The day I have to freakin work at mcdonalds and sell pussy is the day I walk away from selling pussy.
And the day I have to freakin sell pussy and make less than I would working at mcdonald's the day I go turn in my garters for a spatula. WHICH IS THE POINT I WAS TRYING TO MAKE. I'm not trying to rain on anyone's parade here. But it always seems that way lol. This job IS a luxury. We're on the same page with that at least, Deanna. Ladies shouldn't come crying about financial woes on the board. People don't wanna hear it. It makes the lady look bad.
Where we're just gonna have to agree to disagree is about "swallowing your pride" and lowering your rate (to something which would constitute "swallowing your pride"). I guess I must just be a "weak minded, low self-esteem girl," but before I lower my rate to a place where I feel like I am swallowing my pride, I'd go do something else. Yep, I'm too prideful. So sue me.
BUT
On that same hand, I'm too prideful to come to a damn escort board and ask for help. Or take handouts. What I don't understand is those that have too much pride to lower their rate or get a "civilian" job, but are perfectly fine with asking for assistance on the boards.
Also, I find it interesting that after all that I said in the last post, the only thing people seemed to hone in on was where they THOUGHT I was saying that *only* undesirable men come out at lower rates.
I realize that there are quite a few nice guys who can't afford much, just like there are wealthy men who are total jerks. I didn't say undesirable clients come out at lower rates. I said lowering your rates brings more risk. And it does.
When you lower your rates in order to try and make more money (or even the same money, really) you HAVE to see more clients. That's the whole argument "for" lowering of rates that everyone is making. EVERY TIME you see a new client, you are putting yourself at risk for any number of things. Multiply that by the 4 or 5 times. Some people can handle that risk. Some can't. But the risk IS THERE.
Originally Posted by travelling_man
And what about that $225 or $250 girl that I wanted to see but just couldn't quite afford? What if she lowered her rates to $50, well I'd probably see her 4, 5 or 6 times A WEEK
Men are always talking laughing "provider math," but this "hobbyist math" is just as baffling. Affording $225 is out of the question, but $300 isn't?
Yeah... no. I'm gonna have to COMPLETELY disagree. Otherwise why is affording $225 a problem, but $300 not lol? What you mean is that you would see SEVERAL ladies a week, not the SAME lady several times. Meaning each lady would only make $50. Just do the math - what's one times $50 vs 1 times $250? At what rate do you think the girls will earn more money? Gee, sounds like a great deal for a hobbyist though.
And there are PLENTY of ladies on this board are doing just fine at $200/$300/$400 an hour. "Doing fine" is relative, though. To me, I'm "doing fine" if I don't see anyone at all. To some "doing fine" is one appointment a month. To others "doing fine" is 4 a week. Some aren't "doing fine" unless they have 3 a day.