I prefer to hang out with talkative providers. I like to establish a human connection and get to know them. I like to know what we have in common, our backgrounds, struggles, what makes them tick, happy, etc. I'm actually turned off by providers who want to get straight to business and when it's over tell me to get the fuck out.
I hobby because I love "the thrill." I enjoy having an NSA relationship with the providers (who are fascinating) I see. Sure, I can go on Tinder and find someone, however quite often they tend to want something more deeper, and I'm at point in my life where that's not what I'm looking for.
I know I'm complex (aren't we all), but it's just how I'm wired.