Why do ladies think it's necessary to lie???

Are you saying that the providers who are in college are less likely to enjoy what they are doing as providers and are therefore more likely to lie to clients, or are you saying that many providers lie about needing money for college? Originally Posted by China Doll

I'm saying that there are just too many providers saying this to be actual. They advertise college girl wants to meet you all the time. No disrespect to anyone actually going to college but I would advise not bringing that up to make your business better

Some, if not all, of the following are lies that appear BCD. Why do ladies find it necessary to lie about these things?

1. "Your cock is so big/thick/long."
2. "You're such a good lover."
3. [She moans, moans, then screams as if she has an orgasm. Especially in DATY.]
4. "I should have brought a magnum."
5. "Oh, God, you're sooooooo deep in me!"
6. "Damn, you're good!"
7. [Pretends to love DFK/LFK.]
8. [She moans when you suck her nipples.]
9. [Other lies meant to build up your manliness.]

If you have others, add them on. Ladies, chime in if you have a halfway good defense. Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

I guess because it is a fantasy being played out and the illusion is to provide what " we " believe hobbyist want to hear. I can not say personally that I have not done or said anything that is not true in session. I DO NOT FAKE ORGASM , if it does not happen then its ok. The point is the hobbyist has an orgasm not me. If i do click and our bedroom skills match then yes I do and can multiple times. As an answer to #8 I moan because it feels good lol.

I guess my question would be , how do you know its faked? I enjoy DFK & LFK , DATY & I can orgasm if done right. Why do you assume because a lady is passionate she is faking it ?

Hmmmm, How about a thread asking, "Why do you gents use avatars that in no way shape or form look like you?" LOL. Originally Posted by Marcus Aurelius

It's an interesting question...as someone whose avatar is a picture of myself giving a massage to a young lady (not a provider, but rather a former web porn girl), I don't think I've seen any hobbyist avatars that actually include the hobbyist.

I'd like to think displaying a picture giving a woman a massage (albeit in an unusual position) is a bit of truth in advertising for calling myself "MajorHands".

With that said, I can understand a modicum of protective artifice during a session, while at the same time believe that it's possible to achieve truly genuine moments and interactions.

the guy lucky enough to be nibbling on your nipples i might be in a pretty joyfull mood. wow just seen your showcase amazing how do these 35 or 40 plus women in texas stay so hot. there must be a fountain of youth down there.

Charlestudor2005...u seem very bitter? everyone desires/needs different things. me thinks u just need to get fucked but not everyone needs/desires to"just get fucked." And i will moan if u lick/suck my nipples! i absolutely LOVE the warm wet tongue sensation. And the world goes round and round! Originally Posted by Cindy Jones

that is not true atleast not in my encounters...if if was all about the $$$$ than i won't email in between visits and if there are having a family issue i won't email to see how "mom" is doing" or how the "child or even wife is doing"..hell one of my regulars is in vegas as we speak with his wife for a special anniversary and i send him an special card telling him to have fun...so no it isn't all about lies and money....just speaking from my viewpoint

So, you agree. It's all a lie. At least the men are honest. They want a fuck. Ladies, OTOH, are trying to portray a "scene." But really, they only want $$$. Just the cash part of the transaction. And there is very little truth in a relationship either. SOs wind up lying to each other in lots of ways. Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

One of the biggest problems with being a "liar" is not that no one believes you.....

it is more that you do not believe anyone!

It holds pretty true I think, think about the people you have lied to, lol, do you believe what they tell you??

(yep, "just mine" and worth every penny you paid for it)

-PT-

I find lying to be such a pain! My poor feeble brain just can't keep up with all the details any more!

If you can't say something nice, just don't say anything! Right?

Having said that, I can usually find something good in everyone. I try my very best anyway.

dumb thread

Ditto

uummm what????? really??? did you seriously just say men don't lie????
I think someone is a little confused...that being you, charlestudor2005!
A better question might be why would you expect the truth???
This whole business is a lie...we use alias's..for christ sake there's your first clue...if you want some truth get a relationship...lol Originally Posted by viviantonight

People don't lie in realtionships?? Now that's an interesting thought!
Charles, you are great at getting us all going.
This is a game, a fun one, of course, but not real life. Then again, what is real?? My sister just found out her name isn't on her mortgage. Her whole marriage is a lie. I'd rather have a clandestine world where I can be whomever I want, and say whatever is appropriate in the moment, while knowing it is ficticious than have my whole world be built on quicksand.

Ladies: own your own real estate!! Now that's no lie.

Clair you are right on it..i am surprised no one noticed yestersday Charles loves postinng comments or question just see the reaction..I don't beleive he is trying to be negative....sorry for you sister

People don't lie in realtionships?? Now that's an interesting thought!
Charles, you are great at getting us all going.
This is a game, a fun one, of course, but not real life. Then again, what is real?? My sister just found out her name isn't on her mortgage. Her whole marriage is a lie. I'd rather have a clandestine world where I can be whomever I want, and say whatever is appropriate in the moment, while knowing it is ficticious than have my whole world be built on quicksand.

Ladies: own your own real estate!! Now that's no lie. Originally Posted by ClairJordan

In some ways lying is neccessary in this business. We use aliases and do everything possible to keep this life and our real lives seperate. I don't think it is right for the girls to lie by posting fake pics or ripping guys off just like i think its even worse for men to lie to get a free fuck. As long as the lying boosts your confidence and brings your fantasy to life, go with it!

I dont usually have alot of dialogue during sex, but when it comes to having a client there I dont want him to think im not into it because he doesnt know me, so i give him some encouragement to let him know im having some fun too.

So, you agree. It's all a lie. At least the men are honest. They want a fuck. Ladies, OTOH, are trying to portray a "scene. But really, they only want $$$. Just the cash part of the transaction. And there is very little truth in a relationship either. SOs wind up lying to each other in lots of ways. Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

Hell I'll tell ya .... You DAMN right it is all about the money Sometimes we all get lucky and click with someone sometimes we don't. But isn't real life kinda like that anyhow.

Lying is not a man thang or a woman thang it IS a HUMAN thang.

I love it!!!!!

OMG you're paying us to portray the scene....what is your deal? No, men are in no way shape or form honest. They are not honest about anything...HHEELLLOOO there is a reason your paying for a simulated relationship. You don't want honesty. To you honesty would sound like "you dumb piece of shit have you never been with a woman before?" or "I have a headache im going to bed...don't touch me."
Isn't better to just sit back and enjoy it? Even if it is a lie, who cares as long as its fun for both parties. Spend less time worrying about who is lying and more time worrying about how to really make her moan and scream.
You would be surprised how easy it is to forgive such a lie. We do it for you guys all day long! Originally Posted by viviantonight

you dumb piece of shit have you never been with a woman before?" or "I have a headache im going to bed...don't touch me."

Wow we know you really like your job