do i have to pay for something i dont want.
See... here's the thing. You don't HAVE to pay for ANYTHING. LOL. Nobody is putting a gun to your head and making you see escorts.
I don't know why this topic comes up so often. This industry is so easy a caveman could do it (and did do it). Why do people have to make it sound so difficult? What's so hard about finding someone who offers the services you want in your price range?? You look at ads. You narrow it down to the ladies you like. You check on their rates and either narrow it down based on your budget or save your money. Then you do your review "homework" (or don't). Then you call, make the appointment and have fun.
There are ladies in every price range... from $20 SW to Amy Taylor's $10,000 appointments. What NO lady (from the $20 SW to the Amy Taylors out there) appreciates is their rates coming under constant scrutiny from "hobbyists" on "boreds" (misspelling intentional). You may think it makes for good discussion. But don't be fooled into thinking that ladies who will read these boards see these posts and remember who is always complaining about rates. They remember. And they resent. Sure, they may see you anyway... but in the back of their head, they've connected your handle to "haggling," and the ladies who like to be haggled on their rates like a piece of merchandise (or any OBJECT, such as a piece of chocolate, for instance) are few and far between. Sure, you may have thought the session was alright, okay, or even great. But you'll never know how great it could have been if she thought she was seeing a perfectly respectful gentleman. Kindness and respect go a lot farther to earn hobby "incentives" than a few extra dollars do.