I understand your point of view, but have you ever considered that a lot of guys on here were/are long time lurkers? I admit I have been on the fence for a long time, but I don't take this stuff lightly because I have a lot to lose!
Meanwhile I started posting in coed for education (learn about the hobby) and entertainment (some of that shit is really funny).
Originally Posted by Tapper69
You just made the statement that a lot of ladies make too... having a lot to lose.
Yes, when it comes to screening, its a risk. Some ladies go rogue. But for those of us who are on the other side of the door-- we are literally gambling with our life each time we meet someone new. I've always joked that the rate is partially for pleasure, partially hazard pay.
The more "high risk" an individual makes himself appear... the harder time he's going to have overall with screening. That's just the hard luck nature of the game. Yes, some ladies will see you-- but by and large they are either going to be what you don't want... or they aren't going to provide references anyhow.. leaving you right where you started.
You said you're having good luck with sugar babies for now.. so this advice is more for someone who finds themselves in your predicament--- if you truly "cannot" give enough screning data to a lady and you have a lot of "red flags".... consider a screening site. P411, etc... it'll open more doors.