How many p411 okays is too many?

A little off topic but should P411 OK's be updated as to when you had your last appointment vs your 1st, if you've seen provider more then once?

Naomi is on a mission, keep them post coming girl !!

I know BDS but you know as well as I do very few threads stay "completely" on topic. They drift a little here and there, expand ect. ect.. At least we are all in the general ball park still lol.

The last thread I can remember that stayed completely and totally on topic was the one with 4,000 post where a lot of us in houston got our post whoring start

Ansley... Just a question. What do you believe. things you read, things others tell you, or what? We all provider's and hobbyists alike can only go by the resources available to us.

I will NOT see a man that sees a girl that engages in slipper slide. I will not see a man that sees a girl that engages in BBFS. I will NOT see a man that sees a girl that's known for blackmailing or outing. I will NOT see a man that sees a dirty girl(reviews say she smells, doesn't take care of herself). I will NOT see a client that sees a girl that uses drugs. Originally Posted by Naomi4u

Maybe you do everything in your power not to see those types of guys. How do you really know what they are doing and with whom?

Maybe you do everything in your power not to see those types of guys. How do you really know what they are doing and with whom? Originally Posted by Ansley

I have already explained why I do things. No point in giving you another explanation doll. Let's not "threadjack".

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Wow!

Serial hobbyist? Really?

Anybody else think there might be a double standard at work here?

Geeze, I have nine OKs right now, do I need to knock a few of them off?

I travel a lot, and sorry but it is way too expensive to bring my circle of favorites with me on the road, and besides familiarity breeds contempt, or something even more rotten.

At what point will I have to wear the scarlet letters when I go to a session?



Am I a whore? I feel so ashamed.

Ansley... Just a question. What do you believe. things you read, things others tell you, or what? We all provider's and hobbyists alike can only go by the resources available to us. Originally Posted by Eccie Addict

I read and listen to what others have to say. Do I believe it all? No. That would mean that I had full faith in a second party. I trust myself and my own instincts more than I trust the people around me.

Can we please keep it on topic? Just this once. Let me remind some of you that this thread is about Oks/references.

Isn't that what everyone pretty much is saying they do?

edited: I don't care

Damn right EA. I will NOT see a man that sees a girl that engages in slipper slide. I will not see a man that sees a girl that engages in BBFS. Originally Posted by Naomi4u

So I assume you won't see married men? They engage in BBFS with their wives, and no telling if their wives are actually faithful. I guess that rules out single men too...who knows what kind of activities they engage in with civilian women (who, in my opinion, are often riskier sexual ventures than providers). Many providers have SO's, does the BBFS they have with their spouses/boyfriends/whatever, count? No wonder you have lots of free time to post. You've narrowed your potential suitors to zero!

To stay on topic....the more okays I see, the better. It makes me very happy to see lots and lots of okays. You cannot have too many. You CAN, however, have too few. I won't see anyone with less than five okays, and I'd really prefer they had ten or more.

Damn right EA. I will NOT see a man that sees a girl that engages in slipper slide. I will not see a man that sees a girl that engages in BBFS. I will NOT see a man that sees a girl that's known for blackmailing or outing. I will NOT see a man that sees a dirty girl(reviews say she smells, doesn't take care of herself). I will NOT see a client that sees a girl that uses drugs. I don't know why this is so suprising to some but a lot of us screen both the client and the providers he has seen. As a provider , I'm at bigger risk for contracting a disease so to say that I am not going to see a man just because he has seen 40 women in 2 months that he could have contracted something is just silliy. My reasons go beyond that.

P.s Just FYI there are many ladies here on this board that engage in stripper slide/bbfs and guys still see them anyway. Yes geniuses. Originally Posted by Naomi4u

Maybe you do everything in your power not to see those types of guys. How do you really know what they are doing and with whom? Originally Posted by Ansley

OK Naomi, you'll never, ever know. Ever. I have a certain number of reviews I've written. I have more OKs than that on P411. I have seen more ladies than have given me OKs. I suspect a lot of guys are like that. Probably some guys ask ladies NOT to give them an OK if they are fairly current.

And you certainly don't know about a guy's civvie world. He may be rutting local girls one right after another. He may travel a lot and have a silver tongue, and be able to talk most any lady out of her panties. So he fucks from town to town. All bareback. He may do Greek bareback. You'll never know, especially if he spends a good deal of his time outside the hobby.

Can you take precautions? Sure. And you're doing it. But your method has some BIG holes in it. Are you going to be able to protect yourself and your health with your methods? Probably. But every guy who passes your screening brings to your session any bugs he might have gathered for about the last year or so from every gal (or guy) he fucked or fucked him. And you'll never know for sure what kind of conduct they engaged in BCD (BB or not).

Some screening is better than none. But it does not make you bulletproof.

So, to get back to the question at hand, IMHO, a lot of P411 OKs don't mean a thing other than the guy is (most likely) NOT LE.

Just my .02.

First of all, Let me recommend a program.



Some of you simply can't read. Hell some of you can't even use proper punctuation it's ok. There is still time to learn.

I meant what I said. I said that I will not see a man that sees a provider that engages in BBFS or stripper slide. If a man is having BBFS with his wife then that is his wife. The providers I am referring to will have BBFS with anyone that passes their screening for money (random men). I don't have unprotected sex with my clients like some of you ladies choose to do. Just because some of you engage in unsafe acts doesn't mean that the rest of us does and THAT is REAL!

Oh how would I know? Some ladies are so smart they advertise BBFS and stripper slide.. so it's easy to spot.

Charles,

Can you take precautions? Sure. And you're doing it. But your method has some BIG holes in it. Are you going to be able to protect yourself and your health with your methods? Probably. But every guy who passes your screening brings to your session any bugs he might have gathered for about the last year or so from every gal (or guy) he fucked or fucked him. And you'll never know for sure what kind of conduct they engaged in BCD (BB or not).

Some screening is better than none. But it does not make you bulletproof.
Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

Agreed! I never said it was.