Hmmm .... . I still can't understand why ???? Makes NO SENSE!

she resembles the french girl who stayed at my house about ten years ago.
She would walk around the house half naked and was only 18 at that time. Ahhh, I miss that rack. Originally Posted by Traveltheworld

And then you woke up...

Cristi I think the response you are getting from people in general is based on the fact that you alienated alot of customers here with your age requirements, your explanation for the no show no calls and your overall attitude that we should excuse you at every turn due to your age. You cant expect to be respected when you dont show any to anyone else and/or dont own your missteps. You asked for an antogonistic response with the way you framed your intial question. Tact is maybe the single biggest survival skill in the grown up world. With it you can ask anything and have it view as gental and benign. For example your attitude toward child support is flat out scary to me. Not expressing it at all would have been quite tactful considering your audience. For my hard earned money I will stick to my sugar babies and the occasional provider who takes what she does seriously.

I am not complaining about keeping them in stock and I am also not stating that I am going to stop supplying my own protection, and other necessitates.

All I am asking is what is the difference between me being prepared with protection and the gentleman being prepared with protection? We both make good enough money and we both have private lives on the side. Being caught with extra laying around or purchasing a high volume could hurt either one of our reputations ....and/or relationships.

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Thank you for the feed back to those who provided a good explanation. I now have a better understanding of the gentleman's point of view.
Originally Posted by Cristi Cutiepie

My OPINION is that the provider should always have them-I always do-but yeah I'll admit-I've had an appointment last minute and forgot-whoops-I figure if the guy brings them-he just has a preference-but we are the "provider" and in this "business" its like a banker without a pen-weird-but I wouldn't want any one I see to get "caught"-that would not be pretty-and I think it looks way better for a young girl to be seen at the walgreens getting a big ol' supply VS an older gentleman with a ring on his finger getting a 3 pack at the nearest gas station- Originally Posted by **Karla**

Karla's response is right on the money. Yes, the clients may make or have enough money to buy the condoms, but it is a cost of doing business as a provider/escort/companion. I think the difference is that the regular guy may see one or two providers a week (yeah there are those lucky bastards that have a budget to see a provider a day or more, but not everyone is that lucky) because of budget or being able to get away from home. So for them it may not make sense to have a box of condoms available.

Also, the female is running a business and the guy is basically a customer. If you don't keep them in stock you may lose a customer, however, if a guy does not have any he will just find a lady that does have them in stock and take his "gift" elsewhere.

Also, it does not seem that it is the gentlemen's point of view, but most of the people in these forums views.

One last question - what is the best way then for me to find out which kind and/or size of covers to provide for each client??? Asking straight out might be a mood killer. Originally Posted by Cristi Cutiepie

Just have a variety on hand. I buy lifestyles (reg size)...flavored ones...latex free...and a few Magnums...I also have a couple of female condoms that I've never tried. Like Pepper said...buy them online if you don't like buying them at the store.[/color][/b] Originally Posted by Likinikki

Great advice from Nikki. Also, her post make me think that maybe if you are wondering about a hobby issue in regards to providing or escorting or whatever you want to call it, why not approach one of the ladies that have been doing this for a longer time. Because lets face it, sure the guys may be able to provide you with some opinions (good or bad) in regards to how they think X or Y should be in regards to running a good provider business, but I think the best advice would come from someone that has been doing it right for some while.

Cristi-you said you were trying to just ask a question-but you sounded like you had a problem with it....Hmmm .... . I still can't understand why ???? Makes NO SENSE!....yet instead of questions marks you had explaination points-and this......And how can we start making that a normal thing so I can feel safer??
didn't make sense at all??? you feel SAFER?? If guys bring their own??
Hon, What is really bothering you? I really wish they would bring back the powder room-then maybe we could rage in so called-private?

Cristi:

Just an idea:

http://www.undercovercondoms.com/

Online venues offer more discretion if you are concerned with buying these at stores. It's really no a big deal. Self check-outs are ideal for this if you have to buy them at the store.

A

Personally I've bought from here before:
http://www.condomusa.com/

Spent like $30 I think the last time and received a variety pack of all kinds of stuff and a few 10 packs of things I liked. I think I purchased over a 100 in all.

Speaking of which if any provider would like what's left I haven't been able to use them as I picked them up before I started to have really bad latex allergy symptoms pop up on me. (Apparently continued exposer to latex makes it worse, fucking allergies and on that note FUCK POLLEN!!!!) Toss me a PM if you're interested.

Though there's also these sites:
http://www.condomdepot.com/?gclid=CN...Fc4M2god1nfRcQ
http://www.allcondoms.com/

I haven't tried them but I can say condomusa.com is pretty discreet.

And about asking the guy what they like? Why not? You could always start up the chat over PMs while screening, at the start of the session over a drink, and many other ways that wouldn't kill the mood.

Like I said in my first post I bring mine because a lot of providers don't keep latex-free on hand.

@LN: You rock for having latex-free! Also I don't think even dating that I've ever seen a female condom used. The curiosity has a hold of me again I might have to find a provider that will try one out just to see what it's like! (Though I don't know if they still make the latex-free one anymore)

I'm an ALIEN! So EXTRATERRESTRIAL!!!! Sorry Wrong Forum

Yet another CC self-posted alert.

I'm an ALIEN! So EXTRATERRESTRIAL!!!! Sorry Wrong Forum Originally Posted by Crispy1969

Haha Dork! :P

Nothing to add just wanted to be #100, you may continue...

This thread is dunzo

Please, somebody buy her a 1000 so this thread can die

athough these are still a little large for me

Originally Posted by latinalover

aheheheheh that's to cute....

Fellow "mature" members posting in this thread.

Ease up a little already. Cristi is cute. Nothing wrong with a young inquiring mind.

Heck, if I were 15 or 16 years younger, I would do her. I'm sorry - what was the topic of this thread again? Originally Posted by flinde

haheheh you just love the young ones...aheheheh...I can't wait to see her attitude when she gets to my age.. aheheheh

wow just, wow..................

sixx Originally Posted by sixxbach

+1

I am amazed! She opens her mouth and it just comes out! Originally Posted by Mossman

aheheheh

Hi CC,

I've been reading over your postings the past few weeks and I'm very puzzled...it seems some how you got into the 'hobby" without being taught the rules of the biz.....now this is coming from an ole "hooker" since you have a thing about age, titles, etc...not skills.....when I was taught the biz back in the day....I learned to carry the condom in my mouth and slide it on without the client even noticing it....it's part of the biz and I was a little older than you when I started back in the 80's and people weren't even buying comdoms.....I would get the funniest looks and I would turn around and tell them...you will be buying them too soon....and years later look what has happened...everyone is buying them.

Honey, if you want to live a long disease free life and respect yourself as woman you will buy them...period....

As far as your post about women being hookers because they are money hunger and just trying to have more kids....that is the new generation ...the old generation didn't have that tool available (child support)..if you weren't married....then you weren't allowed to just put anyone's name on the birth certificate....this new generation sees babies as a meal ticket and I do agree with that point...something needs to change, period no matter if they are a hooker or not.....

You also mentioned what if your BF found them....well...you need to start communicating with him....sneaking being a "escort" doesn't usually turn out well....especially, when they do find out....have you seen the site...The Dirty..aheheh...it's funny! Take Care...and don't let this biz get to you!

Sincerely,
Wet

Well-stated WV.

I always bring my own condoms - that way I'm sure I have my favorite since I don't know what the lady may have.

I don't think there's anything wrong with being referred to as a provider, you're providing your time, company, and a fun time. What's wrong about that?