Bella/Precious only sees White Males!

This topic is a third rail. No matter what side you come down on, someone will disagree with you. The dangerous assumption is that everyone should have the same opinions or views. People are shaped by their life experiences, you can't force your outlook on another person. I am willing to bet EVERYONE in this audience has practiced some kind of bias be it based on sex, color, nationality, religion, politics, socio-economic status, etc... So everyone can get off their fuckin' highhorse and try to accept it like adults, or keep dumping on the shitpile.....

Would someone post a link to an ad for any provider who won't see white guys? Just curious.

Feel free to send the black males my way!! Originally Posted by LusciousLacy

I'm a coming...

Would someone post a link to an ad for any provider who won't see white guys? Just curious. Originally Posted by jokacz

Good luck finding one

Jerks come in all shapes, sizes, creeds, & colors...It's ok for a Provider to "not see Black men" because it won't HURT her business. I'm pretty sure there are more white, hispanic, & asian men who participate in this hobby than black men

However, IMHO, Providers could NEVER exclude white men no matter how many jerks she sees...that would be "bad for business". Just Sayin'

I actually do know a few ladies who will not see white men.

Would someone post a link to an ad for any provider who won't see white guys? Just curious. Originally Posted by jokacz

I am braving the winter and the snow to get there, (crossing fingers).

But, I will have essence of vodka on me...

I wasnt meaning it to be mean, just my personal experience with AA men. Ive never personally smelled a lady only hear say. Reason for my preference for Caucasian men. None of the tude and pimp crap. The smell was the same.. AA is not the only race with a smell. Hey we smell like dogs! I didnt know us whiteys smell like a dog. he he Learn something new everyday. And dang I got to get some new shampoo then! I though we just smelled like burnt meat cause all the white girls go tanning and cook! ha ha (I know some men do too)

I see AA men, I have seen a few from this board. Im cool, a gentlemen is a gentlemen, I deal with "ethnic" smells, there is a difference from not being clean and the nature of your diet, race, products, etc.. what ever it is that gives us our "smell".

And you havent made it here yet! Now winter is coming bah! Now I just gatta come back to Texas! Coming back when its cold here!




Answer me this someone.. why do white men over 40 smell like pepperoni, smoked sausage, something..? Often.

I must smell like a grapey dog from all the wine I drink lately. Originally Posted by LynnT

You sir, have given me my giggles for the day, thanks. I will remember this when I see my next visitor, and I try not to laugh my butt off.

I'll answer the second one first.

Our meat is now old and wrinkly. What else would it smell like?

The good news is that dogs love us. Is there any wonder? We smell like smoked sausage. Originally Posted by NormalBob

Okay, I had to chuckle, that was funny.

There...fixed that for ya. If you're gonna TRY and call me out, at least do it the right way

Yall kill me

Carry on... Originally Posted by DickEmDown

Answer me this someone.. why do white men over 40 smell like pepperoni, smoked sausage, something..? Often.
Originally Posted by LynnT

You know what they say: "You are what you eat"....just call me "PussY"...

There...fixed that for ya. If you're gonna TRY and call me out, at least do it the right way Originally Posted by DickEmDown

I didn't have to TRY very hard. It worked.... and on the first attempt. You are too easy.

Take it to the Spider Hole son...that way you can REALLY let me know how you feel

In fairness, I don't like having incalls with black guys either. No offense Jedi...

In regards to my screening, I am a very strict screener and always extremely careful and picky about who I chose to spend MY time with. I chose to stay very low volume and be very selective about who I see, usually in Pittsburgh, Vegas, Erie, sometimes Buffalo... I get booked solid with regulars prebooking so I don't even have to bother with screening.
Screening has nothing to so with it though, I have learned that some girls are fine with being disrespected , taken advantage of, stolen from.... just so that they can get their (forbidden topic) money and give a good ref. That is why I am even pickier about who I see because not only do I screen them but I screen their references as well as their board presence.

More awesomeness Lexxxy!

This is such a bad subject because you usually end up having an argument comparing apples to oranges. You have one group that looks past the surface of the stereotypes and takes people experiences at face value which would allow for some fantastic discussion. Then you have the other group that just blatantly throws out the racist label at anyone who does not get in line and be politically correct sheep.

Yep, NBA is in effect upstate. I have been denied...many of times or emails not even returned. One popular provider in Syracuse even says in the FAQ of her website that she will see black men....when I mentioned to her I was interested in seeing her and that I was AA I got no response. She even stated she quickly answers emails. When I mentioned to her I was trying to contact her she got nasty with me and said i should have called her instead--lol. Luckily I was able to break my hobby cherry with a popular lady who didnt judge me andg ave me a chance. Thanks AG Like I said earlier the best bet for any minority will be to just email her ahead of time to see if she has any color preferences and PRAY she doesn't--lol. If she does, so be it and just move on. Being upset won't do anything. Originally Posted by BlackJedi

I don't think being black should place the burden on the hobbyist, to ask ahead of time if a provider will see members of his race.

I don't have to ask if they will see a white man under 5'10" who has abdominal scars and/or crooked teeth. Letting me waste effort and then informing me I am disqualified would be disrespectful of my time, to say the least. A restriction like that should be advertised up front, or on first contact, IMHO.

BJ if I thought you were white and you said a black hobbyist should have checked ahead of time, I might have raised an issue with you over that. It sounds a bit too much like saying it's partly his fault: he knows he's black and therefore should expect a problem.

I recognize that you're just trying to make the best of the situation vis-a-vis race in our society, and I totally respect a provider's right to be selective on any basis whatsoever that she chooses. Just a little TCB, like 99 said.

after seeing the reviews for Bella, I would have to say that your friend is fortunate that he did not have the chance to meet her.

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