINION:

The purpose of this site is to facilitate a way for clients to meet providers and vice versa. This is done thru providers posting ads and clients posting reviews. It's that simple. Without either this site doesn't exist.

My personal feelings are if you're seeing different providers then you should write a review.
I know you're reading other's reviews to help make your decision so do the same in return.

I agree that there are other ways to contribute like with paid access or providing intel in other ways but without reviews this site doesn't serve the same purpose.

I had a ton of reviews on the other site (150 or so) but I didn't always have a regular provider so I'd write a review just about everytime I'd see somebody new. Now I usually just see the same person so I don't have an absurd amount now.

It does bug me when something comes out about a provider and then here come all of the "that happened to me too" but there was no review from any of the "me toos"

Some providers might ask that I not review them and as long as the session was anywhere from average to great I would respect those wishes. If the session was horrible then I'd write a review to let others know regardless of her request to not write it.(hasn't happened).

As far as Nina's policy that she won't give references unless a review is written, who am I to say that's right or wrong?. It's her business and that's fine to do as she thinks best. For me it's pretty simple. If I see a provider and they want a review then I'll write her a review!

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BTW I've had this policy listed on my Sig line for a while now & haven't had any problems with my business thus far. It actually has been picking up more than usual. Thank you though! Originally Posted by Nina the Dicknapper

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THIS.

every provider decides how she wants to conduct her business, either coming up w/ it from scratch, from another provider, or some combo.

nina clearly states her policy wrt references.
maybe it's a great idea, maybe a meh idea, maybe the craziest one ever.
but it's her PUBLICLY stated policy, just like many other providets' policies (hrs available, nba, min appt tome, rates, etc.).

that's a whole lot better than an unpublicized policy or one that changes ftom TCB to actual appt time.

and just like her decision on it, i get to decide if i want to follow it.

I am so encouraged that our 1st amendment rights are supported by the the latest posters.

I tend to like guys who don't even have an account on this site and/or any hooker review board.

The guys who are spending money and getting laid don't have time to sit and post on the board. Originally Posted by Adrienne Baptiste

I was reading along and thinking, "you know, everyone is focused on the wrong part of the op. If you're a guy and you 'post multiple times daily' then whether you do it negatively or positively is really irrelevant. You're already spending way, way, way more time than you should on this board instead of living your life and getting laid." I kept reading because I was certain someone would say it. Kind of disappointed me that it wasn't one of the guys, but it bumped my appreciation of you that you did. You've got your head on straight girl.

I like how some people seem to think it takes a considerable amount of time to post on a forum. And that forums have to be all business. Heaven forbid you get entertainment from them. Instead of yelling for kids to get off your lawn, you're telling them to get off your internet now. :lol

You're already spending way, way, way more time than you should on this board instead of living your life and getting laid." Originally Posted by dmcleod

Facebook wanted me to pass along that you haven't been logged in for 18 minutes.. and did something happen to you?

I like how some people seem to think it takes a considerable amount of time to post on a forum. And that forums have to be all business. Heaven forbid you get entertainment from them. Instead of yelling for kids to get off your lawn, you're telling them to get off your internet now. :lol Originally Posted by FunInDFW

Funny and true! I think it's hilarious that the assumption is frequent posters don't have $$$ or do not "have a life". That's not very logical to me. Some guys use the boards as a convenient escape from the life that they don't have. Hell, who doesn't loke discussing sex and sex related subject matters! I think jadedness may play a factor in this assumption.

Also, I think posting could give you good insight into who a person is. I know it helps me make decisions for sure! For instance, I was drawn by MelStar's bubbly personality, when we met, I felt like I knew her already. Also, I'm digging the dicknapper. She's just like I like em' young, thick, and a mouth that doesn't quit! I loke the fact she doesn't "play sides" and that she does her own thing. Yeah, I am going to have to make that trip to see her and make hot butter love to her one day, lol!

If you're a guy and you 'post multiple times daily' then whether you do it negatively or positively is really irrelevant. You're already spending way, way, way more time than you should on this board instead of living your life and getting laid." Originally Posted by dmcleod

Joined - July 2010
Posts - 102
Reviews - 0

Well said. No one will ever accuse you of wasting time contributing to this board.

Facebook wanted me to pass along that you haven't been logged in for 18 minutes.. and did something happen to you? Originally Posted by Chung Tran

That is funny!

I personally don't care if people give 20478 references or 0 or ask for them or not. I was simply stating that all men that do not write reviews do not do it for selfish reasons. There is no need to read more in to it. To penalize someone for not writing a review is up to you, but when one steps back and looks at it from another perspective they may have compassion.

I know men who write reviews and who don't write reviews and they do both for various reasons. Some men on these board are jerks. If a guy writes about cuddling he can be made fun of. If a guy writes a review on a ts, ladies deny meeting with them. It's a lot of bullshit but it's not always because someone is selfish and blah blah blahhhhhhh.....

Hobbyists write reviews????

FUCK YA!!!!!!!!
SLUTS UNITED!!!!!!!

Hobbyists write reviews????

FUCK YA!!!!!!!!
SLUTS UNITED!!!!!!! Originally Posted by daaaaaman

supposed to.. btw, you need to do a few reviews.. it's pitiful how few you've done in the time you've been active..